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banshee69
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 55
0 miles · Huntsville

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I would definitely try it at least once. Think it would be best if it were my wife and I with another "friendly" guy; I would feel more comfortable then. But I would also like to be the third for a couple, as well - sounds like lots of fun to me!!!
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Hello,

I am looking to surprise my wife with a dildo/vibrator (not sure which one yet, leaning towards the vibrator), but I want it to be as realistic as possible. Any input from you ladies with personal experience would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks!
Drew
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Does not bother me at all, I think ir is sort of cute - a little quirk that makes you unique and something very few if any know about!
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When my wife and I were dating, we did alot without doing intercourse, since she wanted to be a virgin when we got married. Using my tongue, fingers or even rubbing against her, she would cum several times. While I could get her to cum all three ways, by far, my tongue was the easiest and her favorite, plus I thoroughly enjoy it as well!
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I would do it! Would especially be curious to see how her body reacts without her conscious decision to get excited. Best case scenario though, is that she would wake up and participate - enjoy hearing a woman moan and feeling her respond and reciprocate!
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Have not had the pleasure as of yet, but would definitely not hesitate if the attraction were there. Think it would be lots of fun!
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All the individual parts are very sexy (to include attitude!), but for me it is the actual curves of her body - torso, legs, breasts, etc.
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Definitely nothing better than easting my significant other out and here her moans of pleasure and feel her writhe under my tongue! Any man who does not do it is cheating their mate and shoudl definitely never ask for oral themselves.

Do find it funny how many women (basically) expect guys to eat them whenever they have sex, but do not feel the need (or desire) to reciprocate. Of course, both need to be comfortable with what they are doing, without doubt.
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As long as it is not too small, yes corsets and the like are great! I prefer the ones that offer support, but leave the breast available, otherwise have to take it off and get access for foreplay and later!
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Have done it many times in front of my wife and a girlfriend, only a few times in front of a guy (not bad, but definitely prefer women). My wife and past girlfriends have enjoyed watching me and seeing the cum spurt onto their bodies, so it was fun for both parties.
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Beautiful redheads are very difficult to find and am always intrigued by them Several of my girlfriends have been redheads and were fantastic. While I did not marry a redhead (they were wild, but not the marrying type), I did marry the next best thing - a strawberry blonde! For me it is not just the hair color, but also the pale whie skin!
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I have not tried the beads or plugs, but I have tried strap-ons on several occasions and we have both thoroughly enjoyed them. They were not the double-ended types, but my female friends enjoyed being 'in charge' - it was very erotic.
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Have not really worried about it, my wife is very tight and refuses to even consider using any toys bigger than me. Have wondered about it, but am not concerned.
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My wife and I both enjoy it - tactile, as well as visual. We both also love to have me shoot off on her chest!
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A public forum entitled "Aske the Gals", which you are not. Also, why be rude and not ask why I am looking to get them, rather than immediately assume it is for negative reasons? They are strictly for her pleasure, never even knew they could be used to strengthen her muscles.
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Would be buying the balls strictly for her pleasure.

As for asking for CleverFox's opinion - I didn't. Seems to me I posted under "Ask the Gals" heading, of which, he is not. And you are right, everyone is entitled to their opinion, but negativity is neither called for or wanted by anyone.

Thanks for all who provided positive inpot, since I have had no experience with these, it is good to get some first hand knowledge.
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Thanks for the input all! Like the input.

Except CleverFox, get some glasses and stop reading into things. How is it possible to get all the crap you brought up from me want to give my wife some pleasure? Insecurity issues much?

Best of days for all!
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What is the easiest way to shave a woman who has never done such?

Thanks!
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Are they worth it? Been thinking about getting some for my wife. Any comments?

Thanks!
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Had a girlfriend who rimmed me once, enjoyed it, but nothing since. She was also the first one to penetrate me with a strap-on and we both had lots of fun! My wife even surprised me one Christmas Eve with a strap-on session in front of the fireplace on a fur blanket - she enjoyed being in charge and I just plain enjoyed it!
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1. Downstairs bathroom in a house full of people.
2. Car in a movie theater parking lot.
3. On the hood of a car in the middle of the city.
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My wife and I have talked about fantasies several times, actually I have talked about fantasies and she has said all of hers have already been fulfilled (she has no sexual experience except for me). Every so often I bring the subject up and usually get the same response, until I brought up role playing, that piqued her interest. Seems like she wants to be a prostitute and me her john; complete with her dressing up and being dropped in town while I circle the block or driving herself, parking and walking until I proposition her. Am hoping that creating an alter ego, "Peaches", will get her to lower her inhibitions and have some kinky fun!
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My girlfriend and I did it a few times and we both really enjoyed it. My wife surprised me with it one Christmas Eve on a fur blanket in front of the fireplace (she even bought the strap-on!). I really enjoyed it and she said she liked being in charge, but she is very demure and we have yet to do it again, unfortunately!
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Have wanted to do the same with my wife's sister - she teases and I've even stripped her naked once. But I know even if she were willing (sure she has been on at least one occassion), it would come back to haunt me.

Follow the suggestions of keeping it as a fantasy and writing about it, but do not do anything about it - regardless how she acts now!
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Are you male or female? Male
How old are you? 43
How many times a week do you masturbate? 7-15
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? Usually only once, sometimes as much as three times

Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Usually
In the shower? Rarely
In the bath? Rarely
Outdoors? No
At work? Sometimes
Every room in the house? Sometimes
In a car while traveling... ? Occasionally

What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Usually my wife and I with a third or more partners
A friend? no
A friend's spouse? no
A stranger? rarely
A student? no
A member of the same sex? sometimes
A past lover? rarely

What position do you play in:
On your back? usually
Standing? rarely
Kneeling? no
Sitting? sometimes
Lying on tummy? rarely

How do you play:
With left hand? rarely
With right hand? yes
With a toy? sometimes
With water from bath? no
Written erotica? usually!
Pictures? usually
Movie clips online? sometimes
Videos? rarely
Something on TV? no

What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? sometimes
Gay or lesbian sex? sometimes
Group sex or orgies? usually
Blow jobs/oral sex? usually
Cumshots? always
Anal? sometimes
Interracial? always
Age play? no
S&M? usually
Role playing? usually
Kinky? always

Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages?
A chat room dialogue?
Exchanged stories or pictures?

Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? yes
Masturbated for a man/woman? yes
Masturbated for the same sex? no
Masturbated in a group? no
Masturbated for a photo? yes
Masturbated for a webcam? yes
Masturbated for a video? yes

Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? sometimes
Insert something or play with your ass? occasionally
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? rarely
Use pain as a method of playing? rarely

For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? sometimes
When was the last time you masturbated? five hours ago
Are you wet or hard now? yes
Are you going to masturbate now? yes
Are you a masturbation addict? probably
What is the most you have played in one day? 8, lost interest for the 9th
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Be a total slut! Have always wondered what it felt like to be a woman and be with a man or men! My wife says I would be a total slut, screwing everyone and she's right!
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Most I've ever done in one 12 hour period has been 8 - would have been 9, but lost interest, since I was only masterbating!