I have a limited amount of experience with BDSM, but it has become a major part of my sex life due to my wife’s interest. As previously described, porn has been an integral part of my marital sex life. Early in our marriage. my Catholic-school-educated wi...
I published a piece entitled “Sexual Awakening” which was the second “chapter” in the series “My Sexual Odyssey.” Within these pages I am recounting my multi-decade journey to live out, deal with, and confront my sexual fantasies, desires, and curiosities...
My sexual explosion surprised me. I was 31 years old. I had slept with (more precisely, made love to, had intercourse with, fucked) one woman – my wife of seven years (and girlfriend of seven before) and done little more than heavy petting with a couple o...
My affair over, my sex life returned to normal: a few times per month a quick fuck (split-level house put the bedrooms close together, my son would be up late, and my wife was “intimidated” by the kids’ presence). Jerking off became a much more common occ...
I saw an uptick in my business travel during the mid-nineties, which meant more time (forced) away from home. It peaked as the decade drew to a close at about 135-plus days annually. I spent as much time at home as possible but had little choice about my...
I have loved Las Vegas since my first business trip there in the early eighties. I love it because of its “open-all-night” vibe, one even stronger than New York City’s (another metropolis on my love list). In addition, it was the first place where the con...
