Many thanks, both, for the advice. A little preparation is necessary I guess, but most times things just sort of progressed with a momentum of their own ! Fortunately I was wearing a condom on all but one of those times. Using a douche is a pretty good suggestion.
But nevertheless, all in all, it was pretty off-putting for me. I guess some of the stories you read here ( true and fantasy) use a certain amount of poetic licence.
I couldn’t agree more with what you say about A to M, although it seems to appear in plenty of stories .
You both seem to manage it in ways that make it a pleasurable experience for you. Bravo, keep on enjoying !
Thanks. Robert.