I caught this on a feed of mine. It's about two months old, and I did a forum search to make sure we were not covering old ground. The question is; Are you influenced by the porn you watch? Influenced enough to engage a cosmetic surgeon to clean up the untidy bits? After I watched this segment, I thought to myself "What kind of crack are they smoking?" Not only are sexual pieces parts a lot like finger prints; each one with a personality and beauty all of their own. But as a 25 yr user of PhotoShop, and having retouched thousands of pictures of woman to meet the cultural meme of the moment, I find it hard to believe that a woman would want to have a cookie cutter cunny.
I would love to hear any insights ...
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Would you consider a labiaplasty?
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Frankly if you are hung up enough on looks that you worry what your vagina looks like then you need to see a different kind of doctor.
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All I can say is WTF??? You gotta be kidding!
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WTF!? Was pretty much my opinion. However a friend of mine was was born in the Netherlands immigrated to the U.S. and said that some woman had issues with his intact foreskin. So he underwent cosmetic circumcision so that he would look like everybody else in the gym. So I guess men and woman will focus on the strangest things.
The ironic thing, of course, is that the women in the magazines, DON'T have neat and tidy (?) bits which is why they (need?) are Photoshopped to begin with.
The ironic thing, of course, is that the women in the magazines, DON'T have neat and tidy (?) bits which is why they (need?) are Photoshopped to begin with.
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Okay, my experience and life aren't like most people, but this gets talked about between the people I work with.
I work at an all-nude club, and because of that, lots of the girls are self-conscious about the way their kitty looks, because it's on display- both on stage and for individual dances. Any joking around about it can be kind of brutal- talking about a girl's 'bubble gum' or 'beef curtains'. Some girls have talked about getting the surgery to trim themselves up. They feel like the guys like the girls with less flappy labias better, and that those girls are making more money and considered sexier. It seems stupid, I know- but in that world, every part of a girl's body matters to the bottom line. Self esteem is one thing, and making as much cash as possible is another.
As for me, I"m not tight as a drum down there, but I also don't have a lot of excessive flabby labia either. I'm satisfied with what I have, but like MMonroe says, if my body was different and I was in the same career as I am now- then it wouldn't seem like such a crazy idea.
I work at an all-nude club, and because of that, lots of the girls are self-conscious about the way their kitty looks, because it's on display- both on stage and for individual dances. Any joking around about it can be kind of brutal- talking about a girl's 'bubble gum' or 'beef curtains'. Some girls have talked about getting the surgery to trim themselves up. They feel like the guys like the girls with less flappy labias better, and that those girls are making more money and considered sexier. It seems stupid, I know- but in that world, every part of a girl's body matters to the bottom line. Self esteem is one thing, and making as much cash as possible is another.
As for me, I"m not tight as a drum down there, but I also don't have a lot of excessive flabby labia either. I'm satisfied with what I have, but like MMonroe says, if my body was different and I was in the same career as I am now- then it wouldn't seem like such a crazy idea.
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Okay, my experience and life aren't like most people, but this gets talked about between the people I work with.
I work at an all-nude club, and because of that, lots of the girls are self-conscious about the way their kitty looks, because it's on display- both on stage and for individual dances. Any joking around about it can be kind of brutal- talking about a girl's 'bubble gum' or 'beef curtains'. Some girls have talked about getting the surgery to trim themselves up. They feel like the guys like the girls with less flappy labias better, and that those girls are making more money and considered sexier. It seems stupid, I know- but in that world, every part of a girl's body matters to the bottom line. Self esteem is one thing, and making as much cash as possible is another.
As for me, I"m not tight as a drum down there, but I also don't have a lot of excessive flabby labia either. I'm satisfied with what I have, but like MMonroe says, if my body was different and I was in the same career as I am now- then it wouldn't seem like such a crazy idea.
Maybe it's just me, but I like prominent labia. I had a girl friend who's labia would drastically change colors when she was excited. (Go from soft pink to dark red.) I don't visit many clubs anymore, but I would honestly pay more to see something exceptional if I did.
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Okay, my experience and life aren't like most people, but this gets talked about between the people I work with.
I work at an all-nude club, and because of that, lots of the girls are self-conscious about the way their kitty looks, because it's on display- both on stage and for individual dances. Any joking around about it can be kind of brutal- talking about a girl's 'bubble gum' or 'beef curtains'. Some girls have talked about getting the surgery to trim themselves up. They feel like the guys like the girls with less flappy labias better, and that those girls are making more money and considered sexier. It seems stupid, I know- but in that world, every part of a girl's body matters to the bottom line. Self esteem is one thing, and making as much cash as possible is another.
As for me, I"m not tight as a drum down there, but I also don't have a lot of excessive flabby labia either. I'm satisfied with what I have, but like MMonroe says, if my body was different and I was in the same career as I am now- then it wouldn't seem like such a crazy idea.
Maybe it's just me, but I like prominent labia. I had a girl friend who's labia would drastically change colors when she was excited. (Go from soft pink to dark red.) I don't visit many clubs anymore, but I would honestly pay more to see something exceptional if I did.
That's a good point- it's not always the size that girls feel embarrassed about, it's sometimes the shape, and if it looks like it's just hanging. Another issue is with the color. But people are starting to bleach them now too, so that helps with the color.
I get a little bit puffy too, but nothing like some girls do! I can see why that's a huge turn on, and also why it's such a painful surgery.
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I knew someone who had such a complex about hers the NHS paid for her to get it done...I mean why fix something that only a lover can see...If a guy complains about it then he isn't worth sleeping with...the penis isn't the most beautiful looking thing in the world
Somebody once said that our genitals are born 90 years old and we grow into them. ;-)
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the penis isn't the most beautiful looking thing in the world
The paint brush is.
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I knew someone who had such a complex about hers the NHS paid for her to get it done...I mean why fix something that only a lover can see...If a guy complains about it then he isn't worth sleeping with...the penis isn't the most beautiful looking thing in the world
Somebody once said that our genitals are born 90 years old and we grow into them. ;-)
yeah (smiles)
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Okay, my experience and life aren't like most people, but this gets talked about between the people I work with.
I work at an all-nude club, and because of that, lots of the girls are self-conscious about the way their kitty looks, because it's on display- both on stage and for individual dances. Any joking around about it can be kind of brutal- talking about a girl's 'bubble gum' or 'beef curtains'. Some girls have talked about getting the surgery to trim themselves up. They feel like the guys like the girls with less flappy labias better, and that those girls are making more money and considered sexier. It seems stupid, I know- but in that world, every part of a girl's body matters to the bottom line. Self esteem is one thing, and making as much cash as possible is another.
As for me, I"m not tight as a drum down there, but I also don't have a lot of excessive flabby labia either. I'm satisfied with what I have, but like MMonroe says, if my body was different and I was in the same career as I am now- then it wouldn't seem like such a crazy idea.
I'm a photographer and I've done my fair share of work with models, and also have dated a stripper. I can tell you that among women who make their living showing off their kitty, this matters. Girls with excessively long labia minora hanging down are less in demand, whether that's for lap dances or photo spreads, than girls with a perfectly proportioned pussy. Right or wrong, that's how it is. I think I can see having this procedure done if it's an investment in your career, assuming your career involves showing off your cootch, but otherwise I don't think it's worth it.
I agree with the sentiment that if only lovers are really seeing this part of you, then they don't deserve it if this bothers them. But if you've made the choice to put your pussy on display for pay, it might be worth doing because from my experience, you will make more money. In other words, do it for money if you want to, ladies, but please, don't do it for love.
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Some friends and I got into this conversation a few years ago... discussing which of us had a "burger or a bun" (that's how one of the girls-phrased it...LOL... not my analogy).
Anyway... I hadn't really realized how self-conscious this can make some women.
As people watch porn and see vids with the tighter labia set as the 'standard for sexiness", then the rest of us (men and women) decide to buy into this too... that this is how we are all supposed to look... Kind of sad really....
It actually makes me wonder (for the men out there), if they have noticed a difference in their sexual pleasure having sex with a woman with a tighter labia structure versus a more 'fleshy' one?
To answer the Q on a more personal level. I would never have it done (but I am a 'bun' anyway so there is not much to trim/alter). If a woman is seriously concerned about how hers looks, or it inhibits her sex life (or success if she is in the adult entertainment industry), then she should absolutely have that option to make whatever changes she wants to, if it will improve her self confidence.
Anyway... I hadn't really realized how self-conscious this can make some women.
As people watch porn and see vids with the tighter labia set as the 'standard for sexiness", then the rest of us (men and women) decide to buy into this too... that this is how we are all supposed to look... Kind of sad really....
It actually makes me wonder (for the men out there), if they have noticed a difference in their sexual pleasure having sex with a woman with a tighter labia structure versus a more 'fleshy' one?
To answer the Q on a more personal level. I would never have it done (but I am a 'bun' anyway so there is not much to trim/alter). If a woman is seriously concerned about how hers looks, or it inhibits her sex life (or success if she is in the adult entertainment industry), then she should absolutely have that option to make whatever changes she wants to, if it will improve her self confidence.
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... In other words, do it for money if you want to, ladies, but please, don't do it for love.
Sorry for taking it out of the context, but this sentence is just too funny and very truth not to be. Thank you for making me laugh!
You're right... taken out of context, this is the opposite advice I might give on other obvious topics... Very funny!
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I may not be as tight as some girls, but I do not see anything wrong with the present lay of the land down there,nor has any playmates, male or female, complained.
But is it not like all other cosmetic surgery, if it will solve the problem in your head and you have The$, why not.
But certainly if you are an entertainer, or an escort and it will maximize your cash flow, you all know the answer.
But is it not like all other cosmetic surgery, if it will solve the problem in your head and you have The$, why not.
But certainly if you are an entertainer, or an escort and it will maximize your cash flow, you all know the answer.
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I am as you all know a mother of three lovely young men. I was always worried about how I look down there because after giving birth to very large sons.
1. oldest son weighed 11 pounds 8 ounces.
2. middle son weighed 13 pounds 9 ounces.
3. my baby son weighed 8 pounds 11 ounces.
I had worried that my labia's were too long and way to stretched out. So I had consulted my GYN doctor and she said it can be a health risk causing a woman to get more vaginal infections that we have our labia's to protect our selves from dirty elements and too keep bad things from entering us. She also said that I would run a risk of loosing sensation in my outer vagina. so I guess what ever a man sees he had better like my kitty the way it is. Because I weighed out the pro's and con's and I will keep my sexy long labia's. just as I am I guess you could say there will be more for a guy to suck on.....LOL
1. oldest son weighed 11 pounds 8 ounces.
2. middle son weighed 13 pounds 9 ounces.
3. my baby son weighed 8 pounds 11 ounces.
I had worried that my labia's were too long and way to stretched out. So I had consulted my GYN doctor and she said it can be a health risk causing a woman to get more vaginal infections that we have our labia's to protect our selves from dirty elements and too keep bad things from entering us. She also said that I would run a risk of loosing sensation in my outer vagina. so I guess what ever a man sees he had better like my kitty the way it is. Because I weighed out the pro's and con's and I will keep my sexy long labia's. just as I am I guess you could say there will be more for a guy to suck on.....LOL
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I would definitely consider, but i don't know if I'd go through with it. I'm fairly smooth as far as the outline goes, but i know i am disappointed with how it looks. I just can't stand hanging labia. I'm sorry. Anytime I see one I cringe and get disgusted: blame it on porn if you want, i've never been able to look at them.
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No, no, hell no!
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I wouldn't - because I'm quite happy with how stuff is down there. It's neat and tidy as far as I can tell - I don't have that dangly thing where my labia dangles down outside my labia majora...
However if it wasn't neat down there I'd probably consider it, since I'm overly body-concious anyway, but I doubt I'd actually have it done...
However if it wasn't neat down there I'd probably consider it, since I'm overly body-concious anyway, but I doubt I'd actually have it done...
i've wondered about having a trim perhaps but only so that my clit is perhaps more visible........BUT when i'm aroused its clearly bloody visible and if the person doenst know where to look or doenst listen when told or shown where it is then even having the outer lips trimmed wouldnt be of any help to the dumb ass LOL
Porn movies have a lot to answer for......not only is it the size, shape, colour or labs and clits, bushes etc its the whole body shape and size issue as well.
Porn movies have a lot to answer for......not only is it the size, shape, colour or labs and clits, bushes etc its the whole body shape and size issue as well.
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NO WAY !!!
I'm very attached to my labia
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I'm very attached to my labia
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I think it's insane to do the procedure just for cosmetic reasons!!! Besides I tend to favour looking at bigger labias, I think mine would fall somewhere in the middle( the hubby thinks it looks like a little clam sticking it's tounge out.lol.) Anyways I would think the more the labia, the more the nerve endings, so in turn better the feeling. Also on the plus side it gives more to look at it's more erotic looking, and more to play with and suck on. Sure it's not the standered cut of the mill porn quality pussy it's better. I think it should be opposite they should be offering this procedure to make small labias larger.
Sorry for sticking my nose in here, girls ... hmm... wouldn't be sorry if I was sticking my nose in... (topic)
My thoughts exactly
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Because I weighed out the pro's and con's and I will keep my sexy long labia's. just as I am I guess you could say there will be more for a guy to suck on...
My thoughts exactly
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The sort of labia Australia chooses to allow is indeed lovely but it's certainly some fucked-up shit that the censors there only allow one type. Au natural women are always better than surgically altered types and it's quite horrible that they essentially shame women into surgery to "correct" their bodies.