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LadyAnne
23 hours ago
Straight Female, 44
0 miles · Santa Fe

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Quote by Beffer

My boyfriend and I have been together 18 years. He's shared me with other guys (and other girls) since we got together. I don't consider him a cuckold. I consider him generous and confident in my love for him. There's no humiliation involved, and I share him with other women too, and I don't feel humiliated or jealous in the least. There needs to be another term for this besides cuckold.

There is a better term. I learned it about 4 months ago. Stag and Vixen.

I joined the lush mobile chatroom and would see him around, he intrigued me. One day, I worked up the courage to pm him, desperately in lust. And somehow... we just clicked. Somehow our cyber scenes always made me melt and fall a little more. Within weeks we had progressed to sexy and non-sexy phone calls, normal pics and the occasional video chat. It was a whirlwind. For months, we would spend up to 3 hours a day talking. 

1500 miles apart, our real lives and our own caution made us wait 8 months to meet irl. It was well worth it. I never once had even a hint of doubt or anxiety or hesitation during that long weekend. 

We are now over 14 months into this long distance relationship, with several more meetings under our belts and planning the move that will see us living together. 

We still talk every chance we get.. and it just keeps getting better. 

Quote by kistinspencil
People can be quite quirky in their judgments and motivation for them. A while ago now, I had a gentleman who read my micros and always left a very nice laudatory comment. He also only voted them a 4. His perfect right, of course, but I was curious and asked why. "You do quite well at it, my dear, but women are simply incapable of writing excellent erotica." Apparently, my asking was also some sort of proof, as he hasn't commented and voted on a story since. So now I have a nice collection of pieces with a single 4 vote and, since I never get 20 votes on anything, my average remains where it is. Because I am female.
Ugh. Smh. I don't even have the words to describe how outraged and pissed off I would have felt if a guy had given me that answer. That is some truly disgusting shit. 

 I go braless and nude at home. However, when I'm around others I normally wear one just for modesty. If I didnt work in a conservative job, I may have ditched that self imposed rule years ago.

However, if people show up unexpectedly... they get me in a housedress, no bra, no panties.

My first few inches under the pubic bone that leads to the G spot is very sensitive anf rubbing that with a penis head or fingers is just yummy. Yes, you can feel if it hits the cervix...for me, not the best. Its pleasurable, but always a bit painful. As for slow... it can be sweet or a good tease. Hard and deep means his pelvis will slam into mine and that feeling is exquisite. The blurring of so many sensations, is what sends me over the edge.
I must agree with Beffer. If the guy going down on you just wants you to cum so they can move on, it dims the experience. It means that the orgasm you obtain, often isn't as good. Or you just give up, push them away and move onto fucking. Which guys seem to think means that you were so hot, you wanted their cock instead. But what it really means is that you feel pressured so you just give up.

The worst thing is that the guy might not even be pressuring you. Past experience or pressure on ourselves sometimes leads women to feel this way. I read somewhere years ago that some women need stimulation for around 10 minutes before they orgasm. That's a long time for a woman to lay back and have stray thoughts about whether the guy is bored, tired, comfortable, turned on, etc.

The only way for a guy to overcome that is for him to convince the woman that he really wants his head between her legs and that he loves it.

Specific ideas to convince a lady you love it:
1. Sounds simple, but tell her you love eating her out
2. A little edging, lets her know that you aren't in a hurry... And is delightful
3. Don't rush to move from between her legs after she cums. If her clit is too sensitive, focus on other areas. And when I say don't rush, I don't mean wait just a minute.

Some other ideas:
1. Yes, to the kissing that Bria_xo mentioned
2. Kisses, and licks and nibbles to other parts of the body. Not talking about boobs. Neck, side, thigh... The goal is to make her wet, before you touch her pussy.
3. Take your time and as was stated before, pay attention to more than just the clit.
4. Fingers are wonderful
5. Building layers of sensation, adds to the orgasm.