The cat decided to jump on us in the heat of the moment .
I have been approached at bars by Bisexual or gay guys enquiring if I was. However, I am straight as I cant find anything sexually attractive about my own body let alone another guys although I keep myself fit and toned . A guys body to me including my own is more functional . A woman's body however is a thing of beauty with all of those gentle curves and I can understand why some women are bisexual and/or lesbians .
I am ExLovehoney but use a different username .Can't say I have seen you before but welcome and hope you stick around,
I am not sure that I would be able to identify some of my Exces. I have been with my current partner now for 30 years so doing the maths ,my most recent Ex would have been of 30 plus years ago. Women often look different to how they did 30 years ago.
I would respect their wishes to remain secret .
I think its fair to say that the ladies tend to be better at using it and reading it than some of us guys. I was caught on a hook on Saturday night whilst in a Cabaret Nightclub . This very attractive lady with exceptional laser blue eyes held me in her gaze for about 5 seconds and then did 2 slow winks and held me there for another 3 seconds before I broke free and returned a smile . I visited the Gents to search my memory banks as I did know this person. When I returned she was busy chatting away to my wife. She works part time at the post office where I post my invoices . She looked totally different in the night club environment. She was with her own partner as well so I hadn't had chance on finding out what her intentions were that night.
Yes when I was in my final year at school . We had a very attractive Geography teacher who used to wear very tight trousers. It was her who got me into appreciating VPL and female rears if being honest . I don't think I was alone , I think many of the other guys fantasised about this teacher as well. This was probably my only teacher crush.
Open Relationships are fine and isn't cheating . This is something that is normally discussed and stated at the outset of the core relationship forming. Therefore both partners should be in agreement.
If someone is cheating then a way to deal with it is to find out why this happened. It could be that one party of the relationship has been neglected for example sex or taken for granted. Therefore discussion and counselling could be the way forward if the core relationship is worth saving . This is sometimes the case especially if kids are involved.
Obviously I would just say a polite "Hello" but in the main they are Exces for a reason .
There is only one that I could reignite feelings for and that was for my first ever girlfriend. We never really "finished" as such but her fathers job took her to the opposite side of the country. Back then you didn't have the technology of today whereby long distance relationships can flourish. Out of around 20 previous partners she is the only exception .
A very good question.
Not really and neither would I ask for one. IMO and I dare say others will have differing views but my view is, its just a licence to "cheat ". The problem could arise if it goes beyond the "night of passion" as emotions could be at play. This could place pressure on the core relationship .
I just think there are perhaps, "safer" alternatives to managing different sex drives such as the use of toys .
I think giving a hall pass is risky .
Well I was handcuffed to a table during a role play when my Mrs played the part of the cop if that counts. She is normally the submissive so it was a pleasant change .
You have to be careful on the choker situation. I raised this point in the "En Vogue" section . As its now quite a fashionable accessory at the moment with ladies the choker isn't going to be a good indicator .Normally its just getting talking to people that you find out.
Most cases yes. But if she has spent all afternoon drinking coffee , it can taste a little bitter down there. I have heard pineapple juice sweetens things up but believe large quantities would need to be consumed to have the desired effect .
Thanks for responding .Cant honestly say I have seen the latter . Most people I have seen do look younger after losing weight . But its like anything else , it is possible to go too far and lose too much weight. The part I found most difficult was when I reached my target and trying to just maintain my new existing weight as my diet at that time was geared up for losing weight.
I have been on the receiving end in a busy local bar .
Not if there is a risk of being seen by children . Also if in a foreign country you need to be aware of the laws in that country .
If it is a fantasy as AliceDee suggested above ,then if your boundaries with your partner allow it you could act this out in a role play setting. We do a lot of role playing and it does add another dimension in our relationship.
Well no, your not alone. One of the reason I responded is that I am on the receiving end.
There are 2 ladies that go to the same nightclub( over 30s) as me and my Mrs every Saturday. Both have got a school girl type crush on me and my Mrs is watching them like a hawk and ready to pounce should they try and take things further . The difference between these ladies and yourself is that they as far as I know both are single and your not .At end of the day they are both wasting their time even though one would be my type. This has been going on now for 6 months and the other 3 months . Sometimes it can be a little unnerving knowing someone is watching every move you make . Not quite as bad as stalking though.
