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black1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
0 miles · England
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Try to forget about her. Your married right ? If you get so obsessed with this woman it could easily ruin your marriage and everything you have. Is it worth it? I don't think so . You need to learn how to admire people and pay people compliments without getting obsessed about them.
I am not gay or Bi so this is just as general comment on Tattoos from my own point of view. Most look OK if the artist is good at his work . Obviously a poor artist will give you a poor tattoo. So research and recommendations may be necessary. IMO age doesn't matter and obviously once you have them at younger age it stands to reason that they will still be there when your older unless removed by laser treatment . Too many tattoos can look a little messy to me but others may have a different view .
Quote by Bisubslut69
My husband has never asked me to do this, but my lovers have and I did it for them.
Next time you are out ,just do it and watch him get flustered !
I did it with my Mrs ( I placed my boxers in her hand bag ) and she just went all red and flustered . Something she wasn't expecting !
Quote by centillini
well, last weekend, my g/f and I got into a great session. She loves to be spanked, even if that is all, she loves it. Well, after we got up out to breakfast and back home, we cuddled and watched some TV, relaxing. She got up to get a drink and came back. I looked at her and said "where is mine". She paused a moment, that is when I said, "lay across my lap". Her eyes lit up, smile on her face and almost dove across it. She had on shorts, of which I pulled down, as she "coooed". I then let my hand run all over her ass cheeks as she moaned. Then, a few light swats on each cheek, got her wiggling her ass. Back to rubbing, then little harder, did this back and forth for about an hour. Then I said, "go to the bedroom". She was up and off like a rocket. I walked in and she was stripping her clothes with excitement, and I noticed her panties was drenched. Usually, at this point we dive into hot sex, but the devil was out to play. I then scolded her for stripping without me telling her and ordered her to kneel on all fours on the bed, looking away. I got into our "play drawer", tool out flog and crop.
I then began rub her back and butt, it was pink all over. I bent down and began to kiss and lick each ass cheek, and her wiggling was getting stronger. Then I stopped and gave her some smacks with the hand on both cheeks, getting them glowing. It was then then she felt the flog, lightly dance across her skin of the back and butt. then the lashes started, lightly of course, then medium. I stopped and laid the flog on her back, as I got between her legs and licked, right till she was ready to explode. Then I stopped, slowly dragged the flog across her back, as I took the crop and gave her few smacks, I kept dragging the flog across her, then few more slaps with the crop. I then did something never done before and lightly swung the flog between her legs, on the third time, she exploded with orgasm. Of course, this was just the start, but what I learned from this was the different sensations of the implement and mixing between feel of it and skin, then kisses, truly put her into orbit. She will be in trouble next time, he-he-he. Just remember, it doesn't have to be brutal or hard, but has to be sensuous.
Yes and no . It sounds like to me that you OH is very much like my OH in that they prefer the more sensual spanking approach . Its geared more to the touch than pain.
However there are those who do like the hard hitty sessions. The effect is the that it releases endorphins and these types tend to have a high pain threshold.
But everyone has different tastes and that's how boundaries are set and observed.
Just something I am a little curious about.
In my dating days( many years ago ! ) , it was the norm for a guy to ask the lady put on a date of which he paid for including any transport the lady needed ie Taxis etc.
Today things have changed somewhat ie we have same sex couples ,Couples involving transpersons and of course there are more ladies of the "go get em type" who ask the guy out.
Therefore do we have a situation today whereby its whoever asks for the date pays for the date regardless of a persons gender ?
Also on a similar point if both of you decide to go out , do you pay your share ie in the UK we call it "Going Dutch" ?
In my dating days( many years ago ! ) , it was the norm for a guy to ask the lady put on a date of which he paid for including any transport the lady needed ie Taxis etc.
Today things have changed somewhat ie we have same sex couples ,Couples involving transpersons and of course there are more ladies of the "go get em type" who ask the guy out.
Therefore do we have a situation today whereby its whoever asks for the date pays for the date regardless of a persons gender ?
Also on a similar point if both of you decide to go out , do you pay your share ie in the UK we call it "Going Dutch" ?
Quote by JackMeHoff2020
How quick everyone is to judge without knowing the circumstances, situation, people, and reasons. (Never cheated and never will). People who judge others better be "perfect", otherwise they are judging by a double standard.
I can see where your coming from.
There are many affairs that don't happen over night but a slow accumulation of events that eventually lead up to an affair. These are the ones I would give a second chance to .Most of these start quite innocently ie a chance meeting whereby a couple of words are exchanged or perhaps some eye contact and then it just builds up from there slowly perhaps over many days or weeks .
Quote by Carlos2112
Oh how many will be quick to say no, you cannot trust someone after an infidelity. That's what makes sense to me also, but I've lived through a different circumstance. I married young at 19 my then wife being only 3 months younger than me. I cheated on her left and right and she was naive enough to think I wasn't capable of it. It led to a messy divorce, a divorce that hurts so much, acknowledging that it was almost entirely my fault, it alone changed my way of thinking and made the thought of straying abhorrent to me.
That was 30 years ago and I haven't cheated since. Oh I've been worth dumping on occasion, I've wanted to cheat, been a bad boyfriend in other aspects, but I didn't, haven't, and won't be unfaithful. If something hurts bad enough you don't repeat it. Another example, I absolutely hate brussel sprouts! I am in no danger of sneaking off into a motel room to clandestinely eat the hateful substance.
Communication is everything. If a man or a woman wants to cheat I will always advise to talk it out honestly and without fear. Be brutally honest about what's crossed your mind and if you do it right, often, and consistently from the beginning; the goal in mind being to safeguard the relationship against cheating and other terrible things people do to each other, it can be avoided or inoculated against, if you will.
It's like that song. It goes "I wish I knew what I know now when I was younger" or something like that? But alas, I was young and stupid and in my case, those were the same word, they were synonymous.
Sorry, didn't mean to write a novel. I just hope I talked some sense into somebody on the verge multiplying their sorrows.
a quick addendum. If you have a somewhat open relationship and you're both on the same page and everything's up front, by all means, get your freak on, but don't sneak around behind the others back. You're both worth more than that. I'll shut the fuck up now.
That does make good sense in many respects . Thanks for posting
I am just wondering if tights are becoming more sexier. In the past it was the stocking that was always leading the way with tights being used mainly for day to day wear.
Now I am seeing more and more glam and pin up type pictures of women wearing perhaps just a pair of tights.
Has there been a change here ?
Now I am seeing more and more glam and pin up type pictures of women wearing perhaps just a pair of tights.
Has there been a change here ?
Quote by IMPÜRETHOUGHTS
Never used online dating assistance so Eye contact is a must. It's a fun game.
I agree it is a fun game. It is also a very powerful tool . What I mean by this is that it can cover quite large distances .
Last year I got myself into a bit of a scrape using eye contact . I just happened to be looking across the dance floor at my local cabaret and nightclub and my eyes met with a very attractive lady at the other side of the room . At the time. because of the distance I wasn't sure that she was looking at me and perhaps somebody closer. But I carried on with the eyes "dance" as my partner was preoccupied socialising with another couple that we knew.
Anyway some time later after a trip to the bar , I got a tap on my shoulder and it was this lady . #Awkward !
I later squared it with my partner by claiming she was an ex work colleague !
This just shows at how powerful this tool can be, and for singletons its a good way of getting your foot in the door.