Ladies, or gents too, I suppose,
Is the term "spunk" still used now days over in the UK. Have been hearing it used by both men and women in older "classic" type films that I would guess to be British?
Nice change from always hearing "cum", especially love the way women say it, HOT!
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bulbousknob
Over 90 days ago
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There seems to be plenty of "solo" videos out there of females masturbating with their toys, a fairly large percentage which, include the acts listed in this poll, often doing so once or more during the self made clips.
If you pulled your toy out during masturbation, would you be more apt to do any of these choices alone by yourself or would you be more apt to do them in front of a partner?
If you pulled your toy out during masturbation, would you be more apt to do any of these choices alone by yourself or would you be more apt to do them in front of a partner?
What is, important, or what is a factor, when you choose a sex toy?
Please rank most important to least important.
Just use the list numbers if you prefer.
Don't choose any that are irrelevant to your decision making.
Do you look for;
(1) Insertable lenght ?
(2) Thickness or girth?
(3) Comes with balls vs. no balls attached?
(4) Material type?
(5) Overall length of item?
(6) Surface texture?
(7) Vibrating options, low to high vs. vibrating patterns?
(8) Color?
(9) Overall shape or contour?
(10) Penis look vs. non penis look?
Bonus question,
Does anyone buy a dildo?
If so, Why? to what purpose, when there is such a wide choice of vibrators?
What can be done with a dildo that can't be done with a vibrator?
Please rank most important to least important.
Just use the list numbers if you prefer.
Don't choose any that are irrelevant to your decision making.
Do you look for;
(1) Insertable lenght ?
(2) Thickness or girth?
(3) Comes with balls vs. no balls attached?
(4) Material type?
(5) Overall length of item?
(6) Surface texture?
(7) Vibrating options, low to high vs. vibrating patterns?
(8) Color?
(9) Overall shape or contour?
(10) Penis look vs. non penis look?
Bonus question,
Does anyone buy a dildo?
If so, Why? to what purpose, when there is such a wide choice of vibrators?
What can be done with a dildo that can't be done with a vibrator?
kreamykaren,
" Was told (in my 30's) from a girlfriend, who's husband was "well endowed", about the vaginal fornix. She told me that most women take a penis up to the cervix, or anterior vaginal fornix. But if a woman is aroused sufficiently, and with some repositioning, she can accommodate a longer penis into the posterior vaginal fornix. When sexually aroused, the posterior fornix expands and lengthens allowing for a penis or dildo to move past the cervix into the deepest part of the vagina. The vaginal doesn't end at the cervix. This was information explained to her from her doctor at the time. She'd confided in him that her new husband had a long penis and that intercourse was usually painful, while occasionally it wasn't. Personally, I've never had sex with a penis longer than 7". My friend told me, her husband was about 9". "
I've heard something like that before. Explains why some women are full with 6 or 7" yet others can take 10 or 12', yet when examined by a doctor he would still use the same length of speculum. Some women can, or do, know how to work a longer cock in deep. Maybe it just takes practise and persistence? or a desirous state of arousal.
Gals who fuck long cocks, could you take it deep the first time you had a long cock, or did it take practise till you figured out where to move it around when it was up inside you?
" Was told (in my 30's) from a girlfriend, who's husband was "well endowed", about the vaginal fornix. She told me that most women take a penis up to the cervix, or anterior vaginal fornix. But if a woman is aroused sufficiently, and with some repositioning, she can accommodate a longer penis into the posterior vaginal fornix. When sexually aroused, the posterior fornix expands and lengthens allowing for a penis or dildo to move past the cervix into the deepest part of the vagina. The vaginal doesn't end at the cervix. This was information explained to her from her doctor at the time. She'd confided in him that her new husband had a long penis and that intercourse was usually painful, while occasionally it wasn't. Personally, I've never had sex with a penis longer than 7". My friend told me, her husband was about 9". "
I've heard something like that before. Explains why some women are full with 6 or 7" yet others can take 10 or 12', yet when examined by a doctor he would still use the same length of speculum. Some women can, or do, know how to work a longer cock in deep. Maybe it just takes practise and persistence? or a desirous state of arousal.
Gals who fuck long cocks, could you take it deep the first time you had a long cock, or did it take practise till you figured out where to move it around when it was up inside you?
Gals, have you ever knowingly or intentionally left your panties behind? Perhaps as a trophy for a guy to find later, you know, a pair with a white cream stained gusset. Maybe left anonymously for a lover or maybe even a stranger, leaving it in his desk, or car or maybe his coat pocket to find later.
Or, like laying down a marker of sorts, for another woman to find. Maybe like, "I've been here and I've fucked your man!" kinda message.
Have you ever found another woman's panties at your man's place or in his car, worse yet, in or under your own bed?
Or, like laying down a marker of sorts, for another woman to find. Maybe like, "I've been here and I've fucked your man!" kinda message.
Have you ever found another woman's panties at your man's place or in his car, worse yet, in or under your own bed?
Asking everyone to play by the rules of the website, if your choosing to post about something too early in life. OK.
Just wondering gals, did you first start having sex and then later discover the world of porn/erotica? Or was it the other way around, discovering porn/erotica, be it porn mags or videos or hardcore erotic novels/books and then later at some point, start having sex?
Kinda like which came first, the chicken or,,,,well you know where I'm going.
Just wondering gals, did you first start having sex and then later discover the world of porn/erotica? Or was it the other way around, discovering porn/erotica, be it porn mags or videos or hardcore erotic novels/books and then later at some point, start having sex?
Kinda like which came first, the chicken or,,,,well you know where I'm going.
I meant to add, that the whole beauty of fantasy, Is that it never HAS to happen. Fantasies don't have to be acted on.
I had a partner for awhile(in her 40's at the time) who still masturbated at times fantasizing about a female school teacher she had back in gr.10 The teacher was older(in her 50's), had huge breasts and wore very supportive bras, making the teachers breasts stick out. She started fantasizing about them while back in school and she was still doing so 25 plus years later. And it was such a simple fantasy, she just thought about holding them, moving her hands over them, kissing them and sucking on them, all while the teacher watched her, that's it. She's not lesbian, or bi, but there was just something about this teachers breasts and bras she wore, that turned her on. It really seems funny because of the lifestyles changes people have made over the years, yet at the time, while a student, this would have been a very fantasy to have, and she would never have told her friends about, at the time.
I had a partner for awhile(in her 40's at the time) who still masturbated at times fantasizing about a female school teacher she had back in gr.10 The teacher was older(in her 50's), had huge breasts and wore very supportive bras, making the teachers breasts stick out. She started fantasizing about them while back in school and she was still doing so 25 plus years later. And it was such a simple fantasy, she just thought about holding them, moving her hands over them, kissing them and sucking on them, all while the teacher watched her, that's it. She's not lesbian, or bi, but there was just something about this teachers breasts and bras she wore, that turned her on. It really seems funny because of the lifestyles changes people have made over the years, yet at the time, while a student, this would have been a very fantasy to have, and she would never have told her friends about, at the time.
Kimasa, "I blushed in my panties at the thought"
When translated, does that mean you left a white creamy stain in the gusset of your panties?
suzieswinger, "It's based on something once that nearly happened."
What better situation to discuss ones fantasies than an anonymous web sex, focused on all things sexual? Do you regret that incident only "nearly happened" rather than actually happened. What ever happened, do you view it as a missed opportunity(something you could look back at now, and take pleasure from remembering) or a close call(something you really would Not want to happen in actuality, but is a turn-on to fantasise about)? If not that one, won't you share another one that truly arouses you?
VirginalViet, "to be totally dominated and treated like a sex toy"
To be totally dominated, I would think, means a surprise at every move, as all decisions are made by others. Maybe that's a way of keeping sex fresh. It may be a fantasy many girls have, I could see how the same fantasy could also be a man's fantasy, either dominating a woman or the reverse, where two women would dominate a man. Either way, your left to the will of others. I'm thinking you liked the movie, 50 Shades???
When you have a fantasy about "two ripped guys", are they participating simultaneously, if so, how so?
When translated, does that mean you left a white creamy stain in the gusset of your panties?
suzieswinger, "It's based on something once that nearly happened."
What better situation to discuss ones fantasies than an anonymous web sex, focused on all things sexual? Do you regret that incident only "nearly happened" rather than actually happened. What ever happened, do you view it as a missed opportunity(something you could look back at now, and take pleasure from remembering) or a close call(something you really would Not want to happen in actuality, but is a turn-on to fantasise about)? If not that one, won't you share another one that truly arouses you?
VirginalViet, "to be totally dominated and treated like a sex toy"
To be totally dominated, I would think, means a surprise at every move, as all decisions are made by others. Maybe that's a way of keeping sex fresh. It may be a fantasy many girls have, I could see how the same fantasy could also be a man's fantasy, either dominating a woman or the reverse, where two women would dominate a man. Either way, your left to the will of others. I'm thinking you liked the movie, 50 Shades???
When you have a fantasy about "two ripped guys", are they participating simultaneously, if so, how so?
I realize that women come from all different backgrounds and up bringing. Economic, cultural, religious, lifestyle etc.
but in YOUR own MIND, what do you consider the most perverted, most fantasy you've ever had?
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but in YOUR own MIND, what do you consider the most perverted, most fantasy you've ever had?
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','/forum/images/emoticons/eusa_shifty.gif') I'm not sure what the odds would be, for a vagina accommodating the hand from a man on any given night. (Even though, as you state, are still smaller than a baby's head). But I would think the percentage would be rather low. Being with roughly 60 women in my life time, some of which had already birthed 2 or 3 children, I would say that perhaps 1, might have had a vagina, open, wet and pliable enough, that potentially could have accommodated such a size. (maybe she didn't do kegals?)
I think a woman would be unique, if she had that ability, likely also unique if she wanted to try to take a whole hand.
I think a woman would be unique, if she had that ability, likely also unique if she wanted to try to take a whole hand.
Is there an actual medical procedure, where a doctor checks a woman's vagina, cervix or uterus, by inserting their whole hand? If so, does this procedure have a name? Would/might this happen during prenatal care, or perhaps near the end of term, or perhaps during the birthing process? Could have an "inspection", with the whole hand, taken place at an earlier time, perhaps before ultra sound technology? Might it have been a procedure from the past? Serious question,,,just Asking the Gals!
Seems hand insertion or sexually speaking, fisting, has long been in European adult films. Regulations for N.A. films prevented showing such sexual displays, at least that's what I've been told. Although, I can't ever remember any man or woman from the mid 60's till 2000 ever talk about something like that being a sex act, coming up in any conversations. Have read all of Nancy Friday's books, don't remember any stories/fantasies about fisting(time frame roughly, mid 80's to 2000) Maybe the art of hand insertion/fisting was something more isolated to lesbian lifestyles during that period. That might make sense due to females typically having smaller hands, and perhaps lesbians prior to the nineties or the year 2000 wouldn't talked so openly about this particular sex act.
Any comments about the evolution of this sex act would interest me. I never expect a female to ever be interested in accommodating the size of my hand, but having been noticing, over the past while that some woman's hand are very small, and wouldn't be much larger in girth than my erection.
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Seems hand insertion or sexually speaking, fisting, has long been in European adult films. Regulations for N.A. films prevented showing such sexual displays, at least that's what I've been told. Although, I can't ever remember any man or woman from the mid 60's till 2000 ever talk about something like that being a sex act, coming up in any conversations. Have read all of Nancy Friday's books, don't remember any stories/fantasies about fisting(time frame roughly, mid 80's to 2000) Maybe the art of hand insertion/fisting was something more isolated to lesbian lifestyles during that period. That might make sense due to females typically having smaller hands, and perhaps lesbians prior to the nineties or the year 2000 wouldn't talked so openly about this particular sex act.
Any comments about the evolution of this sex act would interest me. I never expect a female to ever be interested in accommodating the size of my hand, but having been noticing, over the past while that some woman's hand are very small, and wouldn't be much larger in girth than my erection.
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','/forum/images/emoticons/dontknow.gif') Thanks ladies for replying. I really thought more of you would have embraced the fantasy of the question, rather than the usual, "it doesn't matter, if they don't know how to use it", or "I care more about the person than his penis".
Gee, it was just a question about whether you Like/or Might Like, the sensation of your vagina tickled deeply by length, or whether you Like/or Might Like your vulva entrance stretched open and stimulated by thickness.
Gee, it was just a question about whether you Like/or Might Like, the sensation of your vagina tickled deeply by length, or whether you Like/or Might Like your vulva entrance stretched open and stimulated by thickness.
Gals, if you could have ONLY one or the other, what choice of Cock Shaft would you choose,,, "thick an' fat", say 6.5" around or greater or "long but thin", say 8" long and maybe only 4" around?
Perhaps you'd have different choices for different holes? If you were just sucking one, would it be a different choice than the shape you'd like to fuck?
Perhaps you'd have different choices for different holes? If you were just sucking one, would it be a different choice than the shape you'd like to fuck?