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Quote by ms_b_hvnallthetime
My problem and truly it is, he only last five minutes. I dont get it he cant go any longer is there anything to do? I'm gettin tired of it. Any suggestions?
Right before he starts to unload his semen, grab his scrotum somewhat gently (you must experiment with this) and firmly pull both his balls (and his sack) down and away from his body.
Don't yank 'em off his body, just pull 'em out a half inch or so...
I read this in Playboy about 30 years ago. Tried it, works good with a talented hand and fingers at the steady. (Yep, I used to be 19, 20 yrs old with the same Minute-Man issue).
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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Things could always be worse. I once had a brief relationship with a 30 second man. 
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If I feel that a guy is going to come before I'm ready, I smack him in the face. Not too hard -- just enough to startle him. It usually works for me.
Constant Gardener
Quote by SweetPenny
If I feel that a guy is going to come before I'm ready, I smack him in the face. Not too hard -- just enough to startle him. It usually works for me.
Heh, I think I'd rather have your hand tugging at my balls.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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Quote by SweetPenny
If I feel that a guy is going to come before I'm ready, I smack him in the face. Not too hard -- just enough to startle him. It usually works for me.
Is *that* what Mia was doing in Californication, lol?
That might be an inside joke....apologies to those who haven't seen the show.
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About thirty percent of men have or have had a problem with premature ejaculation. It's quite common--a vagina just feels so great it milks the cum right out of us. I suppose at one time that might have been an evolutionary advantage--the baby would be his--but it doesn't say much for a woman's right to choose.
A much smaller percentage of men, and women too, have the opposite problem. They can't orgasm with a partner though they can with themselves. This problem is usually psychological.
I've had this later problem, and it's more a benefit than a problem. If I take the time to develop a relationship it's not an issue, but for casual sex it can be. I am pleased that I have to get to know a woman before I can successfully have complete sex with her.
On the positive side, even when I know a woman well I can have sex for a very long time until I'm ready to come and then do so, though if I wait too long, like more than forty-five minutes, I may lose my arousal (what goes on in my brain, not my penis) and even though I remain hard I may not be able to come. When I masturbate I usually play around for thirty minutes before I come. So, on average, my condition turns out to be more of an advantage than a hindrance.
There are resources on the web that make suggestions about what a man can do to help with premature ejaculation, mostly various methods of distraction.
Another technique is to have him play with you for as long as you like and then, when you tell him to, to put his penis in you.
You should get a vibrator, and your partner should try not to be offended. No one is at fault. You're both just trying to feel good in whatever ways turn you on.
Respectfully,
Matthew
A much smaller percentage of men, and women too, have the opposite problem. They can't orgasm with a partner though they can with themselves. This problem is usually psychological.
I've had this later problem, and it's more a benefit than a problem. If I take the time to develop a relationship it's not an issue, but for casual sex it can be. I am pleased that I have to get to know a woman before I can successfully have complete sex with her.
On the positive side, even when I know a woman well I can have sex for a very long time until I'm ready to come and then do so, though if I wait too long, like more than forty-five minutes, I may lose my arousal (what goes on in my brain, not my penis) and even though I remain hard I may not be able to come. When I masturbate I usually play around for thirty minutes before I come. So, on average, my condition turns out to be more of an advantage than a hindrance.
There are resources on the web that make suggestions about what a man can do to help with premature ejaculation, mostly various methods of distraction.
Another technique is to have him play with you for as long as you like and then, when you tell him to, to put his penis in you.
You should get a vibrator, and your partner should try not to be offended. No one is at fault. You're both just trying to feel good in whatever ways turn you on.
Respectfully,
Matthew
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Quote by WorkAloneQuote by SweetPenny
If I feel that a guy is going to come before I'm ready, I smack him in the face. Not too hard -- just enough to startle him. It usually works for me.
Is *that* what Mia was doing in Californication, lol?
That might be an inside joke....apologies to those who haven't seen the show.
Great show. Mia could clock me like that anytime. But Penny.. what if he's behind you? Better move quickly.
As for the original question... could you maybe suck him off first. Make sure there's not a round in the chamber? Blow him.. he goes down on you while he gets hard again.. then WHAMO... his back in the saddle with an empty sack.
Not that I know what I'm talking about. haha
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Quote by Jason9035Quote by Dancing_Doll
Things could always be worse. I once had a brief relationship with a 30 second man.
Yeh...well...that's at least 20 seconds longer that I would last with you...can't believe DD that you didn't factor in the "hotness factor"...OMG
Yeah, that's the excuse he used, actually. I did offer to put a paper bag over my head if it would help...
He didn't really take well to my suggestion though...
(true story)
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Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by Jason9035Quote by Dancing_Doll
Things could always be worse. I once had a brief relationship with a 30 second man.
Yeh...well...that's at least 20 seconds longer that I would last with you...can't believe DD that you didn't factor in the "hotness factor"...OMG
Yeah, that's the excuse he used, actually. I did offer to put a paper bag over my head if it would help...
He didn't really take well to my suggestion though...
(true story)
Just for experimental reasons, not at all because I just want to bang you. We need to have sex one weekend... then the following weekend do it again using the paper bag technique. Our Lush friend need definitive evidence of how to prolong her love making sessions. Remember, this is just for science and I'll get absolutely no enjoyment out of it... either time.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by Jason9035Quote by Dancing_Doll
Things could always be worse. I once had a brief relationship with a 30 second man.
Yeh...well...that's at least 20 seconds longer that I would last with you...can't believe DD that you didn't factor in the "hotness factor"...OMG
Yeah, that's the excuse he used, actually. I did offer to put a paper bag over my head if it would help...
He didn't really take well to my suggestion though...
(true story)
Oh no...it really happened? Hell...I was just cracking wise with my reply....sigh!
It is amazing what a little "experience" can bring to the moment. My experience dictates that my partner is as fullfilled and satiated as I am..."Let no crack go unfulfilled" is my motto...or is that "Let no crack go unfilled?" Anyway...you get my tip...I mean..you get my point....freakin Fruedian slip...damn!
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Quote by SweetPenny
If I feel that a guy is going to come before I'm ready, I smack him in the face. Not too hard -- just enough to startle him. It usually works for me.
Love it !! I can't stop laughing .......
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Jason9035
It is amazing what a little "experience" can bring to the moment.
He was almost thirty years old when I had sex with him, and from what I'd heard, very well experienced. It's not just the virgins or frat boys that have these issues. I have no idea if it's a situational thing or if these guys are just doomed to a lifetime of PE frustration.
It's not all that simple.
In some circumstances it's no more fair for the woman to blame him than it is for him to blame the woman for not coming fast enough. Biology does stuff and it's not really under full control. Personally I have much less control now than I did 30 years ago.
What needs to be done is some loving cooperation between the couple. The resolution may be different with different people, and in some cases it may be up to him to finish her orally either before or after. But ridicule and condemnation will not help.
In some circumstances it's no more fair for the woman to blame him than it is for him to blame the woman for not coming fast enough. Biology does stuff and it's not really under full control. Personally I have much less control now than I did 30 years ago.
What needs to be done is some loving cooperation between the couple. The resolution may be different with different people, and in some cases it may be up to him to finish her orally either before or after. But ridicule and condemnation will not help.
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Quote by ms_b_hvnallthetime
My problem and truly it is, he only last five minutes. I dont get it he cant go any longer is there anything to do? I'm gettin tired of it. Any suggestions?
I was always comming to soon when I was a teenager and I guess I dtill do. However, I have early trained to keep
going and to get of a second time and a third and so on. The third time does not work out often, but if it does the orgasm is out of tis world.
And if it does not I at least have a happ girl.
So the key I think s to try to get him to come a second time. It would be that easy any more and hence he will need longer to get off
- which gives you more time to build up. So when he got off, keep going and get him back again ...
I am sure you have ideas how to
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a little blue pill will work fine... grinnin
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DD
I would have made an effort to to satisfy you prior to the 30 second performance and then asked if you were interested in the second act. For me, it is the second or third performance that produces quality time. Not a brag, because many women don't want to wait for the next act. It is rare to find some one that can get their head around "hours of sex". When you find one, WOW!
ms_b
Take charge of the situation. You know what you need. He doesn't. He just knows he's lucky. Tell him what you need and you might be surprised. If you aren't surprised, perhaps it's time to move on....
I would have made an effort to to satisfy you prior to the 30 second performance and then asked if you were interested in the second act. For me, it is the second or third performance that produces quality time. Not a brag, because many women don't want to wait for the next act. It is rare to find some one that can get their head around "hours of sex". When you find one, WOW!
ms_b
Take charge of the situation. You know what you need. He doesn't. He just knows he's lucky. Tell him what you need and you might be surprised. If you aren't surprised, perhaps it's time to move on....
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DD
I would have made an effort to to satisfy you prior to the 30 second performance and then asked if you were interested in the second act. For me, it is the second or third performance that produces quality time. Not a brag, because many women don't want to wait for the next act. It is rare to find some one that can get their head around "hours of sex". When you find one, WOW!
Yeah, as one of those women that can orgasm through intercourse (and loves to!), I can't see myself really that satisfied through oral sex alone. I need the actual 'fucking'. And I am excellent with endurance... I can keep going and going.
With the PE guy I was speaking of, I think it was just a mismatch of sexual chemistry. He didn't really want to address the situation either or acknowledge that things weren't working, so in my opinion there was really no incentive to stick around. The second and third round weren't that much better than the first round. I didn't break up with him just because of this issue, but it definitely ensured there were no second thoughts or regrets when I walked away.
This thread made me laugh, but just because few months ago I was talking to a friend that I was quite lucky with penis sizes and men's performances untill it hit me.
I know it's mean to say it but while we were fucking those brief moments, I was hardly susspending my laugh, thinking of my girlfriend and the talk we had. Damn it, not that it lasted shorther than 5 min, I couldn't feel the guy and more that I was trying to reposition myself so I could at least feel something, he was so confident that he knows what he was doing, that he took everything in his charge. I love self-confident people, but.. I am still laughing when I think of it
I know it's mean to say it but while we were fucking those brief moments, I was hardly susspending my laugh, thinking of my girlfriend and the talk we had. Damn it, not that it lasted shorther than 5 min, I couldn't feel the guy and more that I was trying to reposition myself so I could at least feel something, he was so confident that he knows what he was doing, that he took everything in his charge. I love self-confident people, but.. I am still laughing when I think of it
wow!Never been a problem of mine TBH, (I've had complaints I take too long, which is as bad!) BUT...
I have READ that a firm pinch just under the helm of the cock can delay the urge to cum...
Alternatively, when he feels the urge just pull out, take a moment and change position....
Let's know how you get on!
xx SF
I have READ that a firm pinch just under the helm of the cock can delay the urge to cum...
Alternatively, when he feels the urge just pull out, take a moment and change position....
Let's know how you get on!
xx SF
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My wife doesn't get much out of vaginal stimulation or friction beyond the need to feel pressure or filled after cumming from clitoral stimuli. She seemingly would rather have me hurry up, cuz once she has had an orgasm, she is pretty much done and washed up....thrills for me, huh. I definitely feel it when she is thinking I am taking too long, which alone is deflating in a disappointingly physical way after I have spent 30-45 mins (which I enjoy, no regrets there) getting her to her O.
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Glad to hear that the practice and technique changes are helping. Monitor his visual stimulation, its a factor also.
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