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robjw
4 hours ago
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A fairly unhelpful answer.

Users leave unexpectedly.

Yes, that's why I said 'I realise that she may have her own reasons for leaving so suddenly'.

No to getting email address. If user didn't give you outside contact, then why would you think the Mods would give that info. to you?

I was just asking on the off chance that they could. But I did say 'Or is that unethical?'

Plus, you didn't indicate users handle.

No I didn't. But I said I would send it privately if they could help ( protect privacy of the person I am trying to get in touch with).

Enjoy the users why they exist on the site.

I do but set up the post to see if there was any helpful explanation .

And, Mods are very chill, they just delete users account w/out needing too.

I didn't think they would delete an account for no reason. I was curious to know what reasons might result in that action
Which is why I titled the post 'What reasons are there for people getting their membership revoked ?'



I have been exchanging private messages with another member. The last one I received was only yesterday, together with access to a photo album. She never gave any indication that she was planning to give up her membership. Indeed she was very keen to carry on writing to each other. She has posted a number of stories all of which have been well received. The last one was published two days ago. Yet I have just checked out the site and her account no longer exists and all her stories are gone. And of course I am unable to contact her via PMs.
What has happened ? Are there reasons why a person could have their membership revoked ? I realise that she may have her own reasons for leaving so suddenly. But it seems so odd that I wonder if there were other reasons.

Are the site administrators able to shed any light on this ? I can send you her profile name privately if you are able to help. Are you able to help me get in touch with her by giving me the email address she registered with ? Or is that unethical? Any info you can give me would be appreciated.
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Stupid girl by Garbage. I have just watched a terrific live performance of this song on Youtube ( Garbage - Stupid Girl [Live @ KROQ Weenie Roast 2012 ).
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So many, but One Love by Bob Marley definitely.
I thought this might be an interesting subject for this forum, but clearly not ! I guess I will never know more about it.
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Lots of great advice, but this especially. As a reader I can usually get a sense of when the author is really taking joy in their creativity vs trying desperately to get attention and write the 'greatest sex story in all of erotic literature' in order to get infinite RRs and EPs and so on. Personally, I prefer good writing that isn't too desperate for me to think highly of it (In the same way that neediness isn't particularly attractive in a person, but confidence can be).

No I don't intend to take my writing too seriously. I have read so many great stories on this site that I just thought I would post a couple of stories as my way of making a contribution to the site. As this was my first one I was keen to get some feedback from readers before deciding whether to proceed further. I don't expect everyone to like my stories or my style of writing, but if enough people out there enjoy it then I will consider it worth while.
Thanks everyone for all the help and advice . I feel I understand the way things work a little better now.
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Thanks for clarifying that curvygalore and thanks for the advice seeker4 and just_a_guy. I will take it all on board.
Thanks for your replies. From what seeker4 and Buz say this is a pretty normal level of feedback so I guess I shouldn’t take it as any reflection on my story.
Rumpleforeskins advice is a little surprising to me ( and seems to contradict the other 2 ). Is getting feedback on a story really dependant on making lots of forum posts ? Surely writing stories and taking part in forum discussions are 2 completely different things .
The tip about adding a link to the story when I post on a forum discussion might be useful however. Although I can see that it may get more people reading it, will it get a higher proportion of people giving feedback ? Anyway your replies are appreciated.