There is also the 'rule of three' to apply too... should your bf/gf give you a number.
Divide the man's number by 3.... and multiply the woman's number by 3. Not scientific I admit... but there may be just a little of truth behind it, though I'm sure no man or woman would ever admit it!
Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without. ~James C. Dobson
I have found that the more noise I make the stronger and longer the orgasm is. It kind of creates more energy within me- very much like why midwives say it is good for women to scream during childbirth as it actually creates energy.
Now, if someone should try to muffle my screams, moans etc... then that just sends the orgasm off the radar. But that is just a whole new topic!
Conny-sure thanks for your comments. I think the maintaining the erection thing could be the problem... and I think your suggestion of the arteries problem could be a real possibility. He had lead a pretty un-heart-healthy lifestyle in the past.
May suggest he has a bit of an MOT with the doctor,
Thanks again!
I was single for about 18 months when my husband and I separated. I quickly discovered many positive things, so a bit silly, but some quite deep.
Silly:
You get the whole sofa to yourself
You can fall asleep on it without somone pestering you to come to bed
When you do go to bed you get the whole bed to yourself
No towels/boxers/socks left on the bedroom/bathroom/any floor- unless you put them there yourself!
Deep:
Not responsible/answerable to anybody
Can learn to enjoy your own company again
Can just sit and think without being interrupted
No wondering what partner is up to/plotting/ thinking etc
For me my time as a singleton was very pleasant and I think has made me a far more emotionally strong person and I like myself again.
Hope this is positive enough for you.
x
Friday morning, right before we left for work.
Thank you for all your responses.
I think I may have to gently approach the subject with him, being mind-ful of his ego of course.
I have been advised to Ask The Guys, so here goes:
I have recently acquired a new 'mate' and his behaviour is quite new to me.
He has no trouble getting hard very quickly, which I know is obviously very good news, however the part that I'm curious about is this...
If we stop briefly to change positions, or just stop to catch our breath etc, then he instantly starts to masturbate himself... now I would have assumed, that he really shouldnt need to do that just to maintain his erection?
I am right, am I wrong???
I don't want to quiz him in case I am blowing this out of all proportion, but it kind of feels that maybe the idea of me, or the prospect of what is to follow isn't enough to keep him hard.
Any comments gratefully appreciated.
My very first 'new topic' and I'm hoping you friendly people can help me... please
I have recently acquired a new 'mate' and his behaviour is quite new to me.
He has no trouble getting hard very quickly, which I know is obviously very good news, however the part that I'm curious about is this...
If we stop briefly to change positions, or just stop to catch our breath etc, then he instantly starts to masturbate himself... now I would have assumed, that he really shouldnt need to do that just to maintain his erection?
I am right, am I wrong???
I don't want to quiz him in case I am blowing this out of all proportion, but it kind of feels that maybe the idea of me, or the prospect of what is to follow isn't enough to keep him hard.
Any comments gratefully appreciated.
My bf says he has had to dramatically alter his 'style' for fear of breaking me apparently. Has taken me a while to convince him that I am really quite tough!
There has been the odd incident where he nearly threw me off the bed, when all he intended was to move me over or around a little, but just adds to the fun really.
There is also the added bonus, he can easily carry me around or pin me against the wall without any struggle at all.
Never, never and I repeat never!
County Durham, northerner and proud!
