I left Lush for a variety of reasons including turning 50.

Now I am back, and I am not sure for a week a month or forever.

Either way, some updating is due.

I was not the girl next door; I was not the girl guys wanted to take home to meet their Mom. I was not the most popular girl in my school. But most of the guys knew that I was a sure thing when we went on a date. Even, if it was after he took out his best girl home. Can you believe some of them would not give out? Do we still say that?


I had decided marriage was not for me. Why would I limit myself to one man when there were so many.

In grad school, I went to a professors party and met a guy named Robb. I knew who he was, and every girl on campus wanted to bare his child, except me. I shook his hand and found a reason to slip out of the party.
He called me a few days later, and I quickly let him know I was not interested. When I finally, after many calls I agreed to meet him, I knew he would run, when he found out about my sexual history. But he did not.

Of course, he knew about my history with guys, few did not on campus.

We only had one severe issue, children, I wanted none, and he comes from a family that expected each sibling to provide grandchildren. I finally agreed to have one pregnancy; only it turned out to be twin daughters. I guess the second was a little dangerous too. I told Robb I would Cheat or Fuck around. Which did not go over with great enthusiasm?

Yes, it is generally called Open Marriage. I did my thing, and he did his. I must admit I did a lot more of my thing than did he do of his.

He came around to enjoy me and how I am. In fact, he would from time to time bring guys home for me or set me up in a position that he knew what was going to happen before I did. Sometimes he would stay and observe but most the time not.

We have had a good life together. I got what I must have, and he seems to have what he wants.

Please do not ask how many, because I could only guess.

We have raised two successful daughters, one in a Venture Capital Business and the other a Lieutenant. in the U.S. Navy.

Men seem to notice me still and still like what I have to offer, including much younger men. I hide my age and will as long as I can get away with it.

Two things I am going to be very clear about 2019 minus 1968 makes me 51. If you like what you see and have read, come by and say hi. God, I need and love SEX.

Interests
Volleyball and Golf, Sailing and the beach. Not an expert in Sailing but I do beach as good as anyone. Love most sports and have some knowledge of most of them. Swim in my beloved Pacific whenever I can that means just about daily from May through October. Much better than the gym. Very Political and if you are on the wrong side of the spectrum I will tell you. I almost forgot I love live theater, but don't get here as often as I would like.

I have been asked in the past to meet other members and that is not something I look with much favor upon. I know I have disappointed some nice people about meeting and I apologize. So rather than disappointing people please just do not ask. I have a busy life and there are just too many obstacles to a meeting. If you are looking for an online friend maybe I will fit just fine with you.

Now if you see me in a lounge having my favorite drink it could be another subject. I think it was in Casa Blanca Bogart said to Bergman "Of all the Gin Joints in the World you walk into mine." Well, it could happen.

Favorite Books
Most of the things I read would bore you to death, Business, Economic and Political. When it comes to Fiction I do not know who is in and who is out today.

Favorite Authors
See above

Favorite Movies
Not a great moviegoer

Favorite TV Shows
Bull, NCIS the original, Property Brothers and when none of the preceding are on the Food Network is.

Favorite Music
Love most, from Big Band to Cool Jazz and County Rock, some more than others. Have not yet mastered Rap, it that really music?