As a side question, When referencing " 3-somes ", does that always mean simultaneous sex with all three participant(That's what I would considered a 3-some). or do some women use the term " 3-some " to describe a situation where there are 3 people in the room, she has sex with one, then after, has sex with the other one. Maybe all three sleep together after, but during sex there are only two participating at one time. Is that still considered a 3-some ?