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GentWithHandcuffs
1 week ago
Pan Male, 31
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Oh yea, i definitely love going down on a girl. I would even say it's an addiction. There's nothing better than the sweet reward of doing a good job
Quote by JasonM
Shylass hit it dead center - it's not being published that matters, it's writing.

Even if you never share it with ANYONE, you're still a writer.

couldn't have said this better myself
Well you have a good number of options, you could take a week off that story and/or write another to take it off your mind. Then after you can go back to it and if you still don't like it well do what you wish
A good way to construct a good convo is to actually make it seem realistic. Be sure to include emotion where it is critical. It helps the reader feel it better rather than it being all stale and robotic
Hmmm, i was wondering that too. I think it is because is like the hottest genre on here. Probably because something so is extremely enticing
Quote by AriOli101
Agree.

You learn from the experience, the mistakes and the successes.

You learn who you really are and what you want from life.

It's hard, but it's worth it


i definitely agree
Quote by redhot363236
I've spent the last forty years with a control freak ...
Does that count?


noooo, i dont think that counts, it has to be enjoyed as well lol
Quote by sprite
i've written chapters as part of a larger story where no one cums... doesn't mean there's not lots of sex, but it doesn't lead to orgasm (mostly bdsm styled stories). really, sometimes it's all about the sexual tension as well as a well crafted, sensual, erotic story...

that all said, i prefer to everyone in the story, no matter how many or how few enjoying ultimate pleasure. i like happy endings. smile


I definitely agree, i think the tension is what sells a story
A friend of mine said that people loved her story, but the only downside they saw was that "the guy didn't shoot his load" This confused me since i thought it only mattered if the girl came. So which is the important one to you?
Hmmmm, never really thought about it too much. But I think if would be really cool to get a few of my stories in the "Editors' Picks" section
Quote by pdavis
now that is just wrong


Wow, I agree, there is no justifying that at the family reunion
Pro- unpredictable at times
Con-shy and sometimes doesn't give myself credit for stuff (except my style of seduction and tongue tricks ;-) )
Hmmm, i just calm myself by putting my mind on something else or rocking out to some awesome music
Lol, no way! I got penguin, fits me perfectly.


Now you see it, now you don't. Aggressive yet gentle, outgoing but shy, stable yet flighty - everyone sees the penguin in a different way. It's that black and white thing: the penguin only reveals the side that it wants to you to see. So whether you like this darling-devil or not, you have to concede that it's a fascinating and enigmatic individual.

Penguins are birds condemned to live out their days on the ground. Unable to fly, their excess energy has no outlet save their creative talents and emotional outbursts. Penguins are poetic, artistic, and intellectually gifted, and as writers penguins have no equal.

But, if unable to channel their impulses in a positive way, the resulting turmoil proves damaging to their relationships and careers.

Penguins are deceptively intelligent and are particularly animated when intellectually challenged. They excel at word games and puzzles but are modest about their abilities and are generally underestimated by others.

With their misunderstood personality, penguins find writing an ideal tool for expressing their true feelings. They have a natural aptitude for languages and penguin personalities dominate the world of publishing as writers, editors, and journalists.

With a natural aptitude for languages, penguin personalities dominate the world of publishing as writers, editors and journalists. A strong sense of drama draws them to the theater and cinema, although unlike typical bird personalities they avoid the spotlight unless they're able to hide behind the characters they play. Once on stage however, they prove to be excellent performers with their multifaceted personalities conveying the full gamut of emotions.

However, a lack of confidence affects their work. Penguins tend to give up on tasks they were otherwise capable of and are often disappointed with their performance. Still, work never dominates their life and they always put their family first.
Found one of my dad's porn mags and read this hot 'mom seducing daughter's boyfriend' story and once i found out there were more online there was no turning back
I came up with this one game called Silent Bite. It's a 2-player game where each player takes turns biting each other in some kinda way. The first to moan out loud loses and must give the winner oral sex until he/she cums. (Hopefully that game doesn't exist under another name)
Quote by CertifiedHeat
Do you get aroused physically when you write sex scenes? Is it possible to avoid albeit the writer having a high sex drive? Is it necessary? Have you ever wrote an extremely dirty, fantastical story of yours where you didn't get physically aroused?


I get aroused definitely, sometimes i find it a tad bit difficult to focus when my mind lingers on every detail of the scene like it's happening in front of me. You dont need a high sex drive, just a sexy imagination. There hasnt been a time i didnt get aroused
Awesome, thank you everyone for your advice. Trinket i already have a few ideas in mind, it may be my next story. And stelmaria i'm sure we will. :-)
No It's not that eating pussy is all that i want to do, that wasnt the issue. I just focus on pleasing her that's all (in whatever way she wants). I like it whenever and however she likes it, I understand it should be mutual i no problem with that. I meant it more as my intentions were to please her, and dont really focus on what pleases me (because I get my pleasure from her getting hers). Does this clarify things a little?
To be frank, I'm addicted to cunnilingus. Can't help it lol. And that molded into me getting my pleasure from her getting hers. I talked with some of my female friends and it seems that for some reason, that isn't good enough. Now from all the talk i hear from girls around my age and older and stuff, it seems that ALL they want is to be pleasured without doing any work.

So when I present that opportunity, suddenly it's a bad thing? Why is that?
I personally just completely relax and lay flat until the feeling passes a few seconds later. Lol, my girlfriend HATES IT