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Do guys like being controlling or controlled more during sex?
Active Ink Slinger
Well....I like BOTH.....I can tie the girl up with pink satin cords, tease her, touch her...tell her naughty stories....do role play....and then I can also enjoy her turning the tables and doing the same to me....I love both.
Rookie Scribe
Controlling someone is good, being controlled is the best
Active Ink Slinger
Bit of both to be honest but I do love it when control is taken away from me...especially if it involves being tied up and blindfolded :-)
Active Ink Slinger
Both. I like being told where/what is affecting her at the time and also working her to get the best from me
Active Ink Slinger
I love to be controlled. I like when I do not know what is going to happen next. Feeling helpless is a big turn on for me.
Active Ink Slinger
I honestly don't know, I've never been controlled! I've enjoyed controlling though!
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Active Ink Slinger
being controlled is wonderful.
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Wild at Heart
Both, but it all depends on the woman. If she has a big dominating personality then it's fun for her to control me. If she tends to be a shy quiet person then it feels un-natural for her to take the reins in bed and I prefer to dominate her.
Wise Ass
I would say that I am a switch and it doesn't depend on the partner...We both travel quite a bit and it seems like whoever was just on the road gets "special treatment" when they come back home.
It feels great to have control, while on the otherhand completely trusting your partner to do as they wish with you..
It feels great to have control, while on the otherhand completely trusting your partner to do as they wish with you..
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Wild at Heart
Quote by Dudealicious
I would say that I am a switch
Sorry dude, I'm immature... Carry on.
Wise Ass
Quote by Magical_felixQuote by Dudealicious
I would say that I am a switch
Sorry dude, I'm immature... Carry on.
HAHAHA I won't even get suckered in to that one...nice try though!
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Active Ink Slinger
I'm willing to "take her" when she wants/needs it but generally I prefer to give her total control until she's satisfied, however she will take it from me.
Active Ink Slinger
I've never been controlled, but I generally hate being controlled in other aspects of my life.
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Constant Gardener
I couldn't imagine a more monotonous existence if I were in control 100% of the time during sexual play. It would rank right up there with abstinence or jerking off alone weekly - in the top three sandwiches I'd hate to be fed all the time.
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Nicola, please pass the Miracle Whip.
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I love controlling my lover, whether making love or fucking her hard. Blindfolds and light restraints, sensory deprivation, introducing new sensations and watching her reactions are a huge turn on. On the other hand, knowing that my partner desires me and wants to control my pleasure is also a huge turn on.
I guess what I'm saying is either way is highly erotic. As long as both my lover and I are eager participants, it doesn't matter to me. Keep things fresh and exciting I say
I guess what I'm saying is either way is highly erotic. As long as both my lover and I are eager participants, it doesn't matter to me. Keep things fresh and exciting I say
This is a complex question. In a similar thread Kimasa was telling us about the physiopsychology of sexual hormones. Apparently being "controlled" ups the levels of oxytocin in the body which (in general) increases the sexual experience in women, whereas "controlling" somebody tends to up the testosterone levels, which obviously is more of a male thing. Biologically speaking, I'm kind of an exception to the rule (assuming I'm not in possession of some small intersex organ I'm not aware of - as could any of us be!) in that I like to be controlled.
Active Ink Slinger
For me it all depends, but most of the time i like being controlled, and submissive.
Detention Seeker
To be Controlled Is something I often need, But an occasional Switch spices thing's up.
