The oldest woman I've been attracted to was about a decade older than me, and I'm in my mid twenties. For me it's.... honestly, not really about sex. I feel like older women are more likely to have their life goals figured out. To be established and confident in themselves and how they fit in the world. And I find that confidence very attractive.
………. Doesn't hurt that I'm also at the point where the short term dating and hookups that a lot of my peers are engaging in feels really pointless to me. So the idea of an older partner who is equally interested in settling down for something longer term is incredibly attractive.
Depends entirely on how much of a hurry we're in.
Buddy, if people are writing that women don't have orgasm its because the writers, men, are too busy thinking about their own pleasure than making their partner feel good. My advice to you? If you've never had the great experience of your partner orgasming because of something you've done.... it's not a them problem, it's one hundred percent a you problem and you'd better adjust how you approach having sex.
I gave a friend of mine some books. One on Russia because that's what she studies, and my GRE study guide because she wants to take the test this fall.
Sometimes, but more often what I'm wondering about is the woman's mind. I mean, sure. I like imagining the body hidden by the clothes, but the intellect is what really hooks me the most so that's what I think about.
Drives me pretty wild when my partner squirts. I had this one girl I was hooking up with for a while who was a squirter and a screamer and holy shit.. The sex was absolutely fucking wild with it.
I had an ex girlfriend who was pretty manipulative and emotionally abusive. She liked using sex to obligate me to do things for her that I wasn't comfortable doing for ethical/moral reasons. Truth of that hit me about six months in, in the middle of sex and I got up, got dressed and ran
My last girlfriend and I had a session after we'd been apart for a while. Went for just past six hours, 4 orgasms for me and she lost count of her own. However many, I had to carry her to the shower and hold her up.
I don't really think I notice any particular feeling in my balls, but if I don't cum at least every couple days, unless I'm working out a lot my experience is that my temper gets pretty short and my aggression goes through the roof.
I'm.... well I'm pretty fucking clueless so anything less than a very direct message isn't even a mixed signal. It'll go right over my head. Hell, my last girlfriend on the date when we made it official and first tumbled each other. She was wearing this very fancy little black dress, lots of eye contact, etc etc etc. Invited me back to her room and everything, still took her asking "Are you going to kiss me now?" for me to realize that there was sex in my future.
They can feel when I orgasm because I shoot my load in pretty hard pulses. But I'm not really very vocal, at most my breathing gets heavier but that's it.
I think it really depends on how things ended. Personally I've had a lot of really bad relationships where I try not to think about my exes anymore. But I was just dumped by the woman I'd been dating for two years, and I think that if she hadn't hurt me as badly as she did(in the reasons behind her breaking up with me and how she did it) I would probably still be pining after her. So yeah, its definitely possible to stop, and I think the deciding factor is the pain your partner put you through.
I think it really depends on how things ended. Personally I've had a lot of really bad relationships where I try not to think about my exes anymore. But I was just dumped by the woman I'd been dating for two years, and I think that if she hadn't hurt me as badly as she did(in the reasons behind her breaking up with me and how she did it) I would probably still be pining after her. So yeah, its definitely possible to stop, and I think the deciding factor is the pain your partner put you through.
There's a girl who goes to the university next time mine. We've been friends for three years and I really enjoy her company. She's smart, beautiful and I've been kind of head over heels for her since freshman year. Any words of advice for how I should tell her without choking like a chicken trying to gargle a bowling ball?
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Did it, still am in love with her. Nothing's happened and nothing probably will. Being in love with someone who is over 4,000 miles away tends to.... complicate things.
My first time was in my Senior year of highschool. And oh hell yes if I could go back I would change something. I would run like hell to get away from that girl. She turned out to be a nightmare wrapped up in a horror show.
Speaking a guy of average height, a lot of the girls I've been attracted to are taller than me. Ultimately though it doesn't matter, I don't feel threatened by kissing a girl who I'm shorter than, or being in bed with her. That being said, there's something insanely comforting about being able to rest your chin on top of a girl's head when you're hugging her. It's the simple pleasures in life.
Speaking for myself, I really think a woman is most beautiful first thing in the morning, or in the instance before sleep. It's not about make up, it's about... A sense of openness, I guess. The feeling I have being that if the woman I'm with is comfortable letting me see her in that kind of, moment of "vulnerability" then that confidence and trust is a thing of beauty.
I don't know how often its mixed signals or just me being completely and utterly clueless to the point where really, really obvious signals go right over my head. But I've had times, most notably right now with someone on my floor in college where I can't for the life of me tell if she's flirting with intent to get into bed or just being friendly.
I used to not swear that much.... then I went through Infantry school! Got back to college and had to adjust to the fact that people don't use "fuck" as a comma anymore. I still curse a lot though, and am pretty creative in how I structure them.
I'd prefer to take you to the movies and buy you a drink. But if it has to be a fight... *sigh* Yeah, I'm pretty sure I could win that fight. I'm 5'6 and only about 20lbs heavier than you, and I've been training to fight since I could walk. But I think the movies and a bar is a much better idea :P
I usually last about an hour and a half and can orgasm three or four times, my partners tend to cum a lot more than that. But onetime I had a session lasted five and a half hours and we'd both cum so many times and so hard that neither of us could move.
I like it when my partner knows what she wants and isn't afraid to tell me. But at the same time I don't much like being on the bottom.
If she's facing me, her eyes and her smile. I've blanked out on entire class periods because I was sitting across from a beautiful girl. If I'm behind her, her legs. A lot of the girls at my college wear heels and there's something so perfect about a girl's legs when she's in heels.
it doesn't bother me, if anything its a turn on when I'm taking my girlfriend from behind and she starts playing with her clit because she gets tighter.
On my knees with her legs around my waist and my arms around her waist. I can get really deep in her that way and we can kiss and just have fun.
