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TylerStark
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 31
United States
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My girls have always been spoiled, so long as they remain obedient. I ended up almost even in every category. I spoiled them and teased them, because I know they would do anything and everything I ask. I'm very put out that they had to move away.
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I can't speak for anyone else, but for me it started as a pathological need to control. My life is chaos and I've always been answerable to someone, whether it be a boss, teacher, parent or authority figure, I've never been free to blaze my own trail. With BDSM I found a way to have control and it became addictive, in my bedroom I was absolutely and unquestionably in charge. Since then my life's gotten better and I've gotten it under control, but I found out how much I loved it and how easy it was for someone like me to make other people love it too so haven't given it up. It doesn't hurt that I'm a physically imposing man and I have a very forceful personality, so people don't tend to refuse me regardless. The power is a rush, the result is intoxicating and all of it wraps up in a nice little bow that makes anyone feel good about themselves.
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The first girl I ever slept with passed out after an hour or so. Apparently she was dehydrated.
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Farthest I've ever traveled? About 500 miles round-trip, but I would love to meet some of the people I've cybered with.
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Are you male or female? - M
How old are you? - 20
How many times a week do you masturbate? - 7-14
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? 1
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Y
In the shower? N
In the bath? N
Outdoors? occasionally
At work? once
Every room in the house? N
In a car while traveling... ? Y
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Y
A friend? Y
A friend's spouse? Y
A stranger? Y
A student? Don't have any.
A member of the same sex? Y
A past lover? Y
What position do you play in:
On your back? Y- 90% of time
Standing? rarely
Kneeling? N
Sitting? sometimes
Lying on tummy? N
How do you play:
With left hand? Rarely
With right hand? Y
With a toy? N
With water from bath? N
Written erotica? sometimes
Pictures? sometimes
Movie clips online? Y
Videos? Y
Something on TV? not really
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? half the time
Gay or lesbian sex? mmmm yes
Group sex or orgies? very hot
Blow jobs/oral sex? sometimes
Cumshots? Y
Anal? yum
Interracial? yeah that can be nice
Age play? rawrr
S&M? ohh yeah
Role playing? heh
Kinky? hell yah
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? Y
A chat room dialogue? Y
Exchanged stories or pictures? Y
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? came very close a few times
Masturbated for a man/woman? both
Masturbated for the same sex? Y
Masturbated in a group? no but would love to
Masturbated for a photo? Y
Masturbated for a webcam? Y
Masturbated for a video? Y
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? Y
Insert something or play with your ass? N
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? Y
Use pain as a method of playing? not harsh pain, but gentle pain like spanking
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? N
When was the last time you masturbated? 5 minutes ago
Are you wet or hard now? Nope
Are you going to masturbate now? No
Are you a masturbation addict? no, doesn't interfere with anything
What is the most you have played in one day? 6
How old are you? - 20
How many times a week do you masturbate? - 7-14
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? 1
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Y
In the shower? N
In the bath? N
Outdoors? occasionally
At work? once
Every room in the house? N
In a car while traveling... ? Y
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Y
A friend? Y
A friend's spouse? Y
A stranger? Y
A student? Don't have any.
A member of the same sex? Y
A past lover? Y
What position do you play in:
On your back? Y- 90% of time
Standing? rarely
Kneeling? N
Sitting? sometimes
Lying on tummy? N
How do you play:
With left hand? Rarely
With right hand? Y
With a toy? N
With water from bath? N
Written erotica? sometimes
Pictures? sometimes
Movie clips online? Y
Videos? Y
Something on TV? not really
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? half the time
Gay or lesbian sex? mmmm yes
Group sex or orgies? very hot
Blow jobs/oral sex? sometimes
Cumshots? Y
Anal? yum
Interracial? yeah that can be nice
Age play? rawrr
S&M? ohh yeah
Role playing? heh
Kinky? hell yah
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? Y
A chat room dialogue? Y
Exchanged stories or pictures? Y
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? came very close a few times
Masturbated for a man/woman? both
Masturbated for the same sex? Y
Masturbated in a group? no but would love to
Masturbated for a photo? Y
Masturbated for a webcam? Y
Masturbated for a video? Y
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? Y
Insert something or play with your ass? N
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? Y
Use pain as a method of playing? not harsh pain, but gentle pain like spanking
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? N
When was the last time you masturbated? 5 minutes ago
Are you wet or hard now? Nope
Are you going to masturbate now? No
Are you a masturbation addict? no, doesn't interfere with anything
What is the most you have played in one day? 6
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Quote by pricklypear
now i'm kinda curious WHO women think of when being plowed from behind/daydreaming.
George Clooney.
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I have never had the fortune of dating the person I loved, since I met her 7 years ago she has maintained a relationship with the same man but I've loved her all the same. If I'm incredibly lucky I can go weeks or even months without thinking about her, but every time I do the feelings come rushing back. I wish you better luck than I've had trying to move on.
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Quote by WellMadeMale
Have you ever once just once enjoyed a vanilla sexual experience with a woman?
To have tried everything under the sun by the age of 20, leads me to wonder if perhaps you haven't also been placing a lot of emphasis on varying your experiences as well as each of your performances for the last however many years.
Sounds like a major case of performance anxiety to me.
I could be wrong. I have been a few times before.
That actually seems quite logical. Ever since my first time it's always been trying new things or with new people and most of the people I've been with could be politely described as 'kinky'. I wonder what it would be like to not be trying to impress the person I'm with.
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How much porn do you watch?
This(as many here can attest) can negatively affect your ability to orgasm.
That is not something that had ever occurred to me. While I don't watch much anymore, I used to watch a frankly alarming amount of porn.
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Rubbing oneself to orgasm is very different than achieving orgasm through sex..I think well made may have a point. Maybe do plain old missionary may help..either that ot perhaps a finger vibrator that u insert between you and your partner to help ease it along. Do u ah cum..ah fast when alone or does it also take a long time? What is your fantasy when u ah do yourself? Perhaps it is the fantasy that helps..u cum. Just some thoughts how frustrating...huge hugs
There really isn't a fantasy, masturbation to me has always been a means to an end. I'm horny, I masturbate, I'm no longer horny. To me it's quickly, but I don't know what's "normal", it normally takes 10-15 minutes when I'm alone.
Thank all of you for the advice, I'm going back into therapy within the next few days and I'm starting to think I should stop sleeping around so much and try actually having normal sex with someone I care about. I'd never really stopped to consider that I hadn't done that yet.
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I'm pretty well sated as far as sexual appetites go, I've done the public, the threesome, the BDSM, I've watched a lesbian couple going at it, I've had guys, girls, trans, CD's and gotten head from people that I've honestly not sure what they were. As for what's still on my bucket list? I want an honest-to-God relationship with a gorgeous submissive, I want to participate in a Swinger's Club or an orgy at least once, and (ultimate fantasy here) I want a harem. Three or more beautiful submissives of either gender all living together and having lots of wild and unique sex.
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I don't even have any naked pictures of myself, which sums up my opinion quite nicely. Don't do it.
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Once or twice, there's very little hotter to me than a furious Latina woman and she apparently finds smug dismissal and arrogant banter to be quite the turn-on. So as much as we loathed each other, she thought I was a heartless arrogant bastard and I thought she was a psycho bitch with control issues, we'd have absolutely furious sex whenever we were forced alone together. I still have scars, and so does she, but it glorious.
Probably my best relationship to date.
Probably my best relationship to date.
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Yesterday. Perfect timing on this, since I only have sex every couple of weeks.
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Not a single girl I've ever slept with or dated has been my "type". I was not the "type" for any of them either. It's very odd.
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2 hours >.<. I had no idea what I was doing, but she seemed to enjoy it.
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All the wonderful people on Lush for making me feel at home instead of making me hide who I am so I don't get called a freak. Also the fact that in about 4 hours a sexy lady comes over to my house for an epic few days.
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I actually have the same problem, although my Doctor continues to insist that it's not a real problem and I'm just being paranoid. I'm actually going back to therapy because of it and the strain it puts on my relationships.
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I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20, and I actually was popular with the girls. I graduated college without having ever seen a woman naked, and I didn't think anything was wrong with that. Then I got cocky and apparently that's sexy as hell, so I lucked out. I'm sure you will too.
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I've seen a few similar threads here, but they're always for women and I sense the problem may be a little different. In essence, my sexual partners are rarely (if ever) capable of making me orgasm. I've been with several different women and tried just about every kink and fantasy under the sun, but every time I reach orgasm it's through masturbation. I enjoy the sex, it turns me on and I can come really close to orgasm, but so far I've been pushed over the edge once. It's not an exclusively negative thing, the ability to have 4-5 hours of continuous sex almost makes up for it, but I'd still like to be able to finish naturally. I don't know what I expect from you guys, but help me?
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I think I have experienced the best of both in my life, and I wouldn't want to do without either.
I'm with you, although since most of the sex I have is with people I'm not terribly emotionally involved with, I tend more towards the rough and wild fuck that leaves you too tired to move. It leaves a much more lasting impression than making love does.
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I've done both, my ex's best friend was in the room when we had sex three or four times, and once we had an audience watching us have sex on a hotel stairway.
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Quote by daddysweetheart
86% angel
Princess 72%
Schoolgirl 14%
You are Daddy's little Angel.
You do absolutely do everything to please your Daddy and make him happy and his great love for you reflects his dedication.
*cries. I want to be a Princess too.*
You can be my princess :P
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Surely you didn't cum! I'd be all over the road if I was cumming.
There may have been a minor swerve, but not really. I have an unfortunate amount of self-control.
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Being male I can't answer this for myself, but I know at least one of my ex-girlfriends turned into a fountain if I spanked her pussy.
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I've started masturbating in front of people because it turned them on and it's a very easy form of foreplay. I have also masturbated after sex if they didn't have quite enough in them to get me off, in which case I make them kneel in front of me and watch while I explain how disappointed I am. (In case you can't tell, they were submissives and they REALLY enjoyed that.)
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I've driven naked, got pulled over. That was the best conversation I've ever had with a cop. I've also gotten "Road Head" which didn't distract my driving as much as you'd think it would. They were two of my favorite experiences ever.