Quote by Wardog
First, to the lady above me,in my opinion, the only so called "normal" people are all total head cases. In other words, I don't think that there REALLY IS such a thing as 'normal" so you can beat yourself up asking why now? But, I doubt you'll find any answer. Besides, even if you DO find an answer to that question, will it CHANGE what you WANT? No. Not to be "indelicate' here, BUT the answer to how YOU taste seems to me to be one easily answered (if you haven't already, and I'm guessing that If your husband is into oral sex too, you already KNOW! LOL) I don't KNOW but I've been told that every guys cum has an individual taste to it (and the ladies who told me definitely DO KNOW from experience.) As to women, yes; there IS a slight difference in their "aroma" and "flavor' but only a SLIGHT and subtle difference. BTW, while said husband might be tolerant of "explorations without him" initially; at some point he PROBABLY will EXPECT to be included. Otherwise he will in all likelihood feel cheated on (and rightly so. What you SHARE is just that. Shared. What you don't share IS cheating. That's why I wouldn't have a problem with a MFM IF my lady had no problems with FMF and/or FFM, but to exclude me entirely would seem selfish to me.)


As to the OP, not a dumb question; BUT as dpw states, the way you describe yourself does conform to the definition of bisexual. Being bisexual doesn't mean that EVERYONE turns you on, just that certain individuals of both sexes can have that effect on you. I mean, whether you get into guys who LOOK like guys or ladyboys doesn't change anything. If your attracted to both sexes, then yes; you ARE bi. (But, as the old joke goes, you've just doubled your chances of getting a date on Friday night! LOL)

Quote by JohnC
Isn't that what straight cross dressers do anyways? I think sometimes people try to look too deeply into kinks and fetishes. If you have no real desire to remove your male parts, or otherwise physically transform yourself into the other gender, IMO it is simply a fantasy or fetish; role play. To me it is no deeper than wishing you had been a fireman or police man and dressing up as one for sexual role play.