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GunGirlJess
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
United States

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This video represents the technique that I've used when making girls squirt: redtube.com

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That's the video my ex used to learn how to do it to me. The way this guy does it, doesn't work for everyone. Some of us like just the curling fingers and extreme pressure on the spot, back and forth--that's what works for me. The chick in this video annoys the crap out of me and by no means should you expect this kind of result! Pumpkin seeds and ginger, screw that it's not the food you eat it's the technique!!
Once you learn how to do it, you'll always do it, often whether you want to or not. It's like flipping a switch. Once your guy figures out what works for you it's on. It happens for me in missionary, girl on top, and with just fingers---every time with fingers but randomly during intercourse. Your mileage may vary smile
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I'm with someone now who talks FILTHY dirty to me and it's almost too delicious! He can start in and BAM I'm there 100x harder. it's like an eargasm on top of everything else.
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If it's for an occasion yes. The hard thing for me is to find mascara that doesn't run during a good blowjob session ;) I don't care what brnad, I have long eyelashes and always get fallout. Ugh. Do not like the Courtney Love look
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Quote by oldduffer32
How do you stop a woman giving you a blow job? MARRY HER!===
(quote) I hear this all day long, and don't understand that at all. I'd think nothing is better than a blowjob from the person who knows best how to get you off! it seems like bait and switch for a partner to do something before they marry you and then stop when they have you
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Quote by B0swell0x
The gynaecology text books will tell you that those bits are highly adaptive.
I must say I have never been entirely convinced by that. Stands to reason if there is a lot of variety in what goes there, then probably it will be the bigger end that is memorable. However, think about it though, it is designed to let a baby's head come out, and some people like to put a fist in there.
So there is a grain of truth in it.
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(quote) I've had a baby and if you didn't know it, you would never know it by how it feels ;) So they are very, very adaptable. Plus, exercising kegels probably makes a difference. There will never ever be a fist in there though I can assure you, I'm not even ok with more than one digit at a time.
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Quote by candyflossbaby
The word squirt doesn't really describe it well, it's not like squeezing a sport bottle and the liquid comes roaring out. As others have said 'gush' sounds more accurate.
I haven't been able to do it alone or with just sex alone, it's always been the unique way my boyfriend uses his hands on me that does it. First time was a shock as the sheets and mattress get virtually ruined, and if I've been laying down during it I feel the dampness on my legs and up my back by the time we're done.
As for how often.. I've learned how to control it to an extent, providing my guy is doing what he does best to me of course. If he wants me to do it I can force more of it and if I'm not wanting to strip the bed right away I can (struggle) to hold off if he carries on with me.
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I finally gave up and bought a waterproof mattress pad when we got a new mattress. Sometimes even a towel wasn't holding it back and I grew tired of worrying about ruining yet another mattress LOL
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My only problem with this photo is that I know what weights/types of oil are for what, and I even know how to change my own. So in that regard I'm probably better qualified to pick oil than a man is to pick tampons. I don't know any men who say they can change their own tampons....
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Yes after a 3way, she and I washed up together. Soapy slippery curvy body felt so different than soapy man, and I loved it. We ended up running the tank out of hot water.
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Yes, I have done it. Especially if they flirt first, and I know they are ok with it...or rather, MORE than ok with it. I appreciate a woman's sensuality as much as the next person ;)
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Yes, I have done it. Especially if they flirt first, and I know they are ok with it...or rather, MORE than ok with it. I appreciate a woman's sensuality as much as the next person ;)
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Quote by Andrew00
Girls what "special" move do you use or perform when you want your partner to orgasm?
I guess everyone knows or use so e tricks to' make tris faster and easier!
And what about yourself?
--(quote) If it's a blowjob, 'twisty hand/hands" will do him in every time.
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She won't put out for you for a year but she banged him like an old screen door?? Whatttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt????

But seriously.....it's been my experience once they cheat on you that's it. No matter what you tell yourself or THEY tell you. That damage can't ever be repaired.
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If you post on Craigslist please don't post a picture of your dick that you took standing over a dirty toilet..... ;)
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Guy was fabulous kisser but had chew in his mouth during one smooch, wintergreen---little pieces got into my mouth---it was so gross. (I didn't know what chew was) I was 16 and still remember it every time I clean the toilet with a wintergreen-smelling cleaner! Close second was my first boyfriend kissing me after he'd smoked and toked and drank some beer, !!!! gag !!! like kissing a burning Hefty bag of fermented lawn clippings!
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Quote by bustyreadhead
no. i can't imaging seeing a guy on craigslist that was so hot i want to have sex with him that would end up being the actual guy in the pic he posted.
===(quote) I'm guilty of sharing CL ads because they are so HORRIBLE......I can't imagine any of those guys get laid???
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A bitch is someone who won't fuck you.
A slut is someone who will fuck everyone BUT you ;)
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I know it's no help, but whether it's breakup #1 or many breakups later, it can still hurt as deeply the last time as the first time. If she's less invested, maybe that's the explanation. Or maybe she can turn things off differently than you.

It doesn't seem like it right now but it gets easier to look at it in the rearview mirror over time. You may never truly erase those feelings, or you may completely move on. The day will come when the thought of her doesn't twist your guts into a painful mound of agony. And someday you might even be able to see her and have a sigh of relief, instead a twinge of regret. You may be able to think the word 'bitch' instead of screaming it out loud into her face. Progress!

One thing I recently learned to embrace is that you should never let feelings of regret work their way into your heart. You don't want to be 20 years down the road holding onto things with a coulda/woulda/shoulda. (I know this from painful experience!) Maybe someday you'll get a chance to see this chick again and find out what went wrong, but probably not. In the meantime---who cares why? It is, and she's moved on with whatever that means to her.
You need to work on YOU. You can't control how she feels or what she does. Phuck her. Fix yourself for the next person coming along. They don't deserve damage, and neither do you.

Every time someone breaks us down, we have a chance to rebuild ourselves into something stronger. NEVER let someone else break you for good.
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I've seen smaller, and huge.
No difference in volume or anything, just that some are smaller, and some are like OMG you have luggage down there

I prefer smaller though. I like to put the whole thing in my mouth and yeah, I can't unhinge my jaw like a snake eating a mouse, sorry. ;)
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The only thing that fixes pain that deep, is time. And, distance. Eventually you find yourself wallowing and dwelling on it less and less, until a scab has formed on the wound and it's easier to take.

The best advice I ever received though, still rings true. "Never give up on someone that you think of every day".
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I guess it depends on him. If he's curved (and I've had one like a banana) that kind of limits my angles. In that case kneeling beside him (away from him) means no teeth dragging.

Straight? SKy's the limit! My favorite is to kneel in front of him, he can be standing or sitting. Him standing means I can run my hands everywhere that turns me on while I blow him.
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Quote by LaneyHearn77


Couldn't say it much better myself. I swear you can read my mind. Even if I am all worn out from previous sessions my vagina has a very short term memory. As soon as she's turned on she's ready to go again.
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(quote) Short term memory!!!!!!!!!!! I just laughed and laughed at this, but it's so true!!! Unless I'm sore it's the same way here. My girl has Alzheimer's.........;)
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Age is just a number when you find the right person. What counts is that you have things in common that set the groundwork for a great friendship first. The rest will work itself out. If you have a good foundation, everything else is secondary. Good luck, and I like the advice to let HER decide if your age difference matters to her. And, if you get together and find you don't have much in common, YOU can decide as well. I hope this works out for you.