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Does a more attractive partner correlate to a better sex?

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A more attractive partner who also has a good mind, sense of humor and knows what to do to pleasure a girl, then it makes a difference. If its just looks, nope, doesn't work for me. I've been around to many handsome guys on my campus to know that most of them, once you get past the looks, are not really great guys.
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SereneProdigy
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So according to your graph you normally don't intend to get the most sexual pleasure as you seem to have more less-than-avarage-looking partners than otherwise.


You did get that this graph doesn't actually represent my own sexual experiences and was simply added to represent a moderate positive correlation, right?
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You did get that this graph doesn't actually represent my own sexual experiences and was simply added to represent a moderate positive correlation, right?


Well, you didn't provide another source and started off with:

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Speaking for myself, I wouldn't call it a perfect correlation but there is certainly a strong correlation. I see it that way:




But if it's not your graph, then how do you know whether C was avarage-looking, or even that it was a woman?


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But if it's not your graph, then how do you know whether C was avarage-looking, or even that it was a woman?


Oh god... probably because it represents fictive sexual partners (women in my case), and that C is right in the middle of the 'attractiveness' axis.

Look, trying to play the smart-ass doesn't always make you appear all that smart. You can disagree with my initial perspective, you can even express your opposition openly, just don't expect me to fall for some pointless semantic debate that doesn't lead anywhere simply to make me feel bad about what I expressed. I depicted my own personal experience here, and I still fully stand by it. And I'm perfectly tolerant if others have a different perspective on the matter.

If you still have difficulties understanding the practical details of my initial post, you'll have to figure them out by yourself I'm afraid. And if you want to disagree with my perspective, at least show enough balls to participate in a constructive debate rather than force me to argue about some logical rubbish.
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TOP TEN LIST???????

(What a slut!)

*LAUGHS!*


xx Steph


I'd like to deny that label but that ship has sailed lol
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Look, trying to play the smart-ass doesn't always make you appear all that smart. You can disagree with my initial perspective, you can even express your opposition openly, just don't expect me to fall for some pointless semantic debate that doesn't lead anywhere simply to make me feel bad about what I expressed. I depicted my own personal experience here, and I still fully stand by it. And I'm perfectly tolerant if others have a different perspective on the matter.


Whether I'm playing a smart-ass or not, you added a graph, seemingly to add some weight to your argument, that now turns out not to be your data, not even real data, but fictional data. Since I now know how to interpret the post/data I'll leave it at that.

Making you feel bad was not what I was after btw.


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I think that the chemistry plays a larger role in it. Hubby was truly a handsome and sexy man, still is to me as he has aged, distinguished, However, the chemistry has to be there. Otherwise, wouldn't base it on looks at all.
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currently in a relationship with a man, that isnt a greek Adonis. He is in fact a moderately attractive person....his outward attributes are his Hazel eyes and his stocky build. A biker and a truck driver...now you're probably thinking a rough and tumble arrogant prick....as I found out real fast he was and is a mans' man. Genuinely thoughtful and very conscious of my pleasure before his own....thinks most times before putting his mouth in gear....after all he is just a man....but we click....and he is willing to keep mama pleased and oh yes.....I am all about his pleasure....
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seeing as how attractiveness is subjective, i honestly don't see how it can.

Say. Her. Name.
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Let me ask... To the men and women alike, do you think your best sexual partners are the best looking of your sexual partners? Is there a correlation to... The best looking guy the best fuck? I must say from my experience that rarely is the best looking woman the best lover in bed. If that is truely the case why do we always seek the best looking partner?


In my experience, definitely not.

But then for a guy to get me into bed (without the heavy influence of alcohol), yes I need to be attracted to how he looks but what comes out of his mouth and his general vibe/energy/whatever you want to call it, has to attract me too.
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I've had a couple of super gorgeous women that were total duds in bed. I mean real 'dead fish' with too many sexual hang ups, boring and no enthusiasm.

Sexual chemistry, mutual attraction, the ability to communicate easily with each other can lead to great sex. You teach each other what and how you want it. To be a great pussy eater, a guy needs a great teacher and the desire to please. If you can please your lover, they will please you right back.

For the most part people are going to mate with someone of like attractiveness. Of course some factors may skew that like money and power. Of course that's what some people find is an aphrodisiac. Others not so much.

I've had some ex-girlfriends that I had great sexual chemistry with, but by far the best and off the charts is the woman I married.


This. Bravo! Well said.
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Theoretically, yes. But I think we fuck best, when we fuck who we think we deserve.
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But I think we fuck best, when we fuck who we think we deserve.


I love this.
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There have been studies that prove females have a better chance of reaching orgasm if they find their partner to be more attractive.

In my own personal experience, attractiveness does play a role in who I select as a sexual partner. But penis size, how well he uses his penis, his attitude, personality and how well we connect also plays a big role.