I said “timing is everything”. That’s not quite right. It is simply a main ingredient. With sex, partner sex and even solo sex, timing is an important component that is often overlooked. Think of all the times you wanted something, someone, some circumstance that just wasn’t meant to be. It never happened, it never came about, and there you sat disappointed. Sound familiar? Failed relationships are full of experiences like this. Somethings happen for a reason. Somethings are just outside of our control.
Keep stoking your desire. Let the spark of erotic passion continue to feed the warm feelings growing inside of you. When a person desires something or someone, their sense of longing is excited by the enjoyment or the thought of the item or person, and they want to take actions to obtain their goal.
Enjoy and savor every moment. Things will progress and happen naturally when the timing is right!
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Sexual desire is a motivational state and an interest in “sexual objects or activities, or as a wish, or drive to seek out sexual objects or to engage in sexual activities”. Synonyms for sexual desire are libido, sexual attraction and lust. Sexual desire is an aspect of a person's sexuality, which varies significantly from one person to another, and also varies depending on circumstances at a particular time.
Sexual desire may be the “single most common sexual event in the lives of men and women”. Sexual desire is a subjective feeling state that can “be triggered by both internal and external cues, and that may or may not result in overt sexual behaviour”. Sexual desire can be aroused through imagination and sexual fantasies, or perceiving an individual whom one finds attractive. Sexual desire is also created and amplified through sexual tension, which is caused by sexual desire that has yet to be consummated.
Sexual desire can be spontaneous or responsive. Sexual desire is dynamic, can either be positive or negative, and can vary in intensity depending on the desired object/person. The sexual desire spectrum is described by Stephen B. Levine as: aversion → disinclination → indifference → interest → need → passion.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_desire
