There was a girl I was fucking behind my girlfriend's back while in my first year of college. I introduced her to a friend, kind of thinking if she was dating him I wouldn't be tempted anymore. Only, she didn't want to let go. So I kept fucking her until they broke up and well into junior year.
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Honorablewolf
3 weeks ago
Straight Cis Male, 29
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I think the biggest age difference I've ever had was with a girl who I hooked up with for a few months during my junior year of college. She was a freshman, so about 2 years younger than me. What I remember most is she was a screamer and a wildly frequent squirter.
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That I was hooking up with the female friend I'd introduced to a friend from ROTC. She thought we were just good friends and she was dating him but when my girlfriend was on her campus, my friend would come to my dorm and we'd fuck all night.
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I don't know. I think there's different kinds of love. I've never been in the kind of intimate love that leads to a relationship with more than one person before. But that doesn't mean it's not possible. Nor does it mean I don't have friends who I love dearly.
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Once, I introduced a girl I was friends with in college to an ROTC friend who really liked her. They went on a couple dates but at one point, she came over to my room on a Friday and we were just hanging out and chatting. Guess she felt he was moving too slowly. She ended up spending the night and we kind of spontaneously fucked in the morning. Kept fucking through their whole time dating. Some of the hottest fucking raw sex I've ever had.
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Never if I can help it. Even soft there's enough of my dick out there that it's not as dignified as I'd prefer to be. Then there's the need for avoiding the zipper of my jeans. And THEN, on top of that, it's not comfy to have my balls swinging around when I'm spending nearly my whole workday walking around.
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Sometimes boredom. More often? I'm stressed. Or it's late and I'm trying to get my brain in a place where I'm ready for sleep.
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I'm demisexual so, without really secure emotional attachment and a while for any feelings to develop after having that emotional attachment? Without those two things, I'm just not interested in having sex.
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I would never have sex with someone without an emotional connection. Sex is fun, sure... but without an emotional connection with my partner I just can't bring myself to stay all that hard. Doesn't need to necessarily be a romantic, dating connection but I need to at least be very, very good friends with a girl before we get in bed.
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Never! I've never had any bad experiences per se... but I don't find it very comfortable when my balls and dick are moving around while I walk. It's annoying.
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I have two wonderful East German Shepherds named Dov (Bear) and Floki (Brave Viking)! And a cat named Pedro (not actually a boy) who I call Little Miss Whiskers!
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I think my biggest age difference was I was 17 and she was 16, we were in high school. The thing I remember most is how wildly sensitive she was, and how many times I could make her cum with my tongue and fingers. But we never actually had sex. Just a shit-load of foreplay and teasing before we broke up and I went to college.
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I'd be flattered and surprised. I've done some kinky and fun but I've never thought of myself as the erotic-story-character kinda guy. Don't usually see lean, average-height Jewish academics as the male characters
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I'd say no, but that doesn't feel emphatic enough. So let's go with hell no. Maybe even fuck no.
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It was... Well, it was intense. The physical sensation was crazy but as first times went it was so fucking bad that I refused to count it or any sex I had with that partner for the 5 months we were together as a valid "first time." Nothing ruins your first time than being a living dildo for a sadist when you aren't a masochist but don't know any better about setting boundaries.
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I admit it'd kind of piss me off, I can be a bit protective and my usual experience with people checking out my partners is them trying to muscle in. So if I saw someone checking out my partner, I'm probably not going to be friendly about discouraging further surveying.
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My answer would be a categorical and completely non-negotiable negative. Nothing at all to do with her race, and everything to do with her being a shitty human being.
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I'm usually at full mast before I even start eating my partner out. But what can I say? I can and usually will get turned on from passionate kissing. But I tend to stay hard while I'm eating her out because of the taste and smell of her pussy and the sounds she's making. Knowing what comes next doesn't hurt either :P
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A hard negative from me. I was tied up once by my first girlfriend, who was an abusive **** who got off on hurting me. Aftermath is I'll flat out not let myself be restrained, no matter how gently and I'm not likely to have a great deal of enthusiasm for tying up my partner. Just, really bad associations.
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Most of the time, once we're done my partner and I would shower so that we can sleep clean, (having 2 or 3 hours of rigorous sex isn't conducive to sleeping too cozy...) But we never bothered cleaning up if either of us wakes up horny in the middle of the night, or we grabbed a quickie during the day. Basically.. we'd only clean up if we were having sex as our "pre-sleeping" fun. which admittedly... happened every night :P
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I grew up right handed, but have learned that there's some things I do a great deal better left-handed. My parents signed me up for martial arts classes when I was 4, and I trained for nearly 2 decades. I hit hardest with my right arm, but I have faster twitch reactions for blocking with my left. Then in the Army I learned I'm left-eye dominant which was... surprising. So I had to learn how to shoot with my left hand to keep from having to contort myself around my rifle.
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I'd say it's not a great idea. Being friends? Sure. If you can remain friends, that's great! Good for you. But as far as having sex, that can get complicated, especially if either of you finds a new significant other who may not be hugely comfortable with the continued dynamic of intimacy.
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5, same number of girlfriends I've had. I'm a pretty attentive lover, so a night wasn't really a success in my eyes unless my partner orgasmed at least once.
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So, I don't know if I can really give advice on how to do this without pissing him off. But, I had a partner who was a nude model while we were dating. I never saw her work, but I also had a suspicion she was cheating on me with her photographer so I was never really *okay* with it. I guess my advice for you would be to have the conversation with your boyfriend that my ex never bothered to have with me. Talk about boundaries, how far you're willing to go if someone tries to commission a photo from you. If you work with a photographer, maybe how far you're willing to go with that scenario. If you're going to take your own pictures, maybe find some way to get your boyfriend involved so he's a part of this instead of it just being something you're doing without him for the benefit of other guys. I'm sorry if I'm not explaining this well. But if you're not willing to have a more serious conversation with your boyfriend about why he's uncomfortable and what it would take for him to *be* comfortable with this if it's something you really want to do, then I'd agree with Seeker and say "don't do it."
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I mean, I enjoy the fuck out of it for a lot of reasons. Big one is I've got a great imagination so getting told the story is a massive turn on for me. Then there's the fact that I know that if a woman is telling me stories like that, usually the odds are she feels comfortable and relaxed around me. Which is great, regardless of whether they're a platonic friend of we're dating.
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I used to work on a horse farm, back in my teenage years. And I was the only male employee. Had this one girl who was about my age who was a counselor at the summer camp and we fucked at least three times a week during the camp's run time. In stalls, in the hay-loft, in the tack room. The list goes on.
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My last girlfriend, I guess. If by meet you mean in person, it was 3 weeks from meeting her in person. If you just mean, from the moment you first contacted each other...… 5 months. Which was still... the quickest I've become sexual with someone.
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I'm kind of a walking duh moment, clues go right over my head. My last girlfriend, when we were having our initial non-committed dates had decided she wanted me after the first date. Second date she came to my dorm and we spent pretty much the whole day together, talking and laughing, with her giving me really significant looks as she sprawled on my bed. Completely missed it.... Oops.
Date 3, I took the bus into town where her college was and we went to a really nice café where we sat and talked for hours. And she was wearing heels and this black dress with a see through patch over her cleavage and the tops of her breasts. Insanely sexy. We walked out of the café just in time to see the penultimate bus leave. She suggested we go to her room where she again sprawled on the bed and we talked for another hour or so before she got tired of me missing the millions of clues she was handing me and just asked if I was going to kiss her or not. Needless to say, I spent the night and we were in a committed relationship for 2 years.
Date 3, I took the bus into town where her college was and we went to a really nice café where we sat and talked for hours. And she was wearing heels and this black dress with a see through patch over her cleavage and the tops of her breasts. Insanely sexy. We walked out of the café just in time to see the penultimate bus leave. She suggested we go to her room where she again sprawled on the bed and we talked for another hour or so before she got tired of me missing the millions of clues she was handing me and just asked if I was going to kiss her or not. Needless to say, I spent the night and we were in a committed relationship for 2 years.
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I've never slept with anyone who was inked, but I've got two tattoos, one on my left pectoral and one that covers most of my back and comes down onto my right pec (that one's nowhere near done and will likely continue being worked on for a few more years before it's fully detailed, much less colored.) As long as the ink tells a story, I find tattoos fascinating.
As far as how my partners have reacted? My last girlfriend liked to kiss the tattoo over my heart when we were cuddling after sex. Always intensified the warm fuzzy feeling I was already having.
As far as how my partners have reacted? My last girlfriend liked to kiss the tattoo over my heart when we were cuddling after sex. Always intensified the warm fuzzy feeling I was already having.
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I've had a few partners cheat on me. I'm a serial monogamist so it really crushed me both times. As for handling it? I cut ties hard. I don't speak to them, and my friends and family know not to say their names. But I'd never do anything TO them. I'm just gone.