I seriously hated working out--all types of exercise from walking to running to weights. It was painful and boring and uncomfortable and sweaty. Then: I hired a personal trainer. And yes, I hated it at first. But it got better and better as I persisted and now I love it!
WARNING: Says he wants your body but really wants your soul.
Thank you for expressing your opinion, sprite! I identify with your self-deprecating nature, although I wish more self-confidence for us both!
One of the concepts I've been hoping to get at in this thread is the idea of an "unwanted sexual advance," which bridges both street harassment and workplace harassment.
The problem seems to occur wherever there are clubs and bars, college campuses, chat rooms--wherever people meet. To me, this broadens the issue out beyond construction site wolf-whistling.
For many, the unwanted sexual advance seems to be rooted in a breach of etiquette in which the person making the advance has failed to see or has ignored a social signal that an advance is not welcome. Or perhaps they have mistook a "stop" sign for a "go" signal.
I wondered if anyone is willing to attempt to articulate what these stop and go signals look like and how they differ from each other?
Perhaps people who commit this faux pas are unable to differentiate between the different social signals? Are they lacking training or social instincts?
Is this problem exclusive to straight men?
Or perhaps they lack the motivation to differentiate and respond appropriately, being somewhat blinded by the objective of the sexual advance or by their own ego?
Or is this behavior even an unwanted sexual advance in the first place? Are these individuals just posing and showing off for each other with no real attempt to give attention or show admiration to women?
Omigod! I'm so sorry browncoffee!! I was really trying hard to respond to every single poster! You totally nailed my ineptitude!
#tryingtoohardtobeacceptedbywomenagain #fearofrejection
I really do appreciate your response X2!
I've tried just watching without touching myself but I can't. I'd have to be tied up or something.
No. I work in an office where the two senior execs are men (50's, 70's) and the two juniors are women (20's, 40's). Just four people total. Nothing we discuss ever comes close to being a topic of a sexual nature.
Yes. This has happened to me a number of times, typically under one of the following two circumstances:
1. At home masturbating but had people in the house and couldn't just hang out with my pants off and didn't want to wait until I had an empty house.
2. In a private room at a strip club, too excited to hold back, didn't want to get arrested for taking my pants off. (The strippers are very understanding and actually seem hurt if you don't leave their room with wet pants.)
Never had it. Can't see why I wouldn't love it. Except for the awkward question of a night's worth of pee. What happens to that?
God knows I would eat pussy 24/7 and more if there were more hours in a day, more days in a week or if I had more than one mouth. There are a few things that hold me back:
Minor factors -
1. Breathing - I need a technique that would allow me to breathe through an organ not on the front of my face.
2. Sleeping, eating, earning a living, bla bla bla
3. Marriage - it limits my opportunities.
Major factor -
Why are some women so reluctant to keep their pussies clean and clean-shaven? It's enough to put us pussy connoisseurs off our meals. You know the meals I'm talking about.
I definitely fantasize about this. Once I am no longer in an unhappy marriage, this may change for me. We'll see.
I am not drawn at all to the humiliation aspects of cuckoldry, just to the fantasy of seeing my wife as a highly sexualized person, which I have never had the pleasure of witnessing in 32+ years of marriage. Or perhaps I am drawn to the idea that it would give me license to have an affair of my own. I'm not sure which is true.
