People are private, and should be respected, many out there (myself included) are not very good at taking pictures, and we are also our most harsh critic so I could imagine some females no matter how attractive they are feel they are not what someone wants to see, or that the pictures are not the essence of the passion or sensuality they want to evoke. They find images that are more fitting to their desires.
However, if they post a picture that they claim is them and it is not ... that is more of an issue ;)
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oshkrozz
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
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Advanced Wordsmith
It is pretty normal to be attracted to all sorts of age groups, young college age men can be very fit, energetic and so young and older woman like that appeal, the same way older men look at a fit 20 something and see her tight fresh body. Sexual attraction is a large part physical and also mental, if you view them as potential sexual partners you will imagine the strong arms the energy of youth and be attracted to that.
What tends to get more in the way is when you are looking for a relationship and you and the young person are just in very different stages of life, it can work but it is very hard
What tends to get more in the way is when you are looking for a relationship and you and the young person are just in very different stages of life, it can work but it is very hard
Advanced Wordsmith
All depends how much they charge and if they are price competitive ...
Seriously though, I would not personally meet someone from lush for sex, because I would not meet anyone for sex, it is not different here then someplace else. If however, I was the type of person to have random hookups, or meet strangers for sex, I would take precautions to protect my privacy and myself but no reason not to meet someone from here.
A suggestion if you are going to though is have them web cam with you first much harder to lie about what you look like when you have the camera on ...
As for just meeting people from lush that I had really good conversations with well yes that would be awesome to have a conversation face to face
Seriously though, I would not personally meet someone from lush for sex, because I would not meet anyone for sex, it is not different here then someplace else. If however, I was the type of person to have random hookups, or meet strangers for sex, I would take precautions to protect my privacy and myself but no reason not to meet someone from here.
A suggestion if you are going to though is have them web cam with you first much harder to lie about what you look like when you have the camera on ...
As for just meeting people from lush that I had really good conversations with well yes that would be awesome to have a conversation face to face
Advanced Wordsmith
It is a really hard balance to go that long without intimacy when your wife is present but you can do nothing. Now intimacy doesn't mean always touching.
Since it is painful for her to be touched can she speak? can she talk clearly?
If so you can have her guide you, tell you how to touch yourself, how to move your hands and that way she is involved and intimate with you.
Since it is terminal and she is not likely to recover you can bring up your needs for touch, for warmth, you can start it slow, see how she reacts. Yes it will be a little painful for her, she might give you the ok as long as she never knows and you just smile for her. She might ask to watch, she might ask that you can but no kissing ... make her a partner in your needs and intimacy and then you can figure out what is best for you both.
The most important part though is to talk through it all with her, with love, understanding and respect ...
Since it is painful for her to be touched can she speak? can she talk clearly?
If so you can have her guide you, tell you how to touch yourself, how to move your hands and that way she is involved and intimate with you.
Since it is terminal and she is not likely to recover you can bring up your needs for touch, for warmth, you can start it slow, see how she reacts. Yes it will be a little painful for her, she might give you the ok as long as she never knows and you just smile for her. She might ask to watch, she might ask that you can but no kissing ... make her a partner in your needs and intimacy and then you can figure out what is best for you both.
The most important part though is to talk through it all with her, with love, understanding and respect ...
Advanced Wordsmith
I know you said ladies only but some guys do have good advice on this subject:
Several things you can do
first and foremost talk to your GF, and really talk. Tell her about your fantasy, tell her why it turns you on and tell her how you feel about it and see how she feels about it and then you can go from there.
Once you get past the above there are different ways to proceed, without inviting a guy in.
Get her a sex toy, buy it for her and then with you there use it, either you use it on her as you tell her your fantasy, or have her use it on herself as she tells you what she thinks. That can many times quench the thirst for this fantasy and you can play with it for a while see how you feel when she calls out another name, see how you feel when you watch her get pleasure not from you but from the fantasy she is telling you of another man.
You can role play, dress up as a stranger in a bar and pick her up (or any place) and play that role, then afterwards have her tell you all about her date with Bob
If you travel for work, you can have her call you as she is using the toy above and pretend she is with another person so you can hear them have fun on the phone.
Have her go out a date (She is pretending, but makes you feel it is real, she should also make sure she has proof that it was all pretend because you might not be so happy about the date afterwards) then come home and tell you about it ...
Safe things with a guy:
You can have her dance with a stranger, a slow dance and see how you feel
You could probably watch her kiss a guy first and then gauge your reaction do you really want more?
Go to a swing club with her and see if there is a couple you hit it off with, take turns watching each other make out (the other couple might agree to just make out as well, find one that will).
Have her ceybersex or phone sex with another man (no cybersex is not sex, and much easier to forget about)
If you both really want to go all the way:
Friends are not a good idea ;)
my number is ....
In all seriousness find a stranger this can be online or go to another town and pick someone up that seems clean and safe and will practice safe sex (last thing you want is the gift that keeps on giving) the other option is to go to a swing club and there will be couples that are ok with just her getting pleasure.
Several things you can do
first and foremost talk to your GF, and really talk. Tell her about your fantasy, tell her why it turns you on and tell her how you feel about it and see how she feels about it and then you can go from there.
Once you get past the above there are different ways to proceed, without inviting a guy in.
Get her a sex toy, buy it for her and then with you there use it, either you use it on her as you tell her your fantasy, or have her use it on herself as she tells you what she thinks. That can many times quench the thirst for this fantasy and you can play with it for a while see how you feel when she calls out another name, see how you feel when you watch her get pleasure not from you but from the fantasy she is telling you of another man.
You can role play, dress up as a stranger in a bar and pick her up (or any place) and play that role, then afterwards have her tell you all about her date with Bob
If you travel for work, you can have her call you as she is using the toy above and pretend she is with another person so you can hear them have fun on the phone.
Have her go out a date (She is pretending, but makes you feel it is real, she should also make sure she has proof that it was all pretend because you might not be so happy about the date afterwards) then come home and tell you about it ...
Safe things with a guy:
You can have her dance with a stranger, a slow dance and see how you feel
You could probably watch her kiss a guy first and then gauge your reaction do you really want more?
Go to a swing club with her and see if there is a couple you hit it off with, take turns watching each other make out (the other couple might agree to just make out as well, find one that will).
Have her ceybersex or phone sex with another man (no cybersex is not sex, and much easier to forget about)
If you both really want to go all the way:
Friends are not a good idea ;)
my number is ....
In all seriousness find a stranger this can be online or go to another town and pick someone up that seems clean and safe and will practice safe sex (last thing you want is the gift that keeps on giving) the other option is to go to a swing club and there will be couples that are ok with just her getting pleasure.
Advanced Wordsmith
Standing up is physically demanding (advantage of running really strong thighs ;) ). The proportions of the female in question play a huge role and how much she trusts the guy will not drop her. If you are 180 lbs I will not be able to carry you up 3 flights of stairs on my cock ... if you are 130 more a possibility.
I happen to love the standing position, there is something intense to really have most of her weight supported moving down on me. My legs are spread a little apart and take most of the weight. Now standing up doesn't always mean I need to fully support her, sometimes she will be laying on the bed and I will be standing between her legs. As other said standing up can also mean the female bends over a stool, a counter a desk .. or even the wall. Those positions work much better if you are taller, very hard to bend a petite 5'0 woman over the counter tops and get the right angle ... 6'0 though is probably the perfect height.
For me it is intense the pressure feel so good, and it feels both erotic, sensual, and leads to rather powerful climaxes with both parties involved, not something to do every day though ;) or something to do for a short time and then move to the sofa, or to the wall, the dresser ... or where you just land ...
I happen to love the standing position, there is something intense to really have most of her weight supported moving down on me. My legs are spread a little apart and take most of the weight. Now standing up doesn't always mean I need to fully support her, sometimes she will be laying on the bed and I will be standing between her legs. As other said standing up can also mean the female bends over a stool, a counter a desk .. or even the wall. Those positions work much better if you are taller, very hard to bend a petite 5'0 woman over the counter tops and get the right angle ... 6'0 though is probably the perfect height.
For me it is intense the pressure feel so good, and it feels both erotic, sensual, and leads to rather powerful climaxes with both parties involved, not something to do every day though ;) or something to do for a short time and then move to the sofa, or to the wall, the dresser ... or where you just land ...
Advanced Wordsmith
The fantasy is strong the environment leads to thoughts of fun filled pleasure, however the reality is a major challenge. From a legal or corporate policy this is best left alone unless your company is large enough that you will not see your dalliance in a working capacity (even then people move around all the time ... Hey Bob guess who your new boss is, not so smiling now are you ...)
In general if you will proceed as with all things in life, don't be a jerk is a good policy. Be open, communicate and if things don't work out do the best to mend the bridge so you have a good working relationship and it doesn't spill over into work.
In general if you will proceed as with all things in life, don't be a jerk is a good policy. Be open, communicate and if things don't work out do the best to mend the bridge so you have a good working relationship and it doesn't spill over into work.
Advanced Wordsmith
It does depend where you live, and what direction the air moves (does it sweep warm air off water or cold air ...) around here in the winter if we get a southern (ie coming from the south) wind it will bring slightly warm air (and wet ...) and if we get air from the north over the ohio valley it will be quite cold so the morning can start off at 40 and drop to 30 by noon .. or the opposite.
The only thing I look for is ice when I go for a morning run, black ice is never fun ...
The only thing I look for is ice when I go for a morning run, black ice is never fun ...
Advanced Wordsmith
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. There are really no words that can be said to express these losses when a person we hold dear is taken from us. We should always try our best to live the days we have the best we can and not leave what can be done today for tomorrow.
Condolences and may you find a lasting comfort
Condolences and may you find a lasting comfort