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masso66
2 weeks ago
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Quote by SweetPennyQuote by masso66
If a guy would not want a blowjob?
I have never cared that much for it and often I get board. I am a very voyeuristic person, and the thing is that during a blowjob, I just don't see her a lot. My favorite foreplay is to have her stripping and masturbating in front of me, and we may not even touch each other for 30 min.
So a blowjob is rather counterproductive to get me up.
Did you try letting her blow you in the 69 position with her on top? You can caress her, finger her and fondle her while she pays you some oral attention. Might that help?
That's another good idea - I have thried that one often and it worked awesome.
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Quote by rockstar81
I wouldn't feel rejected, but I would definatly be disappointed if my man didn't let me at all. Since you have a big of a voyuer streak, what about doing it in front of a mirror or a camera?
Good idea. I actually did that a couple of times and it worked. It also works if a girl just licks my dick and keeps (dirty) eye contact with me.
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If a guy would not want a blowjob?
I have never cared that much for it and often I get board. I am a very voyeuristic person, and the thing is that during a blowjob, I just don't see her a lot. My favorite foreplay is to have her stripping and masturbating in front of me, and we may not even touch each other for 30 min.
So a blowjob is rather counterproductive to get me up.
I have never cared that much for it and often I get board. I am a very voyeuristic person, and the thing is that during a blowjob, I just don't see her a lot. My favorite foreplay is to have her stripping and masturbating in front of me, and we may not even touch each other for 30 min.
So a blowjob is rather counterproductive to get me up.
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I have shaved all my pussies myself. I love to do this for a girl plus I like it done with 100% precision - No hair left anywhere. Area between pussy an ass completely clean and so on. Usually she will go and take a quick shower and then we inspect everything again and make sure that even my tongue and lips can't feel a hair any more.
As I'm very voyeuristic, I just love playing with my pussy, stretch and finger around and look at it in all angles.
As I'm very voyeuristic, I just love playing with my pussy, stretch and finger around and look at it in all angles.
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I'm an ass guy - don't care at all for boobs. Why is a thought question. I was not nursed, that could be a reason, I also like girls with boyish figures. But more then both of them I like to see pussy. Thought jeans,leggings that show pussy from behind, some sweatpants that reveal a lot, that's my thing
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Time in today’s world is a spare resource. I constantly feel I don't have enough to do the things I want to.
And I remember when I was a teen that I was able to just stay in bed for a day, smoke, look at porn, read porn
stories and masturbate a complete day away - trying all kinds of "experiments" with myself.
I miss those days ...
Do you have days like that? Kind of "your-body-only" days, pampering and spoiling yourself?
As you may guess I am hoping for bizarre, kinky details.
And I remember when I was a teen that I was able to just stay in bed for a day, smoke, look at porn, read porn
stories and masturbate a complete day away - trying all kinds of "experiments" with myself.
I miss those days ...
Do you have days like that? Kind of "your-body-only" days, pampering and spoiling yourself?
As you may guess I am hoping for bizarre, kinky details.
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You all probably think im crazy - but I dont like blowjobs a lot. Key is that I am a very visual person. I like to watch and see things. The best part is if a woman puts on a good show and looks at me a lot - playing the dirty chick with the very dirty looks. But if a girl does that - most of the time we are doing something else very quick ...
I love to give head though - and I like to do it very slowly to enjoy the view as well.
I love to give head though - and I like to do it very slowly to enjoy the view as well.
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This is a tricky question. If I would be a men in a womans body, I would probably whore arround like no tomorrow - and oh yes I would looove to do this. But beeing an actual women - not so sure if this would be the same fun, but it would be a good lerming experience.
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Love them! Now I am talking about the true ones. I sometimes have the feelng that redhaired girls go thru a trough phase when they grow up. They get a lot of jokes and a lot of them probably dont feel realy beautiful as little girls. But as soon as they grow up they probably find out that a lot of them are crazy about red. And I guess this is what may make them more sexual then others. Just a theory - what do you think?
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I remember one girl in my live that was what one would call a true gold digger. Putting a lot of value on being paid for, having a man that would have significant sources of money. Making very materialistic choices when choosing a partner etc.
Most judged her as a bad character some called her a whore. When I started knowing her a little better, I found out that she was the daughter of a South American woman that had 7 kids from 7 men. None of all those guys had any funds and instead of providing for their kids they came by occasionally when they needed money themselves. 4 of the kids where girls - as gorgeous as they get. And I guess this mom made sure her girls would look for a true provider and - missing any inheritance or education would bargain on their beauty as much as they could.
After I knew the whole story I looked at her differently. So I guess you get the point I am trying to make – what choices someone makes always needs to be seen in context of where they are coming from.
Most judged her as a bad character some called her a whore. When I started knowing her a little better, I found out that she was the daughter of a South American woman that had 7 kids from 7 men. None of all those guys had any funds and instead of providing for their kids they came by occasionally when they needed money themselves. 4 of the kids where girls - as gorgeous as they get. And I guess this mom made sure her girls would look for a true provider and - missing any inheritance or education would bargain on their beauty as much as they could.
After I knew the whole story I looked at her differently. So I guess you get the point I am trying to make – what choices someone makes always needs to be seen in context of where they are coming from.
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Quote by masso66Quote by CamillaJay19
Do you believe in the code? You know that code that says you cant date or fuck ur bestfriends man? Or is it fair game? I have but i dont think it was betrayal cuz she wasnt my bestfriend and they werent together anymore and it wasnt a relationship we were just fuck buddies.
I always followed the code and man it was not always easy.
ah wait - I assume that its not part of the code if your bestfriend knows about it up front right?
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Quote by CamillaJay19
Do you believe in the code? You know that code that says you cant date or fuck ur bestfriends man? Or is it fair game? I have but i dont think it was betrayal cuz she wasnt my bestfriend and they werent together anymore and it wasnt a relationship we were just fuck buddies.
I always followed the code and man it was not always easy.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Question A: For me, it's a 'No'. I can't just swap my guy for another if I'm horny. If I'm having sex, there's more involved than just a sum of parts. I'd rather just use a sex toy if I'm randomly horny if there is no guy that I'm interested in available. Once an actual human being is involved in the equation, there has to be some kind of connection or sexual attraction. I'm not someone who would feel horny and just go for any miscellaneous or random guy.
Question B: I am always horny, therefore if I initiate sex, I'm going to want some orgasms. If you're talking about the idea of a new partners, then no, I would not initiate sex with the hopes that the guy is/will/one day fall in love with me. Love isn't a byproduct of sex, but sex can be a byproduct of love.
Thanks! That makes a lot of sence. Now knowing that you tend to argure a bit more on the liberal side of things - could you picture is beeing fun to considder more than one guy day - just for the fun feeling of beeing naughty?
Or would that range more as a phantasy that you would never live out? (or not your thing at all)
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Quote by MinaMiranda
Cheers for the clarification.
Yes, interesting hypotheses, you may be on to something, but it depends on the woman I think. Speaking for myself I have had periods of need when it feels like any man will do - but I'm bipolar and this typically happens when I'm manic and ALWAYS leads to deep regret later, so I don't see it as a natural tendency for me. In fact, it's rather dangerous
As for a woman initiating sex for the attention aspect. Guilty as charged, but in mitigation this has only happened when a relationship isn't going well.
Thanks for contributing the aspect of "sex for the attention". Thats very personal to share with us. I would think that there may also be the male counter part to this feeling: "To close for comfort" (BTW a James Bond line)
I know that in my past I liked anonyous or "cacsual" sex better than sex with someone I was in ove with. For a couple fo reasons - less pessure, less risk to loose someone, less vulerable etc.
and because all the bagage was "less" the fun was actually a lot bigger. Now do we all think this may be my special issue? Or is this something that men do?
(nothing is black and wite but stating it this way makes the discussion interesting)
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Quote by CamillaJay19
its a two way street, both partners should contribute something that is pleasurable to the other. Like my example if i wanna get into something i`ll sit on the guys lap and he might grab my ass. If i have to sit there and try to turn myself on, then he aint gettin shit from me. 50/50 thing ya dig?
I like that approach! :-)
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Quote by DudealiciousQuote by masso66
Theses A: Men can get horny and then satisfy their needs with any woman they can get at this moment.
(not talking about what mens feelings would tell us, just needs)
Women would beeing horny not so easly just be able to switch the guy just to get satisfied.
True or False?
Theses B: Women may "start" sex just because they are in need to be loved but not because they are horny.
(Nothing bad about that, but it's an interesting discussion about differences between us)
True or False?
I am actually a little offended when you state that all men would go for any woman they could get at this moment. NO SORRY not to speak fpr all men on lush but that is not the case for me. Sex as DD has said is beyond seeing a little leg and getting horny, there has to be an emotional connection. So for me the answer to your question for me would be false.
As for point B - yes women do that and here's a newsflash most guys do to! Sex is about being loved for a lot of people the intimacy that comes through a good fucking can be amazing therefore we (as men) could do ourt part to rev her engine a little to get it going. Alas women are horny, and don't always have ulterior motives - most love sex and don't need you to "start" it.
Sorry did not mean offend you. I guess thats why I marked the questions as a Thesis to be objected. So yes you input is very valuable and thanks for defending our gender.
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Quote by VanGoghQuote by MinaMiranda
I confess I'm not really sure what your question is...please could you clarify?
I must agree. I am baffled if there is a question. I am thinking he is asking: Do women expect their man to "get" them horny?
Van
sorry - yes - I did this way to complex - but in essence you got it.
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Quote by WHR43
It sounds like there is a good question in there but I can't find it!
If you have a lady that wants you (yes YOU) to start her engine, that is a bad thing?
- not a bad thing - but a noticable difference between men and women that can lead to missunderstandings.
Or could you picture a man that wants a women to start his engine :-)
If he's not 90 all she needs to do is to show a little skin and thats it ...
Or in other words maybe men need forplay as well but ours is visual and hence can happen over hours just on
a first spring day seeing a lot of leg after a long winter again.
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Sorry everyone,
I probably asked my question a little to complex. But nevertheless I already got good answers.
I try to simplyfy the question a bit - its actually two questions:
Theses A: Men can get horny and then satisfy their needs with any woman they can get at this moment.
(not talking about what mens feelings would tell us, just needs)
Women would beeing horny not so easly just be able to switch the guy just to get satisfied.
True or False?
Theses B: Women may "start" sex just because they are in need to be loved but not because they are horny.
(Nothing bad about that, but it's an interesting discussion about differences between us)
True or False?
I probably asked my question a little to complex. But nevertheless I already got good answers.
I try to simplyfy the question a bit - its actually two questions:
Theses A: Men can get horny and then satisfy their needs with any woman they can get at this moment.
(not talking about what mens feelings would tell us, just needs)
Women would beeing horny not so easly just be able to switch the guy just to get satisfied.
True or False?
Theses B: Women may "start" sex just because they are in need to be loved but not because they are horny.
(Nothing bad about that, but it's an interesting discussion about differences between us)
True or False?
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Quote by ms_b_hvnallthetime
My problem and truly it is, he only last five minutes. I dont get it he cant go any longer is there anything to do? I'm gettin tired of it. Any suggestions?
I was always comming to soon when I was a teenager and I guess I dtill do. However, I have early trained to keep
going and to get of a second time and a third and so on. The third time does not work out often, but if it does the orgasm is out of tis world.
And if it does not I at least have a happ girl.
So the key I think s to try to get him to come a second time. It would be that easy any more and hence he will need longer to get off
- which gives you more time to build up. So when he got off, keep going and get him back again ...
I am sure you have ideas how to
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This is a tricky question: So guys - I would think - can simply get horny.
It gets triggered by girls, their looks, porn, walking behind a long leg flight attendant for a while etc – and then you end up horny and you just are – when you come home you and your girl will have a good time. But if your morals are low, and you get it done you may also take the flight attendant.
Horny-ness does not seem to be bound to one person of your desire. And then in addition – not related to you being horny – you love someone and that means she is most likely going to be the one you end up sleeping with – well also because she is pretty awesome – but the feeling of being horny alone could switch targets.
(Not sure if I can speak for all men here – so please add you perspective too)
On the other side I am sometimes a little turned off if my girl tries to sleep with me and then I find out that she does not feel horny at all but just wants to be loved and somehow expects me to get her horny first. We still do it, but sometimes I feel that makes me responsible for the entire creativeness that makes things good.
We have a good sex live so this is just a nuance – but still interested what you girls think …
It gets triggered by girls, their looks, porn, walking behind a long leg flight attendant for a while etc – and then you end up horny and you just are – when you come home you and your girl will have a good time. But if your morals are low, and you get it done you may also take the flight attendant.
Horny-ness does not seem to be bound to one person of your desire. And then in addition – not related to you being horny – you love someone and that means she is most likely going to be the one you end up sleeping with – well also because she is pretty awesome – but the feeling of being horny alone could switch targets.
(Not sure if I can speak for all men here – so please add you perspective too)
On the other side I am sometimes a little turned off if my girl tries to sleep with me and then I find out that she does not feel horny at all but just wants to be loved and somehow expects me to get her horny first. We still do it, but sometimes I feel that makes me responsible for the entire creativeness that makes things good.
We have a good sex live so this is just a nuance – but still interested what you girls think …
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I know this is silly, but it was realy difficut for me to have sex while my girl was pregnant.
Here are a couple of things that I think blocked me: I just could not "pump in" on a little creature that would in a couple of month be my little baby boy.
I like sex a little agressive and hard - and my girl too. So it was not about not wanting sex - it was about that the baby that I had so much respect for.
Here another very weird observation. So I was in the hospital when my boy was born. My Girl had a horror birth experience - starting from all natural
going after 30 hours into the first epidural, then after 50 into the second - this one went one sided, vacuum succer and then finally after ca 3 days c-section.
So I was up and awake 3 days with her too. So a nighmare no one would think about sex at all. Now here is the weird thing that happened:
It took over 30 hours for the water to break - so the midwife finally popped it. During the entire pregancy I did not like the smell of my girls pussy
it just smelled like - nothing. At that moment when the water broke - remember is was already 30 hours awake straight and my girl was going thru
a horror storry - at that moment the smell that came out of her pussy was so heavy, that I got a hard on. It was like 9 month of pussy smell
came out at once.
Just so that everyone knows - everyone is in best health today - my girl and my son.
Here are a couple of things that I think blocked me: I just could not "pump in" on a little creature that would in a couple of month be my little baby boy.
I like sex a little agressive and hard - and my girl too. So it was not about not wanting sex - it was about that the baby that I had so much respect for.
Here another very weird observation. So I was in the hospital when my boy was born. My Girl had a horror birth experience - starting from all natural
going after 30 hours into the first epidural, then after 50 into the second - this one went one sided, vacuum succer and then finally after ca 3 days c-section.
So I was up and awake 3 days with her too. So a nighmare no one would think about sex at all. Now here is the weird thing that happened:
It took over 30 hours for the water to break - so the midwife finally popped it. During the entire pregancy I did not like the smell of my girls pussy
it just smelled like - nothing. At that moment when the water broke - remember is was already 30 hours awake straight and my girl was going thru
a horror storry - at that moment the smell that came out of her pussy was so heavy, that I got a hard on. It was like 9 month of pussy smell
came out at once.
Just so that everyone knows - everyone is in best health today - my girl and my son.
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Thanks Everyone.
those are a coupe of good ideas! Some are quite hot and ... inspired me
. Thanks Catnip for all those likes - awesome!
What do you guys think? Would a bicble seat work? Spnnclass?
Have you ever filmed youself and your private parts while doing it?
those are a coupe of good ideas! Some are quite hot and ... inspired me
. Thanks Catnip for all those likes - awesome!What do you guys think? Would a bicble seat work? Spnnclass?
Have you ever filmed youself and your private parts while doing it?
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