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hamz
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 43
New Zealand

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Quote by Ariel21
I agree with all of you. I dont think its a sign of weakness. I think it shows he has enough sense to swallow his pride. Which in my experience isnt easy to do no matter what sex you are. Thank you all for your feed back on this!


Totally agree... but if it is the woman who has been evil or selfish and the man still begs to her (because he emotionally or physically needs to hang on to her) then I think he is weak and spineless!!
It does not turn me on and I have never asked that question in a platonic relationship. But my guess (and this might be way off the mark) is that it could be a turn-on to some because of its very personal nature. Alternatively, it could be a type of 'dirty talk' and therefore a turn-on??
Quote by WellMadeMale


Private email me... those websites with thousands of stories devoted to this unique fetish.

Not doubting you, but not 100% buying into this widespread fetish either.

To each their own I say...Just a lil different is all.


As I said, they are out there for everyone to see.. just search if you are keen.
Quote by Shylass
Actually, yes I have. I'm very short, but built like a tank. I used to be very strong, moving heavy furniture around on my own. Living in student halls at uni, we used to do very silly things, and one of them was to see who (of the girls) could give a piggyback to the lads the furthest, and the heaviest one we could lift. I managed to lift Big Jim (none of the rest of the wusses could), but only a few inches and using my boobs/tummy/legs to take the weight, not my arms. I also managed to take Mark via piggyback to the end of the corridoor and back. He was average build (for a 6'2" bloke), and his feet were nearly touching the ground. And it only took me quarter of an hour. It was very funny, but probably only if you'd been drinking with us. I can't do it now, I have a poorly back.


ah.. that's exactly what i was expecting to hear... i have seen that happen quite a few times - (unfortunately not to me )
However, my wife can carry me arnd quite easily and one of my female frnd in college could do it too - they are both athletic - and I am atheltic but lightweight! I wish i was drinking with you that day
Quote by KET1965
There are many reasons for a woman to lift a man. Sometimes it's out of self-defense. When I was in AIT(Advance Individual Training) for the Army a guy tried to kiss me and I picked up up by the neck and held him up against the wall off the floor six inches. I was at that time 5' 6" and 105lbs he was 6'2"220. The guys was so scared he pissed himself. I've know other women who have do this in self-defense. One second we were sitting on the step the next he was up against the wall, which was three feet away from the steps.


really! ... unbelievable.. he must have been totally horrified!
Quote by WellMadeMale


I think this is one very odd fetish which apparently you are entertaining (at least enough to inquire of other Lushoids, about).

I don't consider myself naïve, nor especially sophisticated, however this is not something I have ever witnessed. Interesting niche, and seemingly non-harmful. I cannot say that I find it erotic nor something I have ever devoted as many brain cycles to as I have now, to respond to you here.

meh


i can understand.. but it is a fetish lot more common than you think.. just try searching on youtube and on the net for lift and carry stories (there are websites with 1000's of stories dedicated to this) .... i only stumbled across this a couple of years back.. and yes.. i enjoy it...
Quote by Milly
I don't see anything 'unthinkable' in the idea. In fact, I quite like the sound of it - why shouldn't a man experience that feeling of having no control?

Power play is pretty much one sided in my experience though as I'm pretty small.

I think it would be fun for him to be on the recieving end of being tossed about and being incapable of stopping it.


So, have you ever given it a try?
Quote by Catnip


If the relationship is good without it, I'd just get my sex elsewhere.


I would like to agree.. but it is easier said than done... specially if the one you love does not agree to it. In that case you'll have to choose between remaining 'unfulfilled but faithful' vs. 'unfaithful and unfulfilled'!
I have often come across girls lifting and carrying a man. sometimes just as teenage fun... a challenge , in an emergency or even as part of rough sex...
although some men enjoy this role-reversal, to many others this concept might be unthinkable, even humiliating (to most, I suppose) ..

but the girls are getting stronger and bigger.. catching up with the guys...

So I wanted to survey what the Lush men thought about this.

If yes, how long could she carry you for? and which position? was she much lighter than you? what were the circumstances?

and finally... how did you feel? would you do it again?

Thanks in advance for your input!
traditionally men have been the stronger ones ... however, the girls are catching up fast, I think, getting bigger and stronger ...

I have often come across girls lifting and carrying a man. sometimes just as teenage fun... a challenge , in an emergency or even as part of rough sex... but the idea also seems unthinkable to many women (cause its role-reversal may be?)

So I wanted to survey what the Lush women thought about this. Are the traditional views changing?

If you did, how long could you carry him for? and which position? was he much heavier than you? what were the circumstances?

and finally... did you enjoy it? would you do it again?

Thanks in advance for your input!
Definately.. only realised how sexxy pregnant women are when my wife got pregnant... oh.. i adore them now.. specially the glowing ones...and yes.. you dont need any protectiion... i love feeling their bump.. and then their breasts... wow!!
I have been in the long haul for 12 years now.. I first came across my wife when we were in college (17-18 year olds) and she was quite reserved - quite shy as well - however, she was also good looking and intelligent. She was unlike every other girl - a bit mysterious... I actually became friends with her friends for a couple of years as a means to get into her world (slowly but steadily) and actually get to know the person... we clicked... and have grown together since.. the journey has hardly been easy though.. she's gone through some really challenging and difficult phases.. and i have always been there for her.. (she's also been there for me whenever I needed her) . I guess, if you truly love someone then nothing else matters.. because your entire world is this person... the looks, the shyness, deficiencies .. you can overcome all those and lead a happy and fulfilling life...as long as the love keeps growing!
at least that has been my experience so far..

oh.. and yes.. although, i have been careful not to hurt anyone because of their looks, i am sure i haven't been successful every time and a few might have got hurt on the way! sad

Did this answer your question? Hope it did..
Quote by 1Zratedgal
I look at this differently. Not in the arm wrestling but in the foreplay of wrestling or just playing around.
When things do get more heated, it's almost like rough sex but with the intent of adding to our pleasure.
Kinda like when a guy wants to do it in one position, but I rather be in a different one and I can force my way into it.
We both win and end up fucking like crazy anyways!

Now if it is a group situation, then it becomes like a wild fuck fest frenzy of bodies and it really gets to be intense and fun too!
Trying to hold your own against a group of horney people is fun and tiring but the climaxes are well worth it!

Kisses!

Steph


Couldn't agree more with you Steph. Thats exactly what me and my wife do.. oh.. so much fun!! a win-win situation definately!!
Quote by Nikki703
I am pretty strong, especially for my size, but it would be a big turn off if a guy was physically weaker than me. I think wrestling can be very sexual and a turn on. It is fun to be handled roughly by a guy during sex. But not arm wrestling. That is just how drunk men boost, or try to boost their egos.

Doll, Erotic Wrestling sounds like a great idea. I mean who would have ever thought Naked Yoga and Pole Dancing Classes would ever exist? Personally Im waiting for Naked Kickboxing!! LOL



Nikki, I can see why strong women want stong (er) men. But for me it is also the other way round. I too am strong for my size. But strong women (one who can physically defend themselves if the need be) are a massive turn-on to me... I am lucky to have a like-minded wife (although, I believe, I am stronger than her) - and sex is just so much fun when you can be really rough to each other!! oh . just luv it..
totally support the erotic restling idea... membership please !!!
Quote by legallyme
Absolutley not I love being the alpha dog in a relationship if i was stronger than him that may even turn me on more


I am glad there was at least one girl who found this a 'turn-on'. Just curious, have you ever had a chance to physically dominate a man and make love to him? (a bit like him, I suppose)
The girl should show genuine attraction towards me.. that is a must! I won't be interested in girls who only care about getting a dick inside...
Quote by nicola
16 is the legal age of consent in most developed countries, which is why I have that as the age we allow in stories.

The same goes for the forums.

The odd thing is the authorities require you to have an 18+ warning on sites like this, 2 years after you're actually "allowed" to have sex. Not sure how that works, nanny state anyone?


So 16 it is then.... that is what I thought it was. Thanks for clarifying.
Quote by Dudealicious


Seeing as I have not been on today until now, I really don't appreciate the call out.


Never mind... Nicola has already clarified it for us.
[Quote=MuchoCurious]Deleted by admin. Your post clearly breaks site guidelines. Please do not post of any sexual activity under the age of 18 in the public forums.

Wow.. 1946! thats amazing! Thanks for sharing your experiences!
Quote by kinkygirl
As far back as I can remember, always been attracted to women just didn't act on it for years.

I do have one question but this is for Dude. In the rules Nicola said when writing a story that you couldn't write about anyone under 16 so wouldn't 16 be alright in Forums too? Just wondering.


I second! Clarification would be helpful.. plus this is about what has actually happened in people's lives - not about characters in a story!
I am a heterosexual man and was only ever attracted to women. So I am really curious to understand this from a bi or gay woman's perspective.
Your first crush on another woman - when did it happen? Was your mind confused at times about whether this should happen or not? any guilt perhaps? how long did it take for you to be comfortable with who you were?
Thanks!!
Hmmm.. for me the biggest regret has been not having enough fun during my teens.. I am a short guy... and I only had my first sex when i was 19... too bad .. I have no idea why many girls are so hung up on height instead of the whole package ... I donot think I'll ever solve that puzzle..
but any way... so coming back to the question - if I could, I would like to relive those years and hopefully get more sex!
Hi guys,
if any of you have been to one, please let me know what you thought of it? and if you would recommend it...
thanks..
fake tan definately puts me off .. make-up I do not mind as long as it looks good and not too unnatural!
Notice it? Not me..unfortunately.. (my wife has given up on me.. earlier she used to get annoyed when I did not notice her new hair-do.. but now a days she just informs me that she had one)...
Although I may not notice the style - I do prefer light brown or brown and straight - deffo not a fan of curly!!
Hiya,

I am thinking of giving it a try (while on a trip to Prague) .. but I am really confused as to what to expect? and how/if it is going to be different from a b2b massage? I suppose there is a meditative aspect to it...
but has any one here tried it? what was your experience? would you recommend it?
thanks in advance for your help!
1. It lets you explore your sexuality and desires without necessarily loosing your fidelity.
2. Opportunity to mingle with like minded creatures (virtually or for real)
3. Explore your creative skills
4. ... and of course, most of us would not rule out a quickie (if the opportunity arose)!!

Man .. Lush is Great!!
organised, independent and took more initiative.