Your gf/wife is in a bed having sex with another girl. Either its at a party and youve caught her in a spare room. Or they met on a girls night out and you came home late yours3lf tonfind them in your bed together.
Would you consider this cheating, the same as if she was having sex with a guy? Or could you let it slide as a sexual fantasy of yours being fulfilled?
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Jason2013
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 34
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When I met my Gf, there were similar circumstances. Although she was younger than that but her number had given her and average of 2 different guys a month from when she told me she had started having sex. That didn't include guys she had seen multiple times.
Anyway it did make me question my own sexual performance a lot but once I got past that things where fine. The number didn't bother me.
Fyi Her number is still increasing.
Anyway it did make me question my own sexual performance a lot but once I got past that things where fine. The number didn't bother me.
Fyi Her number is still increasing.
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If I'm going to the bar or club in the interest of scoring or finding a chick to have sex with then Im going to go after the slut where I'm almost garuanteed to get it. However, if im looking to date and find some sophistication in a girl then classy all the way.
To answer your scenario though, slutty.
To answer your scenario though, slutty.
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My first time was under the condition no one would find out. I was always curious why girls enjoyed doing it so much so wanted to give it a try. It was after a drunken night out and was walking home along the beach as was shorter. I don't remember how it happened but i do remember the feeling of being on my knees with his shaft in my mouth and the cum after was amazing. I still do it now and again privately. Only difference being my gf knows mow too.
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Ok so it's been a long time since I was last on here. I'm sorry about leaving this so long as I see some people need the closure on this, lol.
Anyway to answer the questions. Yes she did go ahead and buy it as if the dress in the picture wasnt tight enough on the girl, the dress my girlfriend got was too small despite ordering the correct size. So the bottom of her ass was showing, not that she minded. She didn't wear any underwear either and for $20, the material was so thin, it left nothing to the imagination.
I think she'd come home at about 4am with him. She woke me up and asked if I could sleep on the sofa so they could use the bed.
Anyway to answer the questions. Yes she did go ahead and buy it as if the dress in the picture wasnt tight enough on the girl, the dress my girlfriend got was too small despite ordering the correct size. So the bottom of her ass was showing, not that she minded. She didn't wear any underwear either and for $20, the material was so thin, it left nothing to the imagination.
I think she'd come home at about 4am with him. She woke me up and asked if I could sleep on the sofa so they could use the bed.
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You need to go with the one she could pull off better. With these, they've been done enough that her persona will have to cover some distance to make them work well. Is she more a slightly-diplomatic rebel, or is she straight-up gonna rule the world using whatever she needs to use to do so?
Neither. She's a slut who likes showing off her body and getting attention by teasing men.
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They look pretty similar to me, in all honesty. I got the Princess Leia reference mainly because the model totally looks like Carrie Fisher, otherwise it just looks like a random Egyptian/Persian chick to me. Same thing for the Cleopatra costume in fact; you'd really have to wear that classic blue eye makeup and black-bang haircut to really make me go 'Oh, that's Cleopatra!'.
Whatever she chooses is her personal choice, they're probably both of similar quality anyway. The Cleopatra one covers a bit more skin though, and might be a little more versatile that way.
Tobe honest, I think that's what she likes is that they are similar and the theme is the same. It's just a matter of how covered up I would prefer her to be.
She prefers the Leia costume because it covers less and all her legs wil be showing.
I want to add, she's already said she isn't wearing underwear with it whichever one I chose and she'll be dancing.
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After the first time I saw my girlfriend fucking another guy, I was never jealous or angry. So I let her carry on doing what and who she likes.
I don't stay and watch much anymore unless it's planned or either of them insist I stay and watch, otherwise I leaver her and him to it. When we were younger, I used to watch a lot, with cock in hand.
I don't stay and watch much anymore unless it's planned or either of them insist I stay and watch, otherwise I leaver her and him to it. When we were younger, I used to watch a lot, with cock in hand.
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Okay, so my girlfriend was searching through amazon looking for a halloween costume to wear to the nightclub with a group of hers and my friends and she gave me an option out of two:
http://www.amazon.com/Secret-Wishes-Playboy-Cleopatra-Costume/dp/B005QQEAO0
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002JPJGUO/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_dp_ss_3/187-6125445-5795307?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_r=1PTVDF7N8EFZHCEQ2397&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_p=1944687602&pf_rd_i=B005QQEAO0
Being as I'm having trouble choosing, I thought I'd pass the decision onto a vote here.
Comments about my girlfriend and her choice in costume are always welcome so let me know.
http://www.amazon.com/Secret-Wishes-Playboy-Cleopatra-Costume/dp/B005QQEAO0
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002JPJGUO/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_dp_ss_3/187-6125445-5795307?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_r=1PTVDF7N8EFZHCEQ2397&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_p=1944687602&pf_rd_i=B005QQEAO0
Being as I'm having trouble choosing, I thought I'd pass the decision onto a vote here.
Comments about my girlfriend and her choice in costume are always welcome so let me know.
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So have you ever walked in on or watched your wife or girlfriend having sex with a guy whos dick was so big, thick or long, that she wasn't able to slide her pussy all the way down on it or really stretched her?
Describe what you felt seeing it and what it was like.
Describe what you felt seeing it and what it was like.
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I went through my gfs checkout on ebay the other day and saw this dress as well as a few others.
When I asked her about it, she said that a guy at work saw her doing some online shopping on the office computer and suggested she buy it and said she is going to wear it when she goes clubbing with them at the weekend.
What is she going to be thinking about as she's wearing it around them?
Is this dress just too slutty for going out in?
I went through my gfs checkout on ebay the other day and saw this dress as well as a few others.
When I asked her about it, she said that a guy at work saw her doing some online shopping on the office computer and suggested she buy it and said she is going to wear it when she goes clubbing with them at the weekend.
What is she going to be thinking about as she's wearing it around them?
Is this dress just too slutty for going out in?
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None.
Now let me put on my fun police badge for a moment:
You're asking this under the assumption that we (women) have all fucked around on our significant others with said significant others' friends.
So a better question would be "Have you ever fucked any of your boyfriend's or husband's friends behind his back? If so, how many?"
Or you could just not have answered because the question doesn't apply to you.
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No way! A guy touches me inappropriately is getting a knee to his nuts. It would be much worse if my SO where there.
You are her BF and you are OK with this? Hey if it turns you on, so be it. But then why ask the question if you're happy with this? If you don't think it is right, then say so. Then if she still allows it then put an end to it, leave, or shut up. A relationship works both ways. If it makes you happy that you are treated this disrespectfully then no problem. If you are happy I would never judge what is right for you. If you aren't happy, don't put up with it. If she ignores your feelings and has no respect for you, it's not a relationship. It is a farce. She is using you and playing games with you. Don't be a weak person.
Its not that im happy with it or unhappy for that matter. There's a difference between getting turned on by it and just allowing her to behave however she wants.
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There are a variety of reasons why a guy will cheat but I'd say the main reason is that he's not getting enough from his girlfriend and he knows there is some other girl or girls that are willing to fuck him.
If you look at animal biology, whereas women are designed to be selective about who they mate with as the workload for them reproducing is higher i.e only being able to get pregnant during specific times of a month, then developing a child for 9 months, then giving birth and raising it, men are programmed to have sex with as many women as they can to spread their cum around to increase their chances of producing offspring.
It's true when they say, men only have two emotions, horny and hungry. If the guy is horny and isn't getting it off his girlfriend, as soon as he's out and another girl makes an open interest in fucking him, the guy is going to make it happen.
The horrible thing for you girls is, if he thinks he won't get caught, he'll do it again and again with no remorse or regret.
If you look at animal biology, whereas women are designed to be selective about who they mate with as the workload for them reproducing is higher i.e only being able to get pregnant during specific times of a month, then developing a child for 9 months, then giving birth and raising it, men are programmed to have sex with as many women as they can to spread their cum around to increase their chances of producing offspring.
It's true when they say, men only have two emotions, horny and hungry. If the guy is horny and isn't getting it off his girlfriend, as soon as he's out and another girl makes an open interest in fucking him, the guy is going to make it happen.
The horrible thing for you girls is, if he thinks he won't get caught, he'll do it again and again with no remorse or regret.
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I remember my girlfriend going off the wall one night on new years eve.
At the pre-midnight party round someones house she sucked one of her friend's dick. Then at about 1am to 1:30am i saw her walking outside with someone and when she came back, i felt her ass and there was thick cum on her ass cheek. Then later on in the night about 3am she ended up taking another guy outside. Then she fucked me when we got home.
At the pre-midnight party round someones house she sucked one of her friend's dick. Then at about 1am to 1:30am i saw her walking outside with someone and when she came back, i felt her ass and there was thick cum on her ass cheek. Then later on in the night about 3am she ended up taking another guy outside. Then she fucked me when we got home.
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I agree that the idea of cumming inside a girl a potentially impregnating her is very hot. However, the time after that is not. I've cum inside girls I knew I wouldn't see again without any regard of what protection she is on anc felt guilty after.
My girlfriend has also ran the risk of being cummed inside when either not taken ghe pill properly or wasn't on it at all, and she would agree that at the time it was insanely hot but the stress of it after is unbearable.
My girlfriend has also ran the risk of being cummed inside when either not taken ghe pill properly or wasn't on it at all, and she would agree that at the time it was insanely hot but the stress of it after is unbearable.
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I don't think it matters at all. Sex these days is nothing more than fun, getting with someone to experience something that, let's be honest, feels really good.
If my prospective girlfriend was a slut before we got together that's fine as long as she's clean.
My advice though for single guys looking, if she was a slut before you got together, chances are she is still going to be a slut when you are together.
The best partners are those who have spent the time to know their partner before sleeping with them, and haven't fucked that many people because of that time spent in between sexual relationships.
If my prospective girlfriend was a slut before we got together that's fine as long as she's clean.
My advice though for single guys looking, if she was a slut before you got together, chances are she is still going to be a slut when you are together.
The best partners are those who have spent the time to know their partner before sleeping with them, and haven't fucked that many people because of that time spent in between sexual relationships.
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I once watched an episode of Californication, where it was expressed that "blowjobs are like handshakes" and that the bf shouldn't be offended or felt like he was cheated on basically. I later read an article on the internet saying the same thing. That sex is now so open between people and in society than what it used to be, and certain sexual activities between people should be more openly accepted.
So my questions to the crowd are:
Girls) Do you think it's ok to give men other than your partner blowjobs because you enjoy doing the act and want to, and feel your partner should accept it?
Guys) Are you ok with your partner giving another guy a blowjob just simply because she enjoys it and wants to?
So my questions to the crowd are:
Girls) Do you think it's ok to give men other than your partner blowjobs because you enjoy doing the act and want to, and feel your partner should accept it?
Guys) Are you ok with your partner giving another guy a blowjob just simply because she enjoys it and wants to?
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I think I even got creeped out just reading the part about the guy licking his lips behing you, Katje. It's always good to see a secure relationship, where you talk about how your boyfriend is fine about how his friends behave. It is curious to know how far your friends tend to go with you, especially when they've had a little too much to drink and inhabitions go out the window.