Let me ask... To the men and women alike, do you think your best sexual partners are the best looking of your sexual partners? Is there a correlation to... The best looking guy the best fuck? I must say from my experience that rarely is the best looking woman the best lover in bed. If that is truely the case why do we always seek the best looking partner?
I do like my men to look good - from my point of view. Looks are not everything though and a caring gentle guy that can perform in the way I like to be treated both socially and sexually is more important to me.
looks are only skin deep.....I am attracted to different ones...I have to be drawn to something deeper.
Over the years I have been with a few men that were not high one the beauty list. But I had know them for a time and when we did finally get in bed together WOW.
Their attractiveness had nothing to do with their sexual capacity.
If one of these guys approached me in a public arena for the first time. The chances of us getting together would be less than zero.
Dumb me.
We are all wired differently I guess, but follow the same ancient and built-in need to find a mate. (I don't necessarily mean to procreate)
In my experience I've found the eyes are the first thing that attracts me, regardless of his overall looks. I'm a sucker for soft sad eyes.
So I don't believe there's a correlation. Although I've never gone for the classically good looking guys. What is classically good looking anyway?
Cumberbatch over Pitt any day of the week for me.
to a point it does
Of course in the end it all comes down to the connection you two have it just has to work out and all that isn't neccecarily tied to looks. But fact is if I am physically attracted to my partner I will enjoy the sex more that's atleast for me my best sex has been with the most attractive partners. On the other hand I tried sex with people I didn't really consider all that attractive and it just didn't work you can't trick your head when it comes to that I guess
I'd like to be the guy that says looks don't matter, but I'd be a hypocrite.
I was just discussing with Bethany if it is bigoted to have never dated woman that wasn't beautiful. I don't have anything to compare it to as I've never had sex with an unattractive partner. I don't think it is as much of whom I attract than who I seek.
In my opinion no not always
I had sex with a guy who you wouldn't consider a super model. I mean he wasn't ugly or anything but he was funny and charming as hell and awesome orgasm giver
It can but not a deal killer. An ugly personality does more to turn me off than than a less than pretty face. I have banged some less than beautiful women and my criteria is 1) Did I enjoy the ride 2) Did she get off 3) Was the foreplay fun, exciting and raunchy. the foreplay can make the rest better and you can always do it doggie style if you think she is too ugly to face-to-face fuck! Or just turn the lights down rrreeeaaallll low! As a man told me many years ago, in sex everyone looks beautiful in the dark! =d>
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Just because your partner is super hot doesn't mean you will have great sexual chemistry with each other. One of the hottest women I've ever been with was the most boring in the sack.
I think the best sex is when you find your partner to be very attractive so YES. But being attractive to me doesn't necessarily mean attractive to you. Being attractive is not only a physical thing, it is also very mental and spiritual. I am sure there are many very handsome men and beautiful women who I would not have sexual chemistry with.
In my experience, a certain positive correlation exists between how well a woman takes care of herself and how good, fun and adventurous she is in bed. Simple attractiveness of her face, which is subjective anyway, has very little to do with it however. I'm sure the same applies to men as well.
I don't think being pretty to look at has anything to do with a persons skills in bed.
What makes for better sex is chemistry, communication and a willingness to learn what the other person needs and wants.
attractive people can be just as crap in bed as anyone else. i don't care what you look like - if you have no idea how to eat pussy, being beautiful ain't gonna matter.
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Well, with respect, you misuse the word "attractive"...
I, not conventionally PRETTY or good-looking myself, have never really been drawn to the "Playboy Model" type woman...
An ATTITUDE, a look, a laugh, a manner, a GRACE, indeed, sometimes a delightful awkwardness, a sense of self, a sense of humor, a style, often a certain irksome quality I have to overlook (not present as she's cumming...) an intelligence, a certain knowingness, an innocence, an HONESTY...
Aha? Honesty...
Attractive is something you can't see in a mirror or a photograph. You CAN hear it in a laugh, see it in a look, feel it in how a partner touches and allows themselves to be touched...
Better Sex comes with trust and honesty. (And that CAN happen quickly!!!) And a desire to please and be pleased. There HAS to be an ATTRACTION, of course, but attraction goes far beyond what anyone LOOKS like...
I am not what anyone might call inexperienced. I have NEVER made love to an UNATTRACTIVE woman. Different women yes, but each one mine in the moment, and I, (I hope) hers...
So I guess my answer, given my understanding of your question, is, "Of Course Not!"
xx Steph
Tough one to answer.
Considering someone would rarely, if ever, sleep with a person they found unattractive, it becomes hard to judge. If we are then asking if the people we have sex with, who we consider more attractive than another are better lovers, then I'd say no, there is no correlation.
Some of the hottest people I've fucked wouldn't make my top 10 list.
There are one or two exceptions ?
Beware of a woman offering me canned spaghetti...then she's becomes left over mozzarella. Not necessarily unattractive, but a little shy of my menu side. Now! what was the question? If she has a mustache and it isn't waxed, forget it.
I've had a couple of super gorgeous women that were total duds in bed. I mean real 'dead fish' with too many sexual hang ups, boring and no enthusiasm.
Sexual chemistry, mutual attraction, the ability to communicate easily with each other can lead to great sex. You teach each other what and how you want it. To be a great pussy eater, a guy needs a great teacher and the desire to please. If you can please your lover, they will please you right back.
For the most part people are going to mate with someone of like attractiveness. Of course some factors may skew that like money and power. Of course that's what some people find is an aphrodisiac. Others not so much.
I've had some ex-girlfriends that I had great sexual chemistry with, but by far the best and off the charts is the woman I married.
..... But it's also a universal fact that people love beauty.... Isn't it ? :)
