I'm a straight college aged male, and my girlfriend is spending a semester abroad. We agreed to an open relationship where either of us could date or hook up with other people as long as we didn't start anything serious or become physically intimate with the same person more than once. I was hoping to take advantage of this (and maybe even learn a thing or two to show my gf when she returns), but have in the past never done anything with anyone I wasn't in a committed relationship with.
Do you kind folks have suggestions for how to go about finding and hooking up with someone? Looking for hookups at a party doesn't appeal to me, as I'm not very good at telling when a girl has been drinking. I also don't want to accidentally make anyone too uncomfortable, or otherwise decrease my classiness. Additionally, I don't want to accidentally give anyone the impression I'm looking for something long term. Finally, since I'm new to this and relatively inexperienced, I may want to "go pretty far but not all the way" to start, and I want to make sure this can go over well.
Oh, it's also worth mentioning I'm under 21 and thus can't go to bars and the like.
Thank you for your input!
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