I have a crush on a woman who works in a hotel where our company often stays. She is the kind of woman that makes me want to be a better man. I'm breathless and sometimes speechless when I'm around her. She has pale green eyes and we have locked eyes more than once. I'm married and I've crushed on her for five years.
Another traveler came in and she allowed him to give her a kiss on the cheek. I was jealous and so embarrassed because I was. I cannot ever possibly kiss her in front of my colleagues although I wish I could.
I want to confess how I feel but don't want to complicate my life or be unfaithful. I appear doomed to love her from afar. What advice do you have for me?
A man in the house is worth two in the street- Mae West
You're married. You can't have a hoe on the side when you're shy too.
Try to forget about her. Your married right ? If you get so obsessed with this woman it could easily ruin your marriage and everything you have. Is it worth it? I don't think so . You need to learn how to admire people and pay people compliments without getting obsessed about them.
Am I the only one who crushes on the opposite sex and lives with the anguish of unrequited love? I hope there are others with stories to tell.
Update: I left the hotel today and am free from angst for a few months. But I feel blessed to have been in her presence again.
A man in the house is worth two in the street- Mae West
Well no, your not alone. One of the reason I responded is that I am on the receiving end.
There are 2 ladies that go to the same nightclub( over 30s) as me and my Mrs every Saturday. Both have got a school girl type crush on me and my Mrs is watching them like a hawk and ready to pounce should they try and take things further . The difference between these ladies and yourself is that they as far as I know both are single and your not .At end of the day they are both wasting their time even though one would be my type. This has been going on now for 6 months and the other 3 months . Sometimes it can be a little unnerving knowing someone is watching every move you make . Not quite as bad as stalking though.
She sounds like a great fantasy that will never turn into a reality, someone to think about when you masturbate. that's my advice. Spend your time at the hotel masturbating while thinking of her. I get the impression from your post that you don't really know very much about her other than you're hot for her.
If it is a fantasy as AliceDee suggested above ,then if your boundaries with your partner allow it you could act this out in a role play setting. We do a lot of role playing and it does add another dimension in our relationship.
