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AudriNichols
Over 90 days ago
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Three. All long term relationships that lasted years. I don't do casual sex.
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This was written by a man on another website, and I found it both intriguing and slightly creepy (for obvious reasons.)
We all have primal needs.
It's ingrained in us from our caveman days, the need to conquer.
To take what we want when we want it.
Our biggest problem now days is that society frowns on men just grabbing a woman and having animalistic sex with her.
But still, I find myself walking through a store and seeing a woman I want.
My pulse quickens.
My sense of smell increases.
My gaze on her becomes more intense.
My problem is I've been domesticated.
I need to learn to hunt again.
To track my prey.
To be ready to attack when the time is right.
To become the animal that I once was.
(Edits: I fixed all the grammar and spelling mistakes to make it easier to read. The words are exactly what was written.)
The questions:
Do you feel this inherent need to find a woman as a "hunt"?
Do you feel that you have been domesticated by society?
Do you feel the same kind of frustration this man is expressing?
Or is this guy just a dangerous creeper/potential criminal?
On one hand, I can see where he may feel sexually frustrated, especially if he hasn't had a satisfying encounter in a while.
And science has proven many times that under certain circumstances, our primitive brain/cellular memory/survival instincts do kick in/take over. Sexual desires are deeply ingrained into us. I can relate in some ways, as there have been many times that I have felt a bit more like a lioness on the prowl, than a human being. So I can understand what he is saying. Maybe he's just brave enough to publicly admit what most guys secretly feel?
On the other hand, it would be very easy to assume he is a poetic potential , and every internal big red alarm warning I have is going off. Danger! Danger, Will Robinson. Danger! I just hope he doesn't act on these urges during a late night trip for a gallon of milk.
Guys, what are your thoughts?
We all have primal needs.
It's ingrained in us from our caveman days, the need to conquer.
To take what we want when we want it.
Our biggest problem now days is that society frowns on men just grabbing a woman and having animalistic sex with her.
But still, I find myself walking through a store and seeing a woman I want.
My pulse quickens.
My sense of smell increases.
My gaze on her becomes more intense.
My problem is I've been domesticated.
I need to learn to hunt again.
To track my prey.
To be ready to attack when the time is right.
To become the animal that I once was.
(Edits: I fixed all the grammar and spelling mistakes to make it easier to read. The words are exactly what was written.)
The questions:
Do you feel this inherent need to find a woman as a "hunt"?
Do you feel that you have been domesticated by society?
Do you feel the same kind of frustration this man is expressing?
Or is this guy just a dangerous creeper/potential criminal?
On one hand, I can see where he may feel sexually frustrated, especially if he hasn't had a satisfying encounter in a while.
And science has proven many times that under certain circumstances, our primitive brain/cellular memory/survival instincts do kick in/take over. Sexual desires are deeply ingrained into us. I can relate in some ways, as there have been many times that I have felt a bit more like a lioness on the prowl, than a human being. So I can understand what he is saying. Maybe he's just brave enough to publicly admit what most guys secretly feel?
On the other hand, it would be very easy to assume he is a poetic potential , and every internal big red alarm warning I have is going off. Danger! Danger, Will Robinson. Danger! I just hope he doesn't act on these urges during a late night trip for a gallon of milk.
Guys, what are your thoughts?
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Is the toy bigger than he is? Thicker? Some men have issues with that because they are insecure. If that isn't the issue, then he just needs to get over it. Sex toys can be fun, and there is nothing wrong with having a BOB if he isn't available. You can even have one made with a cock cloning kit. You can make a mold of his and use it.
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I doubt she is cheating. It's much more likely that after 20+ years of marriage, she felt things in the bedroom were getting stale. She was probably trying to spice things up and keep it interesting. Perhaps she feels more comfortable with her sexual desires and wanted to express that with you. I think you should trust what she told you when you asked her about it. If you have made an accusation to her about cheating, even in a joking manner, that would explain why her newly found interest in sex has waned back down to what it was before. She probably feels as if you have shut her down and rejected her.
Many women hit their sexual peak between 30-40. Their libido increases and she will often become more open to experimenting, and want a lot more sex. It's sort of like a last hormonal hurrah before Menopause hits, which is how some women end up with surprise babies at 40.
Many women hit their sexual peak between 30-40. Their libido increases and she will often become more open to experimenting, and want a lot more sex. It's sort of like a last hormonal hurrah before Menopause hits, which is how some women end up with surprise babies at 40.
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Sticking his tongue in my ear.
Ignoring my breasts.
Can't find my clit.
Thinks trying to break through my cervix will make me orgasm.
Is too gentle when I want it rougher.
Ignoring my breasts.
Can't find my clit.
Thinks trying to break through my cervix will make me orgasm.
Is too gentle when I want it rougher.
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I think that questions like this is the reason racism is still an issue at all.
As long as the race of your sex partner is human, IT DOESN'T MATTER.
As long as the race of your sex partner is human, IT DOESN'T MATTER.
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Never have. I thought little boys outgrew that after grade school. LOL
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I was watching a documentary a few months back that talked about the problem. They have designed a love tunnel in anticipation of future space tourism. The couple crawl into the tunnel together. It is quite snug and stops them drifting apart in zero gravity.
Excellent idea. I want to try it.
I think I saw that documentary. About the logistics of long term life in space, right?
The one I saw was basically about why humanity can't live in space (yet) because sex would lead to babies, and giving birth in zero gravity would be too messy, and babies bones and bodies won't grow correctly without proper gravity. They would be deformed and unable to learn how to walk properly, or something like that.
Space shuttles are built from scraps from other (old) shuttles, contracted by the lowest bidder. Some parts are about as thick as a piece of paper, and in an emergency are held together with duct tape when things go wrong. Bumping into the walls having sex? I would be too worried about getting sucked into the vacuum to enjoy it. LOL
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Mistake 1: Inviting a stranger you met online to your home. (Really?)
Mistake 2: Sleeping with a total stranger you know next to nothing about. (How do you know she's clean? Was there paperwork to prove it?)
Mistake 3: Assuming she's "worth keeping" because she has nice breasts. (Obviously, you wanted more than one night with her.)
Mistake 4: Letting her stay the night. (Were you hoping for a morning quickie?)
Mistake 5: Not insisting she leave first thing in the morning. (Clearly not a one night stand anymore. One night stands GO HOME.)
Mistake 6: Trusting A STRANGER YOU JUST MET to lock up your house when she leaves. (This is just stupid.)
Mistake 7: Not tossing her butt out of your house when you come home and find her still there. (Who does that?)
Mistake 8: Letting her "woo" you by paying for dinner. (Since you haven't figured it out by now...SHE'S TAKING ADVANTAGE OF YOU.)
Mistake 9: Fucking her again. (Really? REALLY?)
Mistake 10: Letting her stay the night, again and again and again...(You are beyond foolish.)
Mistake 11: Finally getting her to leave, and then inviting her back! (WTF? Does she have a magical golden pussy?)
Mistake 12: Becoming emotionally invested and upset that she cut all contact. (You clearly wanted more than a one night stand with her.)
At what point did you make it clear to her this was a one night stand exactly?
You continually lead her to believe you wanted more than a one night stand. She probably thought you wanted a relationship with her, since you let her keep staying. Of course she left pissed. It's easy to see why she would think you broke up with her. You have no right to be appalled at her behavior when your own judgement is so questionable. At 28, you really should know better by now.
You'd better pray your week long dalliance with a woman who took advantage of your hospitality and manipulated you into letter her stay an entire week, doesn't end with her showing up at your doorstep pregnant. She'll be the type that will put your balls in a vice for the next 18 years of child support. Being a father doesn't end when the kid turns 18 either. It's for the rest of your life, which means you'll be stuck dealing with her for the rest of your life too. If you don't end up with a baby, or an incurable STD from this stupidity, I'd consider yourself lucky.
Consider this common sense lesson number 1: Don't bring strangers into your home. AND DON'T LET THEM STAY.
Mistake 2: Sleeping with a total stranger you know next to nothing about. (How do you know she's clean? Was there paperwork to prove it?)
Mistake 3: Assuming she's "worth keeping" because she has nice breasts. (Obviously, you wanted more than one night with her.)
Mistake 4: Letting her stay the night. (Were you hoping for a morning quickie?)
Mistake 5: Not insisting she leave first thing in the morning. (Clearly not a one night stand anymore. One night stands GO HOME.)
Mistake 6: Trusting A STRANGER YOU JUST MET to lock up your house when she leaves. (This is just stupid.)
Mistake 7: Not tossing her butt out of your house when you come home and find her still there. (Who does that?)
Mistake 8: Letting her "woo" you by paying for dinner. (Since you haven't figured it out by now...SHE'S TAKING ADVANTAGE OF YOU.)
Mistake 9: Fucking her again. (Really? REALLY?)
Mistake 10: Letting her stay the night, again and again and again...(You are beyond foolish.)
Mistake 11: Finally getting her to leave, and then inviting her back! (WTF? Does she have a magical golden pussy?)
Mistake 12: Becoming emotionally invested and upset that she cut all contact. (You clearly wanted more than a one night stand with her.)
At what point did you make it clear to her this was a one night stand exactly?
You continually lead her to believe you wanted more than a one night stand. She probably thought you wanted a relationship with her, since you let her keep staying. Of course she left pissed. It's easy to see why she would think you broke up with her. You have no right to be appalled at her behavior when your own judgement is so questionable. At 28, you really should know better by now.
You'd better pray your week long dalliance with a woman who took advantage of your hospitality and manipulated you into letter her stay an entire week, doesn't end with her showing up at your doorstep pregnant. She'll be the type that will put your balls in a vice for the next 18 years of child support. Being a father doesn't end when the kid turns 18 either. It's for the rest of your life, which means you'll be stuck dealing with her for the rest of your life too. If you don't end up with a baby, or an incurable STD from this stupidity, I'd consider yourself lucky.
Consider this common sense lesson number 1: Don't bring strangers into your home. AND DON'T LET THEM STAY.
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Nope. It's not my thing. I can't get over how unsanitary it is.
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As long as he doesn't keep bringing up his past lovers or past experiences, I don't mind hearing about it, the first time it comes up.
Being constantly compared to your lovers ex, or him trying to recreate a past relationship by repeated the same dates, moments spent together etc, sucks.
For example, one of my exes insisted on taking baths together, and would brush and braid my hair. It made me uncomfortable because I felt like I was being treated like a child. It was kinda creepy to me. He also insisted we watch certain movies together and go to certain places. He threw a fit when I cut my hair without telling him. I later learned that he would do the same things with his ex, and that I looked a lot like her when my hair was long. It was like he couldn't handle the fact that they were over (she broke up with him), and was trying to recreate their relationship by getting me to be more like her.
Being constantly compared to your lovers ex, or him trying to recreate a past relationship by repeated the same dates, moments spent together etc, sucks.
For example, one of my exes insisted on taking baths together, and would brush and braid my hair. It made me uncomfortable because I felt like I was being treated like a child. It was kinda creepy to me. He also insisted we watch certain movies together and go to certain places. He threw a fit when I cut my hair without telling him. I later learned that he would do the same things with his ex, and that I looked a lot like her when my hair was long. It was like he couldn't handle the fact that they were over (she broke up with him), and was trying to recreate their relationship by getting me to be more like her.
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I have one pair of dressy black heels, and the heel is about an inch. I wear them about once a year.
High heels are the most uncomfortable, evil, contraptions ever, and they can ruin your feet. I'd rather be able to still walk when I'm 80, than to look sexy just to please someone else. But then, I think most shoes are ridiculous. I'd rather go barefoot.
Well before it was a fixture of women’s fashion, the high-heeled shoe was used in the 16th century by Persian soldiers on horseback. The shoes gave the soldiers stability in the stirrups so they could use their bow and arrows more efficiently. Later, in 17th-century Europe, the shoe caught on as a fashion statement for the aristocracy. Around the 1630s, women started adopting masculine fashion trends, and this is when women began wearing high heels and carrying purses.
High heels are the most uncomfortable, evil, contraptions ever, and they can ruin your feet. I'd rather be able to still walk when I'm 80, than to look sexy just to please someone else. But then, I think most shoes are ridiculous. I'd rather go barefoot.
Well before it was a fixture of women’s fashion, the high-heeled shoe was used in the 16th century by Persian soldiers on horseback. The shoes gave the soldiers stability in the stirrups so they could use their bow and arrows more efficiently. Later, in 17th-century Europe, the shoe caught on as a fashion statement for the aristocracy. Around the 1630s, women started adopting masculine fashion trends, and this is when women began wearing high heels and carrying purses.
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I wouldn't be surprised if she shuts this idea down in an instant. Has she ever mentioned wanting to sleep with multiple men at once? If not, I don't imagine this going well for you at all, especially the way you are planning to go about it. Here's why:
1. This is your fantasy, not hers. This puts her in a position of saying yes just to please you, when in reality she may not be into it at all.
2. You are assuming that because it is something you will like, she automatically will too. Don't assume.
3. Just because she is horny, doesn't mean she's going to agree to it.
4. Bringing it up while you are having sex is manipulative and shady as fuck.
5. She is going to figure out you used sex to trick her into agreeing to something she doesn't really want. This is not cool.
6. Even if she agrees to it, some fantasies are usually better than the reality.
7. She could change her mind at any moment. If it's while she's naked, surround by a bunch of men, she's not going to feel safe.
8. If she does agree to it, you are both risking bringing STD's into your marriage, some of which are incurable. Not smart.
9. You are married. Unless both of you are poly and already agreed to an open marriage, this is probably going to be a hard sell.
A lot of men try this "fantasy" as a tactic to justify their own sleeping around with multiple women. They think if they can get their wife or girlfriend to agree to sleep with other men, then they can sleep around with as many women as they want. In this way they can justify not having to be faithful. If this is your ultimate goal, at least be open and honest with her about it. If she's not poly, you can't force her to be.
You'll probably have better luck if you actually sit down (fully clothed) and have an open discussion with her about what her fantasies actually are. If she brings up group sex, you can ask her if sleeping with a bunch of men is something she has ever thought about. If it's not, then you know she's not going to be into it. She may like the idea and agree to try it, but at least this way, she won't feel manipulated into agreeing to it.
This fantasy could potentially ruin your marriage. Consider carefully before you go down this road.
1. This is your fantasy, not hers. This puts her in a position of saying yes just to please you, when in reality she may not be into it at all.
2. You are assuming that because it is something you will like, she automatically will too. Don't assume.
3. Just because she is horny, doesn't mean she's going to agree to it.
4. Bringing it up while you are having sex is manipulative and shady as fuck.
5. She is going to figure out you used sex to trick her into agreeing to something she doesn't really want. This is not cool.
6. Even if she agrees to it, some fantasies are usually better than the reality.
7. She could change her mind at any moment. If it's while she's naked, surround by a bunch of men, she's not going to feel safe.
8. If she does agree to it, you are both risking bringing STD's into your marriage, some of which are incurable. Not smart.
9. You are married. Unless both of you are poly and already agreed to an open marriage, this is probably going to be a hard sell.
A lot of men try this "fantasy" as a tactic to justify their own sleeping around with multiple women. They think if they can get their wife or girlfriend to agree to sleep with other men, then they can sleep around with as many women as they want. In this way they can justify not having to be faithful. If this is your ultimate goal, at least be open and honest with her about it. If she's not poly, you can't force her to be.
You'll probably have better luck if you actually sit down (fully clothed) and have an open discussion with her about what her fantasies actually are. If she brings up group sex, you can ask her if sleeping with a bunch of men is something she has ever thought about. If it's not, then you know she's not going to be into it. She may like the idea and agree to try it, but at least this way, she won't feel manipulated into agreeing to it.
This fantasy could potentially ruin your marriage. Consider carefully before you go down this road.
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Quote by VelvetDesire
Gone with wind could be an incredible remake, not sure who I would pick for the leading roles though.
It would take a lot of work to do it, but Hollywood has made some incredible epic war movies lately. A retelling of Gone With the Wind should be one of them. If it is well done, by the right director, it will be amazing. Casting will be one of the most important parts of doing a remake that people will really enjoy. Although, I suspect no matter who is chosen, there will be people who will protest and complain.
Maybe in another ten years, or twenty, someone in Hollywood will take on the challenge.
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1. No more crude, disrespectful dialogue aimed at women. It's a huge turn off. Especially for women in real life.
2. Actual chemistry between the sex partners, instead of just strangers who meet for the first time and get naked together. It comes off as mechanical and passionless.
3. No more scary thin, bones poking out women with inflated bubble butts and outrageously sized plastic breasts. Real women don't look like that.
4. Equality of oral pleasure. 10 minutes of a blow job and 1 minute of cunnilingus? No. It's not all about the blow job, boys.
5. No more women pretending to enjoy it. Fake moaning and orgasms lead men to believe all they have to do is get inside a woman and pound at her cervix to get her to climax. Around 75% of women can not orgasm with just penetration alone. Most women need clitoral stimulation of some kind to have a real orgasm.
6. More of a story in the movie. Less "Hey, stranger. Here's a camera. Let's fuck!
7. No more "money shots". Especially in a woman's face. That's vile.
This kind of shit in porn is why so many men suck in bed.
2. Actual chemistry between the sex partners, instead of just strangers who meet for the first time and get naked together. It comes off as mechanical and passionless.
3. No more scary thin, bones poking out women with inflated bubble butts and outrageously sized plastic breasts. Real women don't look like that.
4. Equality of oral pleasure. 10 minutes of a blow job and 1 minute of cunnilingus? No. It's not all about the blow job, boys.
5. No more women pretending to enjoy it. Fake moaning and orgasms lead men to believe all they have to do is get inside a woman and pound at her cervix to get her to climax. Around 75% of women can not orgasm with just penetration alone. Most women need clitoral stimulation of some kind to have a real orgasm.
6. More of a story in the movie. Less "Hey, stranger. Here's a camera. Let's fuck!
7. No more "money shots". Especially in a woman's face. That's vile.
This kind of shit in porn is why so many men suck in bed.
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I'm not trying to be mean, but I'm going to tell you the truth, how I see it. I've dealt with a lot of people like your friend, and more than once, this sort of thing happened (the circumstances were always different) , until I learned to own up to my role in it and stop repeating the pattern. You sound like a nice, compassionate person, and that is part of what created this situation.
It took me a lot of years to learn one simple fact: Not everyone is worth your compassion. They don't appreciate it. They use it to get what they want. And I know, for my part, I allowed it to happen for far too long.
Here's where you went wrong:
It sounds to me like you suspected she was using you from the start. You said you knew she was a bullshitter. So you already knew you shouldn't trust her. So the fact that she lied to you shouldn't be that much of a surprise.
The two of you crossed the friendship boundary into something more. You allowed this to happen. The problem that comes with this is that eventually, one friend finds someone else to date. This almost always ruins friendships. It happens so much it's cliche.
Then, when confronted with her lie, she gave you a pretty pitiful excuse and you let her get away with it. You told her you weren't mad, even though you obviously are. So you lied to her too. This sends her the message that she can betray you and you're going to keep forgiving her. It tells her that she can keep doing it. Why? She's not that great of a friend to start with, so why would you make her feel better about betraying you? You need to learn to stand up for yourself and be more honest about your feelings, especially when people hurt you. You don't have to be "nice" when someone betrays you.
By not saying anything when you catch her being so double minded, you are allowing her to continue to abuse your friendship and trust.
Can you see how you contributed to your own hurt? I'm not making excuses for her, but you have to take a step back and see that she isn't entirely to blame either. You played a part in this whole situation too.
She's not your friend. She uses people. The faster you learn to accept this and cut her out of your life for good (no contact in any way, ever again.) the faster she will find someone else to latch on to. You don't owe her anything, not even an explanation. It would fall on deaf ears anyway.
Honestly, this is exactly the kind of thing sociopaths do. Not all of them are dangerous, but they love to toy with people's emotions and get them to do what they want. They are manipulative and selfish, and they tend to gravitate toward compassionate people, because they view them as weak and usable. They lack any empathy, and don't care who they hurt along the way. Trust me, I know. My mother is a narcissistic sociopath, and so was my best friend in high school, and my first boyfriend. It took a lot of years for me to recognize the signs and grow a tougher skin.
1 in 25 people is a sociopath. You'll save yourself a lot of pain in the future if you learn the signs and avoid these people.
It took me a lot of years to learn one simple fact: Not everyone is worth your compassion. They don't appreciate it. They use it to get what they want. And I know, for my part, I allowed it to happen for far too long.
Here's where you went wrong:
It sounds to me like you suspected she was using you from the start. You said you knew she was a bullshitter. So you already knew you shouldn't trust her. So the fact that she lied to you shouldn't be that much of a surprise.
The two of you crossed the friendship boundary into something more. You allowed this to happen. The problem that comes with this is that eventually, one friend finds someone else to date. This almost always ruins friendships. It happens so much it's cliche.
Then, when confronted with her lie, she gave you a pretty pitiful excuse and you let her get away with it. You told her you weren't mad, even though you obviously are. So you lied to her too. This sends her the message that she can betray you and you're going to keep forgiving her. It tells her that she can keep doing it. Why? She's not that great of a friend to start with, so why would you make her feel better about betraying you? You need to learn to stand up for yourself and be more honest about your feelings, especially when people hurt you. You don't have to be "nice" when someone betrays you.
By not saying anything when you catch her being so double minded, you are allowing her to continue to abuse your friendship and trust.
Can you see how you contributed to your own hurt? I'm not making excuses for her, but you have to take a step back and see that she isn't entirely to blame either. You played a part in this whole situation too.
She's not your friend. She uses people. The faster you learn to accept this and cut her out of your life for good (no contact in any way, ever again.) the faster she will find someone else to latch on to. You don't owe her anything, not even an explanation. It would fall on deaf ears anyway.
Honestly, this is exactly the kind of thing sociopaths do. Not all of them are dangerous, but they love to toy with people's emotions and get them to do what they want. They are manipulative and selfish, and they tend to gravitate toward compassionate people, because they view them as weak and usable. They lack any empathy, and don't care who they hurt along the way. Trust me, I know. My mother is a narcissistic sociopath, and so was my best friend in high school, and my first boyfriend. It took a lot of years for me to recognize the signs and grow a tougher skin.
1 in 25 people is a sociopath. You'll save yourself a lot of pain in the future if you learn the signs and avoid these people.
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My avatar changes every once in a while. The one I have now is just because I like purple.
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What movie do you wish was redone? Any classics? How about your favorites from when you were a child?
Personally, I think that Gone With the Wind should be remade.
The Flight of the Navigator (1978) Kids would love it.
Enemy Mine (1985) Could be good if it was done right.
Willow (1988) With Peter Dinklage
Big (1988) Tom Hanks directing/producing or acting. It wouldn't be right if he wasn't involved.
Wizard of Oz and Mary Poppins would probably be big hits too.
Personally, I think that Gone With the Wind should be remade.
The Flight of the Navigator (1978) Kids would love it.
Enemy Mine (1985) Could be good if it was done right.
Willow (1988) With Peter Dinklage
Big (1988) Tom Hanks directing/producing or acting. It wouldn't be right if he wasn't involved.
Wizard of Oz and Mary Poppins would probably be big hits too.
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As long as you wash regularly and keep yourself clean and dry, how your pussy smells is supposed to be a little spicy or a little sweet, naturally, and there is nothing wrong with that.
Your vaginal area is not going to smell like a bouquet of flowers or taste like a chocolate fudge sundae, nor should it. Perfumes and other things can alter the Ph balance a woman has and cause yeast infections, which definitely doesn't smell pleasant.
If a man has a problem with a woman's natural scent, that is HIS problem, and he needs to grow up and get over it. There are plenty of men who love going down on a woman, and adore her natural scent.
If you're really concerned about it, you should talk to your doctor who can rule out a medical reason for funky smells, and recommend a feminine wash, or some other type of treatment.
Your vaginal area is not going to smell like a bouquet of flowers or taste like a chocolate fudge sundae, nor should it. Perfumes and other things can alter the Ph balance a woman has and cause yeast infections, which definitely doesn't smell pleasant.
If a man has a problem with a woman's natural scent, that is HIS problem, and he needs to grow up and get over it. There are plenty of men who love going down on a woman, and adore her natural scent.
If you're really concerned about it, you should talk to your doctor who can rule out a medical reason for funky smells, and recommend a feminine wash, or some other type of treatment.
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I only ever had one teacher who was so cute I had a crush on him, but I was way too young to think like that. The teacher/student fantasy doesn't really do it for me.
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For a woman to be with a man is always an exciting rush of power. There is that initial thrill of the first touch, and the promise of ecstasy that follows the first thrust. There is an urgency of need in the act of two bodies coming together, of masculinity in control, taking, demanding, invading everything that makes a woman soft and feminine. There is a moment, however brief, when she becomes totally submissive and receptive. She gives herself totally over to her man, body, heart and spirit. She is completely his, at that moment when his body enters hers.
But no matter how dominant the man’s nature, or how thoroughly he takes her to the stars and back, when a man invades a woman, the ultimate conquest is hers. The woman captures the raw masculine power of a man within herself. There is a moment when he realizes she has not rejected him, but rather, she accepts him for everything he is, and everything he’s not. He’s helpless to resist the allure of her breathless cries, the heat of her body engulfing him, and the pleasure in her face. However dominant his nature, it is she who is the one who turns the powerful tide. When he finally surrenders his soul to the moments of climax, it is he who is laying helpless upon her breasts at the end.
But no matter how dominant the man’s nature, or how thoroughly he takes her to the stars and back, when a man invades a woman, the ultimate conquest is hers. The woman captures the raw masculine power of a man within herself. There is a moment when he realizes she has not rejected him, but rather, she accepts him for everything he is, and everything he’s not. He’s helpless to resist the allure of her breathless cries, the heat of her body engulfing him, and the pleasure in her face. However dominant his nature, it is she who is the one who turns the powerful tide. When he finally surrenders his soul to the moments of climax, it is he who is laying helpless upon her breasts at the end.
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I automatically turn down guys who think their huge cock is what will make them better in bed, because they obviously don't know enough about what really makes sex good. In my experience guys with big cocks don't have much else to offer a woman, in bed or outside of it. That has more to do with their attitude than their dangly bits.
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I don't think being pretty to look at has anything to do with a persons skills in bed.
What makes for better sex is chemistry, communication and a willingness to learn what the other person needs and wants.
What makes for better sex is chemistry, communication and a willingness to learn what the other person needs and wants.
Active Ink Slinger
Well, besides the obvious, my neck, especially if there is a bit of stubble involved.
Active Ink Slinger
I don't really keep track of word count unless I have to for limit's sake.
I usually track page count.
I usually track page count.
Active Ink Slinger
Hmm...
1. Their strength. When they hold you tight and make a woman feel safe.
2. The fact that they are taller than me and willing to reach stuff on the top shelf, so I don't have to climb on things. (I'm 5 ft. 1)
3. The way they smell...after a shower, before the cologne.
4. The fact that they need women for so many things, but still pretend they don't.
5. The way they kiss your forehead and nuzzle your neck.
1. Their strength. When they hold you tight and make a woman feel safe.
2. The fact that they are taller than me and willing to reach stuff on the top shelf, so I don't have to climb on things. (I'm 5 ft. 1)
3. The way they smell...after a shower, before the cologne.
4. The fact that they need women for so many things, but still pretend they don't.
5. The way they kiss your forehead and nuzzle your neck.