How personal do you view your sex toys, or how protective are you of your sex toys?
Do you feel sex toys can be shared like clothes or shoes, after all, they can be cleaned and sterilized if one wanted.
Or are they so personal, you'd never want another woman to be so intimate with them?
Hope the poll choices covered most responses, thanks in advance for your participation.
Decades ago a man with a earing in his right ear was showing his gay or bi interests.
Around the same time, women wearing a band on her left index finger was showing her bisexual interest.
Only a few years ago I was told about the message of wearing a black ring on the right hand.
Sooooooo, wondering if there are messages like those above for nipple rings or bars?
Any meaning of choosing a bar rather than a ring, or ring with ball?
If only one nipple pierced, is there meaning to which nipple is pierced?
If there are no meanings what reason did you use to pierce one nipple vs the other?
Do women still get one nipple pieced, or do they just get them both done right away, now days?
Just wondering,,, if your a woman who likes to fantasize about other partners during sex,,, whether doggie is the position of choice for you?
Would you purposely ask or move to doggie position, because you want to fantasize about a different partner during sex?
Is it easier to fantasize about taking another lover when you can't see them face to face?
Thanks Gals for all the responses to date.
I want to mention, in constructing this Poll, one is only allowed so many slots for poll questions(and question slots are limited to their length).
I thought having room for passive participation, unfulfilled participation, or, no interest in participation,,, were important answers to offer the full pool of Gals who may view this Poll.
re; a "bisexual" answer choice, I tried to encompass that within "I often have sex with females", identified separately by a "/" from lesbian. I left "often", to be defined by the reader, so as it could mean, a couple times per year, to a couple times per month, or anything between. I grouped, "I often have sex with females" and "I am lesbian" together because both would conclude, that for the most part, that you aren't experimenting as much as you're practising.
I would have liked room for a question something like "used a toy on another female" or "shared sex toys with another female", but hence, no more slots.
I'd like to see more responses in the Poll, I hope this answers some of the hesitation and addresses the "bisexual option" concern.
There hopefully/should be an answer choice for everyone, Thanks.
Only recently, found out that my wife(46) had explored some sexual acts with other females for a period in her distant sexual past. No one, including myself, would have suspected that happening in her sexual past. I was intrigued, and am wondering how often it occurs with women in general, hence my poll.
Is it possible for women to leave this "exploration" behind you, without carrying some kind of "flame" for it to happen again?
Please make a choice in my poll, and comment about it if you'd like. Maybe you didn't experiment, but you know some of you friend did, what can you say about this topic.
Love to slowly pull down the zipper on the back of a dress, while standing behind the woman.
Love to smell the back of her neck.
Love to see the width of her bra closure, three hooks gets me excited for what's to come, four hooks and she'll feel my boner against her ass.
Love to slowly slide the dress off her shoulders and replace her dress with my kisses.
Will unhook her bra first, then slide the straps off her shoulders.
Then replace her bra with my hands cupping them under her breasts, lifting and gently squeezing.
Can't wait to feel her nipples hard in my hand.
If she chooses, we might not even face one another. I will enter her from behind, her pussy is as wet as my cock is hard.
Double D for me!
Once upon a time DD would have been considered huge, not so much today with all the F, G , and H sized cups around,,, and even larger.
Women are 1.5 times as big as they were in the 60's-70's. Then, common cup size would have been B-C.
" Do Tattoo'd women turn you on? "
Maybe 10 or 15 years ago, now that most every woman has one, and each of them are adding more to out do each other,,,I'm finding myself looking at women without tats and/or minimal ink.
Just like big boobs, big asses, multiple piercings, the more, the bigger, the over done,,,always loses out, eventually. Then the opposite becomes vogue.
Live nowhere near Boston, but, Go Pats !
I have always thought of my erect cock as average with the exception of the head. Measured with a tailor's tape, it's 6.5" long, and girth of 5.75", but main feature of my cock is the head which is 6.6" in girth when completely full and erect.
Hence a very frustrating sex life till I was 30 years of age. Prior to my 30's, sex with 20-some aged women was either difficult, or restricted to manual or oral sex. Once into my 30's, I turned more to older women. They were almost always able to accommodate my cock, which they enjoyed and were more desirous of, and I was also able to enjoy sex finally. I've been with the same woman now for 6 years and sex is great together. Anal sex doesn't interest either of us, and would likely never be possible even if it was wanted by her.
Select the one that would apply, most of the time.
My partner, past mid 50's, a well educated, professional career woman would never be thought of, as a person that would use such a term. If she heard me use that word as a curse, I'd be in big trouble with her. That's because cunt is her word, in the bedroom. When she started using it with me, more than 20 years ago, I had a difficult time not cumming right on the spot. She still uses it, as regularly as she did all those years ago, and it still excites me, hearing her saying it. Lick my cunt, taste my cunt, fuck my cunt, smell my cunt, finger my cunt, look at my cunt, it's all exciting for me, it has a lot to do with the way she says it too, boldly, confidently, a little forceful, but not domineering.
Just wondering if this is "a thing", getting sexually aroused specifically, because your having sex while visiting a relative (or friends place) and having it on the sheets, which will be washed by someone you know(after you've left to go home)
Either masturbating and rubbing or wiping your wetness on the sheets, or having sex with a partner leaving wet stains or cum stains, that your host may or may not find?
Ever have sex with your boyfriend, in your mom's bed while she was out of the house or gone for the weekend?
Ever have sex while staying over visiting your aunt's, or sibling's or friends, and want to leave sex stained sheets behind, just so they know that your getting it, and that it's really good and wet sex?
Ever think about the hundreds of people who had sex on the bed in the hotel bed your having sex on? Same for the bed you have in your room, while staying at a all inclusive holiday resort.
Studies say percentage wise,,,people are more apt to have sex when sleeping in a bed that's not their own, ie; hotel, motel or resort stay.
Regarded as 1 of the 5 senses, just wondering if scent has played much of a roll in;
1) initial attraction to a sexual partner?
2) sexual arousal, during preliminary clothed contact(ie. dancing, walking together etc) and/or foreplay?
3) during sex?
4) after sex? after the partner leaves? next day/days following?
5) Have I missed a exposure point? Your own scent?
If scent plays a roll, what is it, what makes it arousing and attractive.
Natural earthy scents, musk, strong, light scents? Artificial scents, colognes, fragrances?
Does scent attract and arouse you sexually?
Any gals here, take a lover in their mom's bed when they were gone or out?
If so, I'm just wondering why? rebellious reason's? your bedroom was too messy? a kinky thrill? didn't want your lover snooping through your things? a friend was busy with her own lover, in your bedroom? didn't want your lover to see all the pics of your boyfriend? mom has all the good sex toys?
Any of the above? something else? something different?
Is there psychology behind this act? Over the years, I've met two gals that were into doing that. One(just a friend) told me that it was such a turn-on to lay back in her mothers bed and take a new lover. She always did it at least once with the boyfriends she was having sex with. The other gal, I was having sex with, and I thought it just happened to be convenient because her room was messy. It wasn't any different for me, but she really seemed to get off in being in her mom's bed. In both cases the mom's were married, and I assume were getting regular sex themselves.
Would lover to hear from gals who have done this.
Who contributes more to the white creamy stains on your bed sheets?
yourself with a toy?
a male partner ?
a female partner ?
After you mastered masturbation with your fingers, was there something around the house that you added to your masturbation routine. Something you "discovered" which added pleasure by rubbing against your clit or vulva? or did you go from fingers to sex toys?
Wow, with all the talk here about fucking 10", 11" and even 13" cocks and how good they always feel, I was sure some of you must have tried something as adventurous as a Dragon dildo. Size queens, where are you?
What type of toy do you use then, to replicate the length and fullness of those big cocks you loved so much, up inside you?
See vids on Pornhub, "fantasy shaped" dildos, lots of styles, colors, and shapes for the size queens, but I think they also come in smaller sizes too. Some seem to be fairly aggressive with the ribbing, just interested in any reviews or recommendations for the wife, she likes a nice stretching from time to time.
How damaging were feminists in the 70's and 80's to women regarding porn. Feminists sided with the political Rightwing and televangelists in suggesting porn was bad for everyone, but especially bad for women to watch porn and even more so, to act in. They told men AND women that, women didn't like to watch porn, didn't get aroused by porn, didn't want to do the things that were in porn, didn't want porn in their homes, that no women would,,, given a choice,,, want to work in porn. Feminist women, told other women that they, the women, didn't want to watch porn. They told other women, that women don't get turned-on by porn. What women would get turned on by porn,,,talk about passing guilt on to women! How could you get turn-on by that! ? But women were turned-on by porn, maybe not the same way as men,,,but also not always the same as other women. Women always were visual creatures just like men. Women have always looked at the 6-pack, or men's shoulders or arms, legs or butt, ya, even the package. Women have been more discrete about it. The internet has allowed women over the last 20 yrs to view porn in the privacy and comfort of their own homes without being judged, especially other feminist women. Feminist were damaging to women in their 20's - 40's throughout that period of the 1970's and 80's with all the guilt they put on other women.
I'm not annoyed, I just want to know why. WHY! It's pretty easy to add another word to your vocabulary, isn't it?
So when it comes to appearance, so when observing other women at change rooms, spas, stripers/topless lounges, the beach et al other topless areas, sure even include internet porn or any topless pics. Is there a areola width/diameter size limit, at which other women would consider not pretty? How large of areola before they would be considered or unattractive, or too much? What areola size do women consider desirable? Are you happy with your size? would you like your areola larger or smaller?
,,,,,,more length in your vagina than at other times(when in the same position)? Say being hyper turn-on, or dwelling on sex all day at work? Can you take more cock or toy length in your vagina by changing position? If so, which position allows for the most length or deepest penetration?
Do you like a man's bag loose and hanging, so when he's fucking, you can feel and hear it slapping against you? A loose bag would allow for easier sucking of the balls, is that important?
Or do you like it tight and pulled up, so there's no flopping around? Maybe you don't care to suck on your man's balls?
Do you like a completely shaved bag, or maybe it doesn't matter cause your only concerned about the cock?
Just wondering.
