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Sirene_Jaune
1 month ago
Bi-curious Female, 40
0 miles · Sydney

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I enjoyed my last ONS. However I regret the times we could have had a few goes around. We hooked up two nights. There were times we saw each other and it was clear he wanted to fuck me but I turned him down because I had massive feelings for someone who didn't reciprocate my feelings. I am kicking myself now, could have had a fuck buddy on the side and now he is gone. I know our paths will never cross again.

Offered him to be in a 3 way with another friend of ours. He declined and went home. Oh well his loss.

In my very intoxicated state, I texted a co-worker guy I have been crushing on some very explicit sexts.

The next day I was embarrassed and I apologized to him. He said "Hey don't be embarrassed, I was very surprised by your texts and I'm very flattered!"

I have seen him a few times in person, talked as if nothing ever happened.

Guys his response makes me think he wasn't interested in me but another side thinks he could be... yeah. How should I take his response? We are going to hang out this Saturday at a night club in the CBD and we are sharing a hotel room. Eep.

How do I play it?

Like to update 10 years older and 10 years younger (last year I was 39 and he 29)

I'm am entering my autumn years and my breasts are big and point south. HAHA

Funny 10 years. One 10 years older than me and the other 10 years younger than me.

The older one I was with for many years and he was a crap root. However the one who was 10 years younger than me (I was 38 and he was 28) was such a considerate and amazing lover.

Currently have no underwear on and wearing a dress, told my crush. He didn't make a response or move. Like come on, I'm naked under this dress. Yes I am sober.

I admit I have a crush but I'm afraid of rejection so I'm keeping it to myself.

I do a little of both. I wear shirts a size smaller since I'm big breasted. I like the way it hugs my boobs and I don't wear a bra. Only do that on the weekends. Today I was out with my guy pal and we went to a pool. I just wore my one piece suit that has a skirt and a rashie since he didn't offer to put sunscreen on my back. Oh well.

I sometimes do, though I did get a bit aroused when my friend's shirt lifted slightly and I caught a glimpse of his happy trail and navel.

I have had a one night stand with a friend. Felt great to have sex with someone that was very sweet and caring. Poor guy apologized and said he didn't want anything romantic lol. Dude, it was just a one night thing. I have feelings for someone else.

I can deep throat, just have to relax certain muscles and of course breathing important. Practice is the answer.

My guy friend and I are very good friends (To the point people have stipulated that we are dating or a couple) and most met ups we do talk about sex be it past experiences, admitting checking and admiring each other, things we like about sex, philosophy of sex... just topic of sex.
There feels some sort of sexual tension there but neither has made the move. I haven't made a move because I'm afraid of rejection and I guess maybe once crossing that sexual boundary where to go from there.

Just want to know from a guy's perspective why he hasn't made a move?

I have had two guy friends who have mentioned they have checked me out both said it at the same time. If I had the confidence I would have asked for a FMM that particular night.

It doesn't even have to be sex. There is emotional/mental cheating. My ex husband became very close friends with a single mother who was our cleaner. While I was at work for staff meetings, he was spending his free time with her and her kids. I could tell by his body language, tone of voice and face that he had deep feelings for her.

Only reason I knew about this was when our relationship was strained. He talked about her kids and her often. I left and a few weeks later we met and he explained he wanted a divorce and he was moving on. I put it together and I had not seen him been so infatuated with anyone or anything before. Not even with me. Then he admitted he slept with her. Though when I confronted he claimed he was drunk but then confessed he wanted her even when he was sober.

It is painful process. I had a STD test and thankfully I came back clean but still the emotional turmoil is unjust.

My feelings for my ex have gone. I figured out he has been talking to my older sister and telling her very personal things about me that I wanted to be kept secret. Whatever last strained of feelings I had for him have vanished.

I went out to brunch with a guy. It was nice and there was no physical touching, just deep conversation. He said he wanted to go out with me again so we will see.

A few months ago I would have said "No, can't stop loving someone after a relationship" but since after a long battle with my ex where he did something unforgivable, I no longer love him.

Tonight while out at a night club, I was having a chat with a group of people and the next thing I felt a hand brush against my butt.

At first I thought it was an accidently touch. I didn't react to it.

Then he kept caressing my butt cheek and I stood there talking to the group as if he wasn't touching me. I could see he was looking for my reaction.

I haven't had a guy touch me that way in ages since I left my ex and now regret not flirting back. Just don't understand why he was caressing my butt.


What are your thoughts or intentions when caressing someone's butt cheek or thigh?

My ex husband did that to me. I didn't care, as long as he enjoyed eating his own cum and pleasing me. All good.