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Kinkynightmares
Over 90 days ago
Female, 49
United States

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Dont take real hot showers, it drys out your skin.

Before you dry off after a shower or bath smooth baby oil all over your body and then dab off with the towel. It keeps your skin smooth and doesnt let it dry out.

Mascara will cause your eyelashes to fall out faster. Top and bottom eyeliner can add to the effect of longer lashes without the harsh effects of mascara. (mascara contains guano.....bat poop for those who dont know)

Always remove your makeup before bed so your skin can rest.

Take days with no makeup at all, let your skin breath!!!

soak your feet in warm water and lavender before bed, rub them down with a lavender oil, put on socks and let your feet rest. It helps keep callouses down and your feet soft.

Will think of more later!
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Saw one, played with it, admired it, fucked half of it and sent him home.

big is fun to play with, fun to lick, suck and touch but its just to big, I am not that deep and do not enjoy hurting after sex because of something to long being shoved to deep.

Big enough for me is when he can fit inside me with his balls pressed to me, fill me with his thickness and hard, balls deep fucking doesnt leave me in massive pain!
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It would be easier to detect than a female faking it even if you were not able to verify visually by the presence of sperm.

Men swell and become thicker when they orgasm. If you are sensitive enough you can detect the difference easily. smile
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Years ago the thought of watching or having anyone watch me masturbate was scary, now its fun, amazing and quite the learning experience.

When you watch you get to learn how they please themselves, see their most sensitive spots, watch how they touch and where because they know what feels good better than anyone (it is their body). Its the great time to learn more about your mate and increase their pleasure when you two are together. Plus its extremely intimate and can bring you closer.
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Sit down with her and the two of you talk and be honest! Share your concerns and listen to her when she tells you why she wants it so bad.
Fantasy's are great when explored together but if even for one moment one of you is unsure it can ruin it for everyone.

If you cannot talk about your fantasy's, explore them in discussion and role play before inviting another in, then the chance is your relationship wont survive it.

All the rules in the world mean nothing when someone hides things from their mate.
I had an open marriage (marriage number two). He had everything he wanted yet I found him cheating on me. By cheating I mean hiding it from me and lying about it even when all he had to do was be honest and I would not have cared.

Also consider the emotional ramifications. There is alot to consider, think, talk, discuss and make sure its right for the two of you, not just one of you.
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whores get paid, sluts just enjoy themselves and express their sexual needs openly!!!

Enjoy, get laid, but first and for most..BE CAREFUL!
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tease me, tempt me, taunt me, work me up real good. Seduce me, make me want you so bad that I soak my seat. Keep it from me until I almost beg then take what you want rough and hard!!!
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Seeing someone look at me with lust in their eyes knowing they cant have me. The desire and look that says "I want to eat you alive" but seeing the slight disappointed look that follows because they could never go through with it just drives me nuts!
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I am a waitress ( i love my job!!) and he is a tattoo artist. We fill our time not at work enjoying life without the stresses of trying to "keep up with the Jones' ".
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write what you know, if you want to write about something you know little about, take the time to research!
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Occasionally just to enjoy watching myself get off. Of course like another said, its hard to pay attention to a mirror when you get off and your eyes roll back in your head.
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This is probably a weird question but me and my mate were discussing it and I would like some opinions.

We are 34 and 35 years old. We do not consider our selves middle aged but do not say we are young either...exactly where do we stand lol.

To me an older gentleman is over 45, but to some younger girls my mate is their idea of an "older gentleman" and I have been called a "cougar" a couple of times by younger men.

So what are we? Or does it just depend on the perspective of who is looking at us?
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Until I found the love of my life (Hide_N_Seek ) I found that my high sex drive tended to put a damper on my relationships because they couldn't keep up or were turned off by my "need".

Hell my ex husband told me I wanted sex to much! How in the world can you want it to much?!
Before marriage number one and between marriages I did notice that guys only wanted me for that and nothing more until they grew tired of me so after ex number two left I turned it around. I found myself treating guys like toys just to get my kicks instead of allowing them to treat me as such.

That all stopped when I met Hide. smile
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I love it!! Especially when its the hottest point of sex, rough, and raw.

When I am with a guy for the first time I tend not to do it but if i have been with someone for a while I encourage and desire it.
to me it heightens the experience.
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I wear a bra because I have large breasts and without one i feel uncomfortable.
I have always had big breasts and unfortunately they have never been the "perky" ones. A proper bra makes them stand up, look luscious (of course they are anyway) and improves my self image. Also a good bra keeps my back from hurting.
There are days that I enjoy "free titting" around the house to let them breath and I never sleep in a bra (there are no benefits from it).

Thats my two cents worth
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Why classify? You are who you are, you like who and what you like and lables do not do anything but put you into a category.

I am me. I like men, I like woman.

I like women because they are soft, to touch their body is fun, to be able to do the things to them I like done to me and see the reactions is wonderful, I think woman (all shapes, colors and sizes) are beautiful.

I like men because they are hard (in more than one sense of the word). They react to everything different than women, they can fulfill desires women cant (not even with toys), men are unique and most of the time need more reassuring about themselves than a woman which gives me lots of pleasure ( i love boosting egos).

Basically, I love the human form. Everyone is different, everyone has so much to offer and everyone can teach you something.

I just consider myself diverse.
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Every situation is different. My first ex husband I would gladly set up with a friend of mine. We didnt divorce because he was a bad husband or bad to me but because neither of us were ready to be married when we were. He is a good man and would be wonderful for the right woman, one who is more conservative like him.
As for my second ex husband, I would never set him up with a friend of mine or even a total stranger. He was and still is a controlling ass and I know his dark side and would not want to subject any woman to that.

I still talk to both ex's, although the second one is only when necessary. My first ex is still a close friend. He has been there for me through bad times, even when my second husband left me for my "best friend". I have listened to him when his girlfriend left him after five years and we talk about alot of different things in our lives.

Look at your ex and see if the reason he is your ex is something that you would want another woman to have to deal with or if it was just something that you and him couldnt work out.

Hope this helps!
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In my experience strong feelings for a past lover tend to hang on and the need to comfort them when they cannot find anyone or appear miserable without you is normal. The problem is you cannot let your caring for their happiness flow over into your current relationship. Your ex may have realized after you were gone that you were the best thing ever in his life, but his chance was used and is gone and you have moved on.
Step back and look at his emotions and words or reactions to you. Is he really that heartbroken or just afraid of being alone, or maybe jealous that you found someone to care for you and he cant? My first ex husband still has not remarried after 11 years and from time to time lets me know he still cares, but, even though i still consider him a close friend, I do not let his emotions or inability to find happiness with another have any bearing on my current relationship.
What is meant to be will be regardless of time or space. My advice is to let your ex know you can only be his friend if he stops trying to hang on to what is gone.
If your current is truly the love of your life then you want to be honest and open and cut all emotional ties with an ex. If you find yourself unable to do so, I suggest stepping back from any relationship until you can find it inside yourself to separate true love and caring from guilt of a love gone wrong.

I mean none of this in a bad or uncaring aspect, only from someone who has been there. I hope it helps.
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Tattoos are a permanent form of personal expression. I have nine, working on two sleeves and a collar (helps that my other half is a tat artist).
Ass isnt to painful, stomach, ribs, top of foot and back of hands are a truly painful bitch to get.
Get what you want, enjoy your ink and i say why not a scorpion on each cheek trying to sting each other!!