Here is the situation.
I'm a 66 year old male and "happily married" for 26 years. I've got the perfect relationship except for one small thing, I'm stuck in a sexless marriage. I've always had a high libido and my wife had a low libido. Somehow we made it work, but over the last couple of years, she has no libido.
Once my partner initiates, I’m into it, but it seems like it never even occurs to me to be the one to start things. What do women do to get into the mood? How can I get into the mood on my own without depending on my partner?
For you as a guy why not read some of the a stories here that may help. Or even read the stories here together to see if that helps with your wife getting turned on. But if that doesn’t work. Sorry i wouldnt be able help at all
It sounds like to me , that the spark just needs reigniting. Many couples go through this at various stages in their relationships .
Try booking a romantic weekend away or go out for a meal dressed up to the "nines" to make you both irristable to each other. Ask her to put her best lingerie on when you go out.
I don't think its anything to worry about you just need to ignite that spark again.
Another precaution is just to make sure that there are no medical reasons why her libido is so low eg hormones etc.
