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hamz
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 43
New Zealand

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In general, I am attracted to strong (both mentally and physically) females, who can be independent and get things done. Plus if they are open-minded, intellectual who share my interests then even better. On top of that if they have sexy and fit body and a naughty side in the bedroom then that would be my ideal mate!
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Ofcourse ... why not? It is so blissful....
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Quote by CuriouslyHorny
LEGS! I love to see them in nylons or bare and smooth. I am a leg man.


me too.... i just can't take my eyes of a good pair
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Quote by Freesia
It is kind of weird, but sometimes you can just kind of feel someone staring at you. Maybe it is just that you are catching them in your peripheral vision.


hmm.. that's what I was wondering.. such a feeling (claiming that she could feel that someone was staring) appears in many stories..

but this is something very mysterious...don't know if science can explain this.


I was hoping to get more responses .... girls can you please write your experience?
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It is possible to catch stolen glances when some one is front/side of you.. but what if the person behind you is undressing you with his eyes... would you know? If yes, how soon? Typically, how would you react?
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I am infatuated by the sight of smooth armpits and bare thighs - I feel like kissing them all over.... but I am not sure if this fetish counts as "rare" !
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sensory deprivation - being kissed, caressed, fondled, licked, sucked and fucked while being blindfolded and handcuffed - by three gorgeous women who play games and keep me guessing as to who is doing what!
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Being able to read others minds to see what they really think of me ... now this might mean that my life is totally ruined (knowing the truth) !
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I prefer a small t-shirt with/without knickers!
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I am a really short guy - but I have also been smart, intelligent and reasonably fit. My advice to fellow short men is:

Yes, most girls do prefer guys much taller than themselves. BUT if you have the right personality, women will come to you - and those who do come would be more genuine - since they have managed to see beyond your height.

Personally, I know at least two girls who had fallen for me when I was at Uni, but I rejected them for their looks (they were both rather stout) - I was not proud of this 'superficial' judgement - but frankly, I wasn't attracted to them.

However, right then, I also found my gf (my wife now) - she was fit, good looking and about 5 cm (3/2 inches) taller than me - we have been madly in love with each other ever since (12 years - and going stronger) ....

deep down .. I know I was lucky that I was only 18 when I met her... it might take a bit longer for some.. but don't give up!!
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Quote by CharlotteRusse1
Short guys can certainly be sexy, but being short really is a disadvantage. I'm a short girl, but I am still initially more attracted to guys of average height or taller. There's something viscerally appealing about looking up and feeling rather enveloped by a guy.

My advice for short guys looking to attract women is
1) Be very fit (noticeably trim and cut) and well groomed.
2) Develop your confidence
3) Look for women in places other than clubs and bars. You're more likely to get together with a woman who perceives some personality and shared interests. Clubs and bars are shallow places and tend to attract those with shallower criteria. If you do go to clubs and bars, go with the outlook that you are just going to have a good time with your pals (guys or girls) and don't expect to pick anyone up. That way if you happen to beat the odds it will be a pleasant surprise.


Being a (very) short man myself, I really appreciate point no.3.
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too skinny or obese - both put me off...totally! I like them healthy and fit!!
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Quote by CenterLine
It's a combination of both the muscle clench that Shylass was talking about as well as a degree of mental/psychological discipline.


I agree. I can do it once and it is hard and recharged immediately, so we just continue with the next act. But in my case, it is in a 'pause' mode rather than 'restart', so the second time I am done really quickly. I only started practicing this art a while back.. so I would say, that I am still perfecting it.. I would love to be able to 'reset' 2/3 times and last longer each time.

But honestly, one and half hours seems way too long to me Kimasa. If true, you should really get the secret out of him and share with all of us - you'll make a lot of women happier

Looking forward to your story!
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Quote by PhilAnders


Just curious to know if there may be some "LUSHIES" who are still virginal.....male or female.


Check out the 'Number of Sex Partners' poll in this section (currently page 3/4) ... 4% respondents there are virgin!!
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Got 45 votes so far. But I am sure there are lots of Lush girls who haven't yet voted, so I thought I should revive it from the depths of past threads.
Please vote girls, I would like to hear from all of you.
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It is not uncommon at all.. and the professional therapists know how to deal with it. In fact, when they ask you to turn around on your back.. they usually hold the sheet up (almost like a curtain between the two of you). Thus, even if you have a boner inside your pants you would get your privacy while turning around.

I regularly go for massages - have tried quite a few different styles. I do get a hard on once in a while, but it soon subsides as well. Important thing is - you are there to receive a professional relaxing treatment - so just close your eyes and relax! Its a beautiful experience!!
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Why would I take your virginity?

Either I'll have to find you attractive enough ... or else.. you must succeed in dominating me so that you make me do it!

... and without knowing how you look/how strong you are... I would assume that both scenarios above are unlikely/highly unlikely
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It is not only fair, but also a lot more fun if you do things as a team - and share the chores. Plus, that leaves you more time to spend together and more energy for sex. I have always been the one to do the laundry, change the sheets and grocery shopping - even when my wife had no job! I just can not be a man to sit on the couch, drink beer and give orders! That is disgusting!! and I think, I am totally a MAN - certainly no less than your medieval friends!!
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Quote by cv150vanfleet


I don't personally think its cheating. I make a distinction between satisfying my physical and the emotional bond I have with my wife.



I agree with you that there is much more in marriage than simply sex (although, it is a vital part of it) . It is quite likely that you may end up with a partner who is not as interested in sex as you are. So ideally, you should be able to separate love and sex. But the question is - does she share this line of thought? and do you even enjoy the sex when it happens?


So my advice would be -
a) that as long as you guys both enjoy the sex whenever you have it - I think you may survive on porn/online alternatives - but it is certainly advisable that she knows and agrees to you yanking off on these.
b) However, if you are not really enjoying sex with your wife.. I think it would be highly difficult for you to survive this way for the rest of your life!
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I fuckin hate it & wonder where it came from

Hmmm... did you vote in the poll??
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well not really that difficulf. my girlfriends's girlfriend moved in with us and i slept with her. we sort of have a 3-way relationship going on. we all know and we are all fine.


You are one lucky man! (unless, you are the sole bread-winner ) ...

Thanks for posting the Qs btw - me and my wife are currently expecting our first one - so the advice coming in here would be helpful!
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Biggest I have enjoyed is 34C - anything larger than that and I am not too likely to be attracted.
But I usually find the modest ones (32 A's B's and similar) really attractive !

P.S. the letters do not determine the size - the number is important too!
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Quote by one_winged_angel
Honestly, I hate it, horrible messy creatures.
They leave feathers all over the room and make a ton of noise.



Human male parts however, are a different case ^_^


Super
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Quote by 1nympholes


But it so much better to start with a completely flaccid cock and kiss, lick and suck that beautiful piece of maleness to its full glory.


Hmmm.. mine will not take too long to rise with that treatment!
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No, I am a firm believer in gender equality - so this won't be an issue for me in a relationship. and I agree with previous comments that money you earn has nothing to do with sexyness! She'll still need to keep loving me and take good care of her health - if she wants me to find her sexxy!
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Quote by Kimasa
It's quite probable that when many of us did it for the first time we were talked or pressured into doing it. We were nice girls and nice girls sometimes need to be pushed into participating in such daring and dirty acts.


Good point Kim. Might be many have inhibitions until the first time they do it.. and then they probably start liking it...

I also agree with the point made earlier that the proportion of girls who love giving a blowjob would be higher among the lush community than in general!
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it's also great that you respect her limits, a lot of guys wouldn't.


Thanks Lexi. Well.. love is more than sucking a cock isn't it. Plus, she has magical hands which bring me to heaven and back multiple times.. so I have nothing to complain
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Everyone talks/writes about sucking a cock. But I would be surprised if there were not some (girls) who had never tried it/had inhibitions about it.
For e.g. my wife isn't keen on sucking a cock like a lollypop! (she'll kiss it but not suck it) - and I am perfectly ok with her, since everyone has their limits.

But I would like to conduct a survey on this.

I would like to know, - if there are girls out there who share the same inhibition?
- if not, is it a bit unusual to have such inhibitions??
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Although you have asked the girls, I can't stop from having my say: As a man, I feel it is only natural to be attracted to younger women - I mean, physiologically, the whole reason for the sexual attraction is the need to reproduce and to reproduce a better offspring - so we are all (M/F) designed to look out for healthier/good looking mate!

So such a fantasy is only natural - it can't be wrong! It might be wrong for you (depending on your beliefs, values, situation), if you act upon it - specially if you are in a stable marriage!
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I have found some petite girls super attractive - but they have been the 'athletic yet small' ones ...In general it is the fit and strong girls/women that I find really attractive.. skinny/weakish are clear No No!! and so are overweight/obese !!