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oshkrozz
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
0 miles · Baltimore
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Advanced Wordsmith
There are some positions that the penetration doesn't rub against the clit and so her using the hand is highly erotic, I have not only enjoyed it but on occasion taken her hand placing it there and rubbing with her to set up the rhythm. Or have whispered in her ear as her hair is tangled in my hands how she need to start rubbing now ...
Advanced Wordsmith
I have a great fondness for giving massages. When I was younger I would work with clay, and then I started to bake bread. Kneading the dough, working with your hands and then punching it down again strengthens my wrists and arms, now I can use the same techniques on sore backs, necks and legs ... and ...
Advanced Wordsmith
The crack of thunder awakens a primal urge, a desire that is deep inside and the flash of lighting burning though the sky evokes a lust. There is something to a thunderstorm that is raging around in the summer the waves of rain crashing through the heat and your lover is in your arms (although a safer and possibly more sanitary place to do this is the shower ...). It produce a raw sensual experience that makes your skin crawl with the energy.
Then there is the light summer rain, the rays of sun break through and there is a mist, you are on a rock outcropping and you can be sure no others are venturing out as the light rain soaks your shirt, the water brings out a slow sensuality and you reach in to kiss, to embrace, and feel the soft touch of rain (and notice shoot another couple had the same idea in this place)
So yes I have ... and recommend it too
Then there is the light summer rain, the rays of sun break through and there is a mist, you are on a rock outcropping and you can be sure no others are venturing out as the light rain soaks your shirt, the water brings out a slow sensuality and you reach in to kiss, to embrace, and feel the soft touch of rain (and notice shoot another couple had the same idea in this place)
So yes I have ... and recommend it too
Advanced Wordsmith
Relationships take work, work from both partners they do not just blossom in a vacuum. The longer you are with someone that harder it is not to take what they do for granted, to thank them for the little things that you start to expect them to do without prompting.
You have been together for 9 years you might know what works and what doesn't. How do you convince him to do something. How can one ask without getting frustrated to do the simple chores that just need to be done (cooking, cleaning, laundry, picking up kids, dropping them off and so on ...).
1) It may very well be that in your head it is so clear what needs to be done around the house, in his head a pile of dirty dishes can be done tomorrow.
2) Conflict resolution, if you are having the same flights they are not getting resolved, you need to find a way to get out of the cycle.
this leads to
3) Conversation, you have to find a way to speak about it as part of a conversation, that doesn't mean talking at him, he may not absorb any of the information you throw his way However, speak with him. One fairly good way to do this ... ask him what he thinks about topic _____ get him to start to talk ... once he expresses how he feels you might be surprised and find a common ground to work with in his frame of mind and then work together to find a system that works for both of you
Last but not least, if you can not on your own find a solution talking to a professional can help (for both of you, or for yourself) however, going in it is good to have clear goals so you can work on them.
A person at work (gym, mall, milk man, online) will always seem better since when you interact with them they are 100% about you ... if they are not you will stop interacting with them so the grass seems greener ... yet if you were to live with them 24x7 for a year they would have new found annoyances for you to enjoy (the way they spread the toothpaste, the way they put away the bread ...)
You have been together for 9 years you might know what works and what doesn't. How do you convince him to do something. How can one ask without getting frustrated to do the simple chores that just need to be done (cooking, cleaning, laundry, picking up kids, dropping them off and so on ...).
1) It may very well be that in your head it is so clear what needs to be done around the house, in his head a pile of dirty dishes can be done tomorrow.
2) Conflict resolution, if you are having the same flights they are not getting resolved, you need to find a way to get out of the cycle.
this leads to
3) Conversation, you have to find a way to speak about it as part of a conversation, that doesn't mean talking at him, he may not absorb any of the information you throw his way However, speak with him. One fairly good way to do this ... ask him what he thinks about topic _____ get him to start to talk ... once he expresses how he feels you might be surprised and find a common ground to work with in his frame of mind and then work together to find a system that works for both of you
Last but not least, if you can not on your own find a solution talking to a professional can help (for both of you, or for yourself) however, going in it is good to have clear goals so you can work on them.
A person at work (gym, mall, milk man, online) will always seem better since when you interact with them they are 100% about you ... if they are not you will stop interacting with them so the grass seems greener ... yet if you were to live with them 24x7 for a year they would have new found annoyances for you to enjoy (the way they spread the toothpaste, the way they put away the bread ...)
Advanced Wordsmith
Wouldn't it be better to clone yourself so you can go with someone else? then you have the perfect Alibi ... uh no despite what the paper said I was not in Antarctica participating in the orgy on the ice fundraiser ... you saw me all of last week in Detroit (the place were dreams are made ... and quickly crushed) ...
Advanced Wordsmith
I am not sure there is a song that I will be like ... la la la .. what to do today ...
OMG this song makes me want to eat you out like crazy ... can't stop myself
However, music can help set the mood from a more soft loving lick ... to a hunger induced frenzy ...
OMG this song makes me want to eat you out like crazy ... can't stop myself
However, music can help set the mood from a more soft loving lick ... to a hunger induced frenzy ...
Advanced Wordsmith
You can get a fine sieve works well (or any colander)
It works very well in a salad
http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/quinoa-salad-recipe0.html
Here is one I have used a few times to much appreciation from the guests
It works very well in a salad
http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/quinoa-salad-recipe0.html
Here is one I have used a few times to much appreciation from the guests
Advanced Wordsmith
In the USA sausages from vending trucks are fairly rare, they tend to just serve hotdogs (In a sense a form of sausage, however, I think a sausage actually has to have meat in it. The contents of a hotdog are best left to the imagination) in a bun. That is the staple food at sporting events, amusement parks, and hotdog eating competitions ...
Advanced Wordsmith
Tonight's menu was ...
Fresh made chicken soup (during the winter I make a huge stock pot of that and freeze it in small meal sized containers)
Grilled basil and garlic rubbed steaks
Fresh grilled Brussels sprouts, with avocado oil and pepper seasoning
Spinach salad with pine nuts and mango slices
Baked sweet potatoes (yams)
Fresh made chicken soup (during the winter I make a huge stock pot of that and freeze it in small meal sized containers)
Grilled basil and garlic rubbed steaks
Fresh grilled Brussels sprouts, with avocado oil and pepper seasoning
Spinach salad with pine nuts and mango slices
Baked sweet potatoes (yams)
Advanced Wordsmith
This is an odd question, it is not like a workout session where you have goals and therefor you can with a trainer figure out the ideal time.
If you and your partner are cuddled afterwards, exhausted, dreamy in a state of bliss and wanting to hold that moment it doesn't really matter if that was from a really quick session or if you just spent 2 hours of tantric sex ... you are both thoroughly satisfied and that time will vary from couple to couple (or group to group if that is your thing).
If all you have is 10 min before you have to run though doesn't mean you can't do something ... even if it is not enough time for a full session, it might be enough to tease, to kiss, and then bank all that excitement for later ...
If you and your partner are cuddled afterwards, exhausted, dreamy in a state of bliss and wanting to hold that moment it doesn't really matter if that was from a really quick session or if you just spent 2 hours of tantric sex ... you are both thoroughly satisfied and that time will vary from couple to couple (or group to group if that is your thing).
If all you have is 10 min before you have to run though doesn't mean you can't do something ... even if it is not enough time for a full session, it might be enough to tease, to kiss, and then bank all that excitement for later ...
Advanced Wordsmith
Pretty much every movie I have gone to see in a theater has had sex in it ... I am not sure that where I sit made all that much of a difference ... 
As for having sex .. takes some doing and a little luck ... they are not all that dark, but you go during the weekday matinee for a movie that is about to end its run and you will likely be the only people there (besides the guy who will come in to make sure you are not having sex).
If it is more crowded would have to settle for fingering or a bj ...
As for having sex .. takes some doing and a little luck ... they are not all that dark, but you go during the weekday matinee for a movie that is about to end its run and you will likely be the only people there (besides the guy who will come in to make sure you are not having sex).
If it is more crowded would have to settle for fingering or a bj ...