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black1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
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Quote by ChandlerAja2
Sorry, as written in the initial question I did not read to mean it was about sexual assault and reading other responses maybe it could have been written in a different manner.
Nobody agrees with sexual assault.
Rereading it again they may have meant those events that were not planned and left us in an unexpected condition.
I agree its about the unexpected accident like those that you see in the Carry on Films .
Me and the Mrs were walking behind a group of elderly teens . One had a really big gaping hole in the back of her leggings and clearly she was wearing a thong. My Mrs went up to one of the group to point it out to her and so she could cover herself up before any others made any comments. Personally I just cant see the value of leggings apart from working out in as they are so thin and easily wear out.
If your happy with the way you look then that is all that matters . You may just need a new set of scales. Another tip is make sure you weigh yourself once a week in the same spot at the same time and day. First thing in the morning is best after using the loo before you have anything to eat or drink. You also need to weigh yourself without clothes or with the same clothes . Clothes can add considerable weight on.
You can only overcome her objections by discussing it. If then she is still not comfortable , then perhaps you should leave it. To try and force something on an unwilling partner is wrong and they will only resent it .
A good tip is to do a sex survey on each other say after every 6 months and then compare answers to establish new boundaries . It just keeps the excitement going especially in marriage in my case when you are with just one partner.
A good tip is to do a sex survey on each other say after every 6 months and then compare answers to establish new boundaries . It just keeps the excitement going especially in marriage in my case when you are with just one partner.
Quote by Lauradj
What does that have to do with the original post? Also, I'd argue that is not true.
I agree on both accounts. IMO guys don't complain enough
I did complain when a lady pinched my ass and grabbed me from behind . At first I thought it was my Mrs until I noticed the jewellery was different. I reported the incident to the manageress of the cabaret nightclub and she was removed from the premises .
Also not all women like their big boobs for example . My Mrs is one of them but has to make do with what she has .My self and other guys do like them .
Quote by LYFBUZ
I used to get spoken to at work because of my decidedly casual attitude to office attire. Then I started wearing Italian suits but had a wild spiky haircut that used to infuriate senior management. These days I dress fairly well for work but almost never wear a tie and my suit jacket usually stays on a coat hook. I've never understood the reasoning of putting a noose around your neck to start the day.
I agree , however you can still look smart or smart casual without the need for a tie. I never wear a tie but still go out reasonable smart .
Quote by BelCantar
A cockring sits at the base and acts as a mild stimulator. ( Some, like the Oh-rings have a head which stimulates the clit of partner. Great, mutual fun.)
The other kind is a glans ring, which fits into the groove at the base of the cockhead. Obviously, this doesn't go into partner, so please don't worry about metal inside.
For us men, both kind of rings can be quite pleasurable. After all, we are programmed to explore tight holes, so a bit of resistance is an reminder of our purpose in life.
I agree and going one step further a vibrating cock ring with various speeds and vibrations can stimulate both parties .The negative side of these they can make you cum too quickly but for those who have a touch of ED , I would give them a go .
Try with her on top ie cowgirl or reverse cowgirl position.That way she has full contol of how deep she can go without feeling uncomfortable.
Quote by DazzlingLove
Blame it on rock and roll
I agree
However I think that depends on what type of rock and roll. I have been into prog rock for many years and the wearing of a tailored sports jacket ,collared shirt with jeans was one of the in things in the 70 s .That's approx when the wearing of a smart jacket coupled with denims first appeared. Roughly around 40 years ago and I continue with this dress style today.
Quote by alison90
Complicated. I don't approve of cheating but it's not my job to police them. If a man comes on to me I don't ask if he's single. Even if he is married, he may be in an open relationship. If not, he is the one cheating, not me.
That is fair comment . This ties in with my post of me not starting anything off .
We were at our usual cabaret/nightclub. Basically its a night club aimed at the over 30s with acts and music tailored to suit . Quite pertinent to this thread, my wife commented on a row of " pathetic looking guys" ( her words) propping the bar up with a bottle of beer wearing jeans that they probably worn all week and hiding their beer bellies with baggy T shirts . All of them looked very similar with the same pose and the same brand of beer ! I am sure they are expecting a single lady to fall at their feet and ask them out . Dream on !
I think if your single guy, one needs to stand out from the crowd and not just be a part of it. Dress and grooming is a place to start IMO.
I think if your single guy, one needs to stand out from the crowd and not just be a part of it. Dress and grooming is a place to start IMO.
Quote by RikkiSue
I love being smartly dressed, something I learned from my mother. It infuriates my daughter that I don't do casual very well
Obviously you have style and class . I think its also easier to dress down if you feel that you are over dressed on certain occasions. Just the removal of a tailored jacket for example can make a big difference .
This thread is interesting and it seems married men in the main are off limits.
However in my experience this does not tally with me as I get a very lot of attention from single women .Most will want me to make the first move which isn't going to happen but the odd one will come onto me .
However in my experience this does not tally with me as I get a very lot of attention from single women .Most will want me to make the first move which isn't going to happen but the odd one will come onto me .
I have been watching plenty of older films set in the early 60s recently and couldn't help noticing how much smarter people used to look. Guys with suits or tailored jackets with a shirt and tie and ladies in smart dresses. When I used to go to the local nightclubs in the 80s and 90s there was a no jeans rule. Nowadays slashed jeans seem to be fairly common on both genders when going out and in particular guys tend to dress more casually. I still think many ladies still make an effort and seen many couples with the lady wearing a dress and the guy jeans and T shirt.
I am just wondering if this is a reflection on society of today with more of us drinking at home perhaps socialising with friends over a barbecue ? Nearly half the pubs in my home town have closed since the 90s and many are still struggling with just a bit of weekend trade to look forward to .There are probably far less people going out at weekends than yesteryear negating the need for smart dress,
I am just wondering if this is a reflection on society of today with more of us drinking at home perhaps socialising with friends over a barbecue ? Nearly half the pubs in my home town have closed since the 90s and many are still struggling with just a bit of weekend trade to look forward to .There are probably far less people going out at weekends than yesteryear negating the need for smart dress,
My advice would be cautious . I used to work in a bank were obviously there were many female staff and had plenty of opportunities . I decided to play safe and never dated any of them . I just think it could make things awkward after a relationship ended.
But going back to the body language of your lady here, from what you have posted there are signs that she is into you . The fussing with the top isn't necessary making it more sexual for you its more of a subconscious nervous reaction and the display of her neck , which are all signs when someone is interested in you . Sometimes ladies play with their hair and may twirl it through their fingers as well.
The ball is in your court here and she is waiting for your next move in my opinion. You will need to make your next move soon otherwise she could and will begin to lose interest as she has "played her cards here" . In my experience ladies don't like to be kept waiting too long.
Good luck
But going back to the body language of your lady here, from what you have posted there are signs that she is into you . The fussing with the top isn't necessary making it more sexual for you its more of a subconscious nervous reaction and the display of her neck , which are all signs when someone is interested in you . Sometimes ladies play with their hair and may twirl it through their fingers as well.
The ball is in your court here and she is waiting for your next move in my opinion. You will need to make your next move soon otherwise she could and will begin to lose interest as she has "played her cards here" . In my experience ladies don't like to be kept waiting too long.
Good luck
If you have keys I would take the bull by the horns and go around unannounced and then only leave once you have answers. I think a 15 year relationship justifies the need for answers. This situation I would imagine is driving you crazy and you need it sorting one way or another as you are better than this . For him to treat you this way is bordering on being childish and he needs to grow up . You could also easily justify a visit and access by saying you need some of your belongings .
Don't panic ,Don't panic as Corporal Jones would say in Dads Army . You only 26 and therefore have plenty of time on your side, I bump into singles much older than you .Keep socialising with friends and when out don't chase girls let them chase you, There are lots of eye contact and body language videos on You Tube .Watch and learn how to read the signs. Also think of your wardrobe and grooming and make yourself look the best and not just one of the crowd, Basically your selling yourself to the highest bidder.
Good luck
Good luck