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Hayley79
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 45
United Kingdom

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Quote by Nikki703
Cock pics do nothing for me, especially when it is just the pic of an anonymous cock. I don't find them offensive, just not sexy!


My thoughts exactly. I am confused as to why guys think they turn us on. There is nothing odder than a disembodied erect penis. Well, maybe a flaccid one.
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I have never been with a man with a circumcised cock. They look weird and sore to me. Cocks, as someone said above, are not really that important as long as it works and you know what to do with it. They're not massively aethsetically pleasing tbh.
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It's the cut ones that are weird. Why would
you mutilate your penis?
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Her debut story is horny and if that is her in the profile pic she has a sexy body!
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I did today at my desk for the first time
ever. Offices are very quiet at this time of year! I was horny and bored and I just reached under the desk and did it!!

I have in the loos a couple of times before but never been this daring! Still getting my breath back!!
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Sex with another woman has always been my top fantasy and I do occasionally watch such activity - and women masturbating - online. It is probably the only porn I get off to.

Masturbating with another girl is also a favourite. I am almost irrationally turned on by the idea of people masturbating, especially other women.

Or teaching a guy or a girl how to make a woman cum. Using my body as an example.

There's loads more, they were just at the forefront of my mind!
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Depends on circumstances. If I am
home alone I usually do, if my bf is here it is less likely unless we are both involved. Can be about opportunity sometimes as much as feeling horny. When I was single, at least every other day, probably most days tbh, sometimes morning and night.

Hard to put an average on it now, probs two or three times a week but it varies.
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Quote by MdeSade64
Pass, but like to take a boat ride.


Pass
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Quote by Morpheus
I love superman as much as the next guy, but on this occasion pass...


Don't get it? A 'my pants' reference??
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Close call between masturbating (and being masturbated) on trains or shagging up against some bins outside a nightclub with a bloke I had just met. And I did once wank an ex off in a Top Man changing room!
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Agree best left a fantasy. You would not like the reality ... Get her to talk about doing it with someone else maybe but don't try to make it happen. Mutual fantasy is fun, her shagging someone else would be sordid and sad in reality.
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This post has to be a joke or written a century before the Internet existed.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
I have... long term, short term - doesn't matter... sometimes you're horny for a specific person and they invade your thoughts when you're turned on. I say let them into your head, and don't tell the one you're with.

It's not healthy for a relationship if it becomes a chronic habit, though. It also prevents 'intensely connected' sex, which I happen to love. So, I think once in a while it's fine but if I had to constantly rely on fantasies about someone else to get off, then I'd exit the current relationship.


Yes good point. It's not every time by any means. Just sometimes I need that little
something extra to push me over the edge!
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A question mainly aimed at those in long term relationships. When having sex with your partner do you ever imagine it's someone else? I often do and it helps. I have fantasised about other men, including people I have had sex with, and it helps
me get off. It is especially likely to happen when he does me from
behind or goes down on me. Anyone else? He has sometimes encouraged it but is mainly blissfully unaware...of course he may do the same and I don't mind, though I would
probably rather not know.
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Quote by MMonroe


Umm that is not what i said or think at all! Would i really be on this site if i did?!

If you'd read my original post it said that i have and would sleep with a guy on the first date, and dont think that it makes or breaks a relationship. I was just curious to what other people thought


It is how what you said came across? Put out? WTF is that?
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Quote by sessso
I don't think is about how soon you have sex...but on how you act in front of other people. If you act like a slut in front of other people, I will not take you home to my mum.


That's good because we 're not 15. And what is a slut? See if you act like a slut I might not take you home to my cat. It I might. Cats don't really give a shit and I don't know what a slut really is, so nobody would be any the wiser
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Quote by Marcus72
What bull. It's 2012. Who "puts out"?!! Makes it sound like sex is something women reluctantly allow men to do to them, rather than something they both enjoy.


Well said Marcus. The idea of putting out or waiting is sexist crap. Have sex when you want to, first date or 99th, but if it is a question of making the guy wait so he will think you are some sort of 19th century good girl, he is probably a knobhead anyway.

What you say is spot on. It sounds like sex is something only men want and something they do to women, rather than something you both want equally. "Putting out" sounds like schoolyard talk. It depresses me that people still talk like this about sex and still put value judgements on women who want sex. Here's a thing, what if the woman wants to do it on the first date, then doesn't want to have another date? How long should the guy wait before putting out? Sexist claptrap.
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I think masturbating while talking is far enough , I don't know what anyone on here really looks like and I have a boyfriend. Lush is all about fantasy for me.
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I think masturbating while chatting to someone on here while
my boyfriend slept was pretty bad tbh.
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I am with Yvonne. Surprised some people said no. Come on, if you could do it easily, you'd have to give it a try!
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Quote by HotMsAnna
i think pussy is better than cunt. ;)
pussy is a bit rubbish IMO. My vagina is not a cat.
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Never seen a circumcised one but In effect it's cosmetic surgery and cruel to little kids, so I probably prefer normal ones.
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Some of the questions on here are a little sad, but to answer this rather sad one, no.
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I will never post a nude pic of myself here or to a stranger. I don't really know who anyone is. What is worrying is the number of vulnerable under confident women who are sweet talked or flattered into sending pics of themselves to blokes they don't know. They aren't especially excited by you or your body, it is about power. Most blokes will happily get their jollies from any pair of tits or pussy, but women are fooled into thinking it mans something or flattered that he is wanking over her pics. He would wank over any naked female and he can't believe his luck!

I get the thrill of exposing yourself of course and I am friends with people on here who get turned on at seeing their real body being drooled over by strangers but it is so not for me.
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Would never post a real pic of myself on here or anywhere else tbqfh. If I did I would definitely go down the fake route but I wouldn't pretend otherwise. I do not want people to know I use this site and who knows who is out there! Plus I'm not all that tbh, you are better off with the fantasy Hayley!
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1. No. We both fantasise about me doing it with another woman and he has mentioned other men, but though I do fantasise about other men, in front of him would be a no no!
2. No.
3. No.