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OldGeezer
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 76
United Kingdom
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Quote by dpw
This in my humble opinion is akin to talking dirty. Some Brits just don't get it, maybe we're too reserved.
It's just "not quite right".
I have no problem with talking dirty, and don't get me wrong, I'm happy to go with it if she wants to. I love dressing up for an occasion, whether it is black tie for a dinner, or cape and mask for a ball. Just that the role play doesn't turn me on.
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Don't be such a silly fuck. You know nothing about him that can be verified. Texas is a big place, and one little girl in a foreign land - who else would give a fuck what happened to you. So damn dangerous. There are plenty of guys in the world, so don't rush into danger.
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I just start writing when I am in a sensual mood, and eventually I find myself almost living what I am writing - well imagining it strongly, and of course that make sme very horny so I then stop and com ebackto it, and the whole cycle goes on and on...damn..better stop writing now!
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Casual fuck - condom every time, to do anything else is plain stupid.
From then on into a relationship, then ideally not, but you have to have and gain trust in your partner, so talk is vital. If you can't trust then cover it up, and if she objects then talk about it all again.
Of course if it is just about contraception, then there are a range of good alternatives, all down to the woman though, and some women can't tolerate the pill, or iuds or...in which case, its the condom or take the risk with rhythm.
From then on into a relationship, then ideally not, but you have to have and gain trust in your partner, so talk is vital. If you can't trust then cover it up, and if she objects then talk about it all again.
Of course if it is just about contraception, then there are a range of good alternatives, all down to the woman though, and some women can't tolerate the pill, or iuds or...in which case, its the condom or take the risk with rhythm.
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- Do you have one that stands out in your memory as being mind-blowing?
I can think of a few, but one in particular was some 10 years ago, my wife had recovered from breast cancer, and we had taken a vacation over Xmas to visit my son who was working in the US, in Santa Barbara. On Boxing Day, we drove to Vegas and found a decent hotel (of many). It was the first time we had made love since she had physically recovered from the surgery, though still a bit shaky mentally.
- What do you remember most vividly about it?
Initially the tenderness of our foreplay, and then when I slid into her, it was like a switch had been turned on, and we both were just so alive, and for some reason we both kept it going for much, much longer than usual, as though we didn't want it to end.
- What did it feel like?
Like my mind was draining, all emption raw, down through my body, merging into my balls, my cock swelling, and the first pulse was like a molten stream, bursting out, searing my length, and then again and again, until there's nothing left to
- How could you tell when you were 'getting close'?
Oh, I came close several times, and had to fight to hold it back each time she climaxed. Its a pressure just behind my balls, and a blurring of every thought but of the moment.
- Did you moan or growl?
Probably.
- Did you clamp your eyes shut?
No, but my vision did go dark, I think.
- Did you pass out?
NO way!! Far to good a feeling to miss any moment of it.
I can think of a few, but one in particular was some 10 years ago, my wife had recovered from breast cancer, and we had taken a vacation over Xmas to visit my son who was working in the US, in Santa Barbara. On Boxing Day, we drove to Vegas and found a decent hotel (of many). It was the first time we had made love since she had physically recovered from the surgery, though still a bit shaky mentally.
- What do you remember most vividly about it?
Initially the tenderness of our foreplay, and then when I slid into her, it was like a switch had been turned on, and we both were just so alive, and for some reason we both kept it going for much, much longer than usual, as though we didn't want it to end.
- What did it feel like?
Like my mind was draining, all emption raw, down through my body, merging into my balls, my cock swelling, and the first pulse was like a molten stream, bursting out, searing my length, and then again and again, until there's nothing left to
- How could you tell when you were 'getting close'?
Oh, I came close several times, and had to fight to hold it back each time she climaxed. Its a pressure just behind my balls, and a blurring of every thought but of the moment.
- Did you moan or growl?
Probably.
- Did you clamp your eyes shut?
No, but my vision did go dark, I think.
- Did you pass out?
NO way!! Far to good a feeling to miss any moment of it.
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No, like many, I'd want to know something about her before diving in. Just imagine the scene, she's there all ready, you think here's my chance for a quick one, and just as you climb aboard, in walks her bf who's just gone out for a pee first. Ummmmm......
Honestly M'Lord, I though it was my wife, couldn't tell because of the mask and gag.....
Honestly M'Lord, I though it was my wife, couldn't tell because of the mask and gag.....
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When my wife or lover is giving me oral sex, there are a whole mix of feelings and emotions. First off, the physical feelings, which are so different from being inside a pussy or an ass. Not better, not worse, just different, the suck, the tongue action, and deeper down the throat muscles all give their messages to me. Eye contact is just so critical, to focus on each other, the gift that she is giving me, the pleasure I am getting expressed.
Some responses have been about "fucking a mouth", a term I don't care much for, as it sounds as though its the guy getting his rocks off, and mutual enjoyment of the sensual act that fellatio should be seems lacking.
For me the key is the receiving of love from my lover. I enjoy to give as well, but that's when I am returning the oral gift on her. 69 should be wonderful, and its great in the early stages of foreplay, but one of us will lose concentration, and anyway you can't see her eyes.
Some responses have been about "fucking a mouth", a term I don't care much for, as it sounds as though its the guy getting his rocks off, and mutual enjoyment of the sensual act that fellatio should be seems lacking.
For me the key is the receiving of love from my lover. I enjoy to give as well, but that's when I am returning the oral gift on her. 69 should be wonderful, and its great in the early stages of foreplay, but one of us will lose concentration, and anyway you can't see her eyes.
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Quite simply, psychics are all charlatans. No-one can know the future. Some can make guesses and appear to predict, but they never talk about the guesses that turn out wrong. Same about the past and the spirit world. Tosh all of it, no matter how much one might like to believe that it does exist, and I do understand that.
But, do I believe that the mind has hidden powers that we don't yet understand? Yes. Properly supervised scientific studies, especially with identical twins, have shown to a very limited extent that there can be communication. How? What? no-one yet knows. Is it a brain function that has not been trained? Maybe....
Sadly probably not for my lifetime.
Maybe one day the I-psych will replace the I-phone.
But, do I believe that the mind has hidden powers that we don't yet understand? Yes. Properly supervised scientific studies, especially with identical twins, have shown to a very limited extent that there can be communication. How? What? no-one yet knows. Is it a brain function that has not been trained? Maybe....
Sadly probably not for my lifetime.
Maybe one day the I-psych will replace the I-phone.
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I've had lovers of many colours, black, brown, coffee, yellow (don't like that description), and white. I'm a white man, and know that the colour of a lover's skin can be erotic. But at the end of the day, eroticism comes in many packages, and colour is just one very small constituent. Its the woman inside the skin that is the real turn on!
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Quote: Pornography is a defiant act against Jesus and his teachings.
I thought I knew the New Testament pretty well, but there's not mention of pornography at all. There are some things that Jesus specially said we should do - love thy neighbour - and I do, she's pretty tasty!
Poor, poor St. George.
I thought I knew the New Testament pretty well, but there's not mention of pornography at all. There are some things that Jesus specially said we should do - love thy neighbour - and I do, she's pretty tasty!
Poor, poor St. George.
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I do hope that any women who gives a bj is doing it because she enjoys doing it. I've had lovers who say the words but the actions don't support it. Variety is good, for both parties. And while its good to talk about likes and dislikes, it can remind me of the saying "maybe she doth protest too much" if overdone. She'll do it if she's in to it. He'll go down on you if he's in to it. And let's hope both are. 'Cos it can be great. So don't overdo the questions, touch and taste and work it out from reactions. Then maybe you can talk about it all, and take things further.