How I knew Meghan is a familiar story. Childhood friends who lived on the same block growing up, who played together, went to the same schools, and now were now at the same local college. I saw her there, we’d chat, have lunch. Just old friends of many years. I was always drawn to Meghan, as she is a free spirit, extroverted, and funny. Definitely a lure for a shy fellow like myself. I won’t say that I didn’t notice how h...

It’s not every day that a guy is stripped, humiliated and ogled by a group of women. That happened to me. Embarrassing -- and how it came about was my own fault. Some would say it was bad luck. But not so fast; hear my story. I was in the men’s locker room of our university athletic center. I was taking a shower but when I turned the water off, I could still hear the sound of running water. Now, the women’s locker room is...

This is a story I hope my kids never hear about. College already is a time where people do crazy things, and I don’t want to give them a license to emulate their (once) crazy dad. So, this is just between us. Yes, it’s true that I was part of a group of 6 college guys, paraded naked, poked and examined before a packed house of co-eds. All for a good cause, of course – to raise money for the sorority. Don’t judge me too ha...

When we’re very young, boys and girls play together as a matter of course. Just humans interacting with each other. It’s only as we age that boy-girl relationships become complicated. The other sex becomes not friends, but ‘boyfriends’ or ‘girlfriends’ to denote a sexual orientation. Which brings us to Billy and Sarah. They lived on the same block as youngsters, and were fast friends at that innocent age before puberty. T...

My wife and I are not swingers. We’d never engaged in sexual activity with others, nor even thought of doing it. And we had no such intentions in mind when we knocked on the apartment door of two strangers on the Greek island of Santorini. Yet that’s what happened. Sometimes the simplest request can start a train of events. Our story started when we politely asked these strangers if we could strip our clothes off on their...

I was the head of the Physical Education department of our local college. The school had both men’s and women’s sports programs, but the women’s soccer team especially was our pride. The ladies were well regarded in their league, and were led by a fabulous woman coach. Actually, the operative word here is, “were” led. That coach’s success caused her to be recruited by a big college out West. She left us for more money and...

Sarah had met Billy a few weeks ago at a college social. He was nice, and they were compatible. But this was a new relationship, and one that hadn’t gotten physical yet, just some kissing. Not that Sarah wasn’t receptive; it was Billy who would break off physical contact and say he had to leave. He was was even careful not to look at her if she bent forward, and her blouse fell open. Very much the gentleman, she thought....

I was having a problem when visiting my girl friend Clarice in her apartment. Not with her; she’s great. It’s with her roommate, a young woman named Margaret. I was a regular visitor to their apartment in the evenings. And while I had to be discreet, I couldn’t keep my eyes off Margaret -- tall with full breasts and curves that beckoned to me. A blonde-haired beauty. Best of all, she was a free spirit. After work, she’d n...

As is the trend nowadays, our college dorm had men and women on the same floor, albeit in separate rooms. While more modern buildings provide a small bathroom for each unit, this older dorm building did not. The women’s bathroom and showers were at the east end of the floor, with the men’s being at the west end. People were accustomed to walking to those facilities in pajamas or robes. Occasionally they showed more skin i...

When Sarah agreed to attend the fraternity party that Saturday evening with a girlfriend, it never occurred to her that there was anything special going to happen. Yes, it was a frat with a bad reputation, one that had been suspended more than once for violating university rules, but that absolutely didn’t prepare her. It was advertised as a party to celebrate the birthday of the Greek God Bacchus. Now, of course, no one...

I’ve written previously about the Course on Human Sexuality at my university, offered by the psychology department. It is famous for its clinical exercises to push sexual boundaries. Once it had tipped a toe even into nudity among the classmates, albeit in a small way. At one after-hours session, groups of 2 men and 2 women were required to decide which one individual amongst them would participate in an assigned discussi...

My boyfriend, Bill, and I are dedicated gymgoers. We work out several times a week and prefer doing it late, as the gym is less crowded. At 10:30 one Friday evening, we finished our workout. As usual, hardly anybody else was there at that hour. I told Bill I wanted to spend some time in the ladies’ sauna before we left. He didn’t want to wait. To induce him, I said I’d sneak him into the sauna in the women’s locker room....

You wouldn’t think persuading college kids to have sex would be a challenge. But sometimes things aren’t as simple as they appear. I’ve previously written about my college’s psychology program on human sexuality, which consists not just of book learning, but clinical exercises. It was a transformative experience for me, and the pathway to guilt-free exploration of sexuality. It motivated me to enter the graduate program t...

It had been several weeks since that startling episode where Lucy left Ben strapped naked, arms and legs bound to the four corners of her dorm room bed. She’d gone outside to take a call, and returned to find three girls from the floor in with him. One fondling him, the other two, watching. Ben hadn’t exactly been scarred by the girls taking advantage of his helplessness. Making the best of the situation, he had even talk...

Like most dating couples in college, Ben and his girlfriend Lucy had a common interest. Yes, they were both Mets fans, but I’m talking about sex. More specifically, sex play where one partner controlled the other. As Lucy’s college roommate was away for the weekend, they had her dorm room to themselves. It was Ben’s turn. After he stripped off his clothes and lay naked on her bed, Lucy bound his hands and feet to the bed...