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My very first 'new topic' and I'm hoping you friendly people can help me... please

I have recently acquired a new 'mate' and his behaviour is quite new to me.

He has no trouble getting hard very quickly, which I know is obviously very good news, however the part that I'm curious about is this...

If we stop briefly to change positions, or just stop to catch our breath etc, then he instantly starts to masturbate himself... now I would have assumed, that he really shouldnt need to do that just to maintain his erection?

I am right, am I wrong???

I don't want to quiz him in case I am blowing this out of all proportion, but it kind of feels that maybe the idea of me, or the prospect of what is to follow isn't enough to keep him hard.

Any comments gratefully appreciated.
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I think you should do the hand job for him. Sounds like he could be so in the moment with you, that he doesn't want to let you down.

Speak to the guys and see what they say.
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Gotta agree with HoneyBee on this one.

It would also be kinda hot if you could manage to work in the 'hand job' portion of events.
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... don't be afraid to use your mouth either, it works for me!
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Some guys cocks just don't migically stay hard without external stimulation. Also many times a man's sexual performance has nothing to do with how much you turn him on a very common misconception women seem to have. Sometimes the plumbing just needs a little extra assistance and I love to watch a man stroke try sucking on his balls while he's stoking it otherwise I don't see what the problem is?
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It has nothing to do with him not liking or him not being intrested in you he is just maintaining his erection hard for you.


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This may sound odd, but he might be mimicking guys from porn. Guys in pornos tend to self-stimulate when switching positions, etc. I guess it's to keep themselves from going soft. He may have gotten the impression that the practice is normal from watching too much porn.

Then again, it might just be a simple thing like he wants to be his hardest for you when you actually go at it.

I wouldn't be offended, more than likely the behavior is being done to impress you and not to replace you. I would, as suggested above, grab it before he gets the chance and keep him going until you get to the next "step".

Be offended only if he leaves the room and finishes without you, which I seriously doubt will happen. smile
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It has nothing to do with him not liking or him not being intrested in you he is just maintaining his erection hard for you.


But that's what a fluffer is for

Which brings me to my suggestion. Maybe you could invite another person along to keep him occupied while you adjust yourselves. I don't know him but I'd say he might appreciate it?
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I think maybe this is being over analyzed. I would just ask him about it but maybe he just likes how it feels and is very comfortable doing it in front of you...which is a compliment. Girls - don't we sometimes touch ourselves down there if there is a position change just because it feels good? I do.
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Could be many reasons, as mentioned above. It is completely normal. The best advice, as with 99% of relationship advice, is to sit down and talk about it together. I've learnt trying to second guess things, you'll normally guess wrong.
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how old is he - i'm 45 and my cock doesn't always stay rampant during interruptions, sometimes however it takes longer to get there but once fully engorged & throbbing (sorry love that mental image) it there for the duration. I assumed that everyone got this with age? If he's a young guy ignore all of the above. Perhaps a pic of him wanking would have helped!

One other effect i think of age - you rarely get the porno star gush of cum, pisses me off i tell yer!