I just do not do that kind of thing. But I am sure it has happened to all of us girls from time to time.
Seem to have these events are more often when I have been freshly waxed and forgot to wear panties for the day.
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If I am just about to climb the walls with need ( you girls know what I mean) I attach my clitoris this second. But if I have a leisure morning I assuredly will have something inside me, be it fingers, dildo or my favorite vibrating toy.
I do not really understand why any girl would do anything else.
I do not really understand why any girl would do anything else.
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Quote by 1nympholes
My first thought was why on earth would I want to be a man for even a day. Being a woman has given me just about every thing my heart could desire.
But as Double DD said it you me great to feel what a man feels when he ejaculates.
Ok I am in for being a man for a day.
But you promise one day and only one day. OK
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Quote by TheAngryishLover
So the reason you sleep with other men IS because your husband can't provide these things to you? I think you've just kinda countered your own argument of 'inadequacy'
My 'special love' died. In her final months, she could not provide sex to me and yet I still had no thoughts or desires to get that from somewhere else. So yes, we do see it differently and I started my post by saying 'each to their own'. What I actually disagreed with you on is your stance that fidelity is a weakness, and it's a disagreement that I will stand by
I was sleeping with other men when I first met my husband and have continued to do so. My sexual activity was something he knew about from day one.
Somehow, Angry I doubt if I used my last breath to explain you would never open your eyes to the beauty of sex between people that may be married but not to each other.
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Quote by TheAngryishLover
I've been reading a lot of the comments here and, although I can't agree with many of these posts, I have to say that I take a particular stance of disagreement with this one
Each to their own, is my motto- and if you are and your partner have a relationship in which you are both comfortable in remaining together whilst sleeping with other people, then although it's not something that I would entertain in my relationships (nor the females that I have been with), I wouldn't look at you badly for your actions.
However, to suggest that if a 'significant other is not strong enough to....(etc)', more than implies that you view fidelity as a weakness?
I am one of those people that can't separate 'the pleasure of sex from the emotional love of a mate'- more than that, I'm someone who strongly believes that the 'emotional love of a mate' enhances the aforementioned 'pleasure of sex'. With my girlfriend, whom I loved so very much, I found it my duty to support and make her as happy as I can on both an emotional and physical basis. Now considering that I refuse to believe that any human has ever willingly chosen to have sex (apart from cases of prostitution or , before anyone tries go get smart) without some sort of emotional attachment, even if just fleeting (I am assuming you haven't slept with someone you dislike, just because they have a big penis?) then I would find their infidelity to be both a physical and emotional one too.
Even if she had sought the comfort in others, feeling unable to confide in me, then I would have felt terrible even if no physical act had taken place.
Although I have always been faithful, at least sexually, to my girlfriends- she was the first one in which I felt I was completely faithful. I had no sexual thoughts about other women, as I had all my sexual fantasise and desires fulfilled and, for the first time ever, had a 100% complete emotional attachment with her also- and that was the first time that I had experienced such a complete togetherness with another person.
But I think this unbreakable bond we had was a strength, not a weakness, and rebuke any suggestion of the contrary.
Angry you see as you see it and I see differently. If you truly love another person and want the best available for her/him, why would you reject the pleasure that could come from enjoying another person's company and sexuality?
Do you think your special love will walk away from you and go with another? Sounds very much like a feeling of inadequacy to me.
My husband is much older than I am and in very poor health and knows only death will ever part us. This will always be true no matter how many partners I encounter.
He has offered me a divorce time and again along with the money I will need to live out my life comfortably.
That is never going to happen!
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
I did, once (well, it was over the course of a week, while by BF was out of town). I did break up with my BF when he returned though. During our post-break-up chat, I found out was actually planning to propose. Sadly, I was totally into the other guy (turned into a major relationship, major asshole, many years wasted with him).
I also had a BF get pretty angry when he found out that I'd made out with a couple of girls while drunk at various clubs. I don't really feel like that's cheating, but I get that some people do.
If your Significant Other is not strong enough to separate the act of sexual pleasure from the emotional relationship you share. Then it is almost certain that any contact sexual or emotional with a third party will flare the Fire of Inadequacy.
Such a Shame we humans are unable to separate the pleasure of sex from the emotional love of a mate.
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Some of you say weeks, some of you say months and even worse some of you say years. How do you keep from going completely Insane?
Me Friday Afternoon. Guys I met in at Hotel Bar and there was more than one of them also.
Do not have a clue what any of their names were. But I felt wonderful the entire weekend.
Me Friday Afternoon. Guys I met in at Hotel Bar and there was more than one of them also.
Do not have a clue what any of their names were. But I felt wonderful the entire weekend.
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Oh Chocolate, but like with most recreational drugs, if you have too much happiness it shows on your Butt for the next week.
An then there is Expensive Fuck Me Shoes. How can you be a Whore without the Proper Shoes?
An then there is Expensive Fuck Me Shoes. How can you be a Whore without the Proper Shoes?
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I have been propositioned on dating sites and in bars/clubs by men to let them pay me for sex and I haven't turned very many guys away. A couple of hundred dollars is fine, more if they want anal sex. I don't necessarily need the money but it is something that I find very and fun. I don't consider it prostitution.
Amber that is exactly what Prostitution is. But what is wrong with that. Sex always has a financial component to the relationship. But, Honey at $200 you are being seriously underpaid.
Yes, I am an Escort and it has provided me with great experiences and opportunities.
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I have two rules that must be adhered to:
1. You need some kind of Avatar that is not all Red and you profile must tell ladies something about you and your interests.
2. If you want a response from most more mature woman, you had better have read her profile and applied her requests. You my find many are too restrictive or demanding and then why should you waste your time with her anyway.
If you are very new to Lush I may write back and welcome you to the fun. Explaining the two items above. Some guys get very upset.maEPGdKgcWwplQm5
If you have 667 friends already, you appear to be just a collect and have no interest in getting to know a woman.
If you do not conform a lot of the time you will be sent directly to the Trash Heap!!
1. You need some kind of Avatar that is not all Red and you profile must tell ladies something about you and your interests.
2. If you want a response from most more mature woman, you had better have read her profile and applied her requests. You my find many are too restrictive or demanding and then why should you waste your time with her anyway.
If you are very new to Lush I may write back and welcome you to the fun. Explaining the two items above. Some guys get very upset.maEPGdKgcWwplQm5
If you have 667 friends already, you appear to be just a collect and have no interest in getting to know a woman.
If you do not conform a lot of the time you will be sent directly to the Trash Heap!!
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I guess, I am guilty of the unthinkable by my Lush Sisters.
I am in an Economics Class in College we clashed on every subject. We were One and Two in this class. Or maybe it was Two and One.
This day it was a especially vitriolic clash. In those days you still went to the Library to Study and do Research. Mr. Jerk came in and sat down right across the table from me. My first thought was to leave, but Damn I was hear first. He started again and after about 10 minutes we were both exhausted of new arguments.
I went into the stacks to find something and he followed. When he reached out and touched me it was like a shot of fire through our bodies. I threw my arms around him and we kissed like I had never been kissed before. We could not get out of there fast enough.
I remember we did not get home before we were stark naked and getting his beautiful cock in me. We went to his place and Fucked until Sunrise.
At the next meeting of the class we clashed again just like nothing had ever happened between us that night.
No, No, No we never came close again.
Now that you bring it up I still think I hate him just a bit.
I am in an Economics Class in College we clashed on every subject. We were One and Two in this class. Or maybe it was Two and One.
This day it was a especially vitriolic clash. In those days you still went to the Library to Study and do Research. Mr. Jerk came in and sat down right across the table from me. My first thought was to leave, but Damn I was hear first. He started again and after about 10 minutes we were both exhausted of new arguments.
I went into the stacks to find something and he followed. When he reached out and touched me it was like a shot of fire through our bodies. I threw my arms around him and we kissed like I had never been kissed before. We could not get out of there fast enough.
I remember we did not get home before we were stark naked and getting his beautiful cock in me. We went to his place and Fucked until Sunrise.
At the next meeting of the class we clashed again just like nothing had ever happened between us that night.
No, No, No we never came close again.
Now that you bring it up I still think I hate him just a bit.
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I am sure most of us including me want to be respected and treated like we have a brain and are capable of making a reasonable decision.
But there are times that I need to be taken and used and abuse too. There are times, I need what I was created for.
But there are times that I need to be taken and used and abuse too. There are times, I need what I was created for.
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As an Escort I have experienced most everything including Bukakke.
It was fun because you know how I love cum. So you want to know how many guys took part??
Not really sure, it was one of those events that some guys seemed to be arriving late and others leaving early.
Since I seem to have cum just about everywhere there must have been more than a dozen that ejaculated on me.
You know face, hair, tits, tummy, pubis, thighs, just about covered.
Maybe more. It was fine and I would do it again, but I would not go seeking this game, either
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It was fun because you know how I love cum. So you want to know how many guys took part??
Not really sure, it was one of those events that some guys seemed to be arriving late and others leaving early.
Since I seem to have cum just about everywhere there must have been more than a dozen that ejaculated on me.
You know face, hair, tits, tummy, pubis, thighs, just about covered.
Maybe more. It was fine and I would do it again, but I would not go seeking this game, either
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I still have not met a man who did not like oral sex. If it feels anywhere nearly as good for men as receiving oral sex is for a woman. I just can't believe it. Plus I have been with a lot of men, so my experience should count for something.
Could it be possible that it is buried deep in these men Psyche. That sex is Sinful except for procreation. If this is possible then Oral Sex must be too Sinful to even mention.
There are report that young people both male and female are indoctrinated with this kind of message.
What do other Members think?
Could it be possible that it is buried deep in these men Psyche. That sex is Sinful except for procreation. If this is possible then Oral Sex must be too Sinful to even mention.
There are report that young people both male and female are indoctrinated with this kind of message.
What do other Members think?
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If it is just casual sex with a guy I just met. Why I care if he stayed or not.
In fact if he has done what I needed, I would prefer that he leaves.
Why would I want to wake up in the morning with a total stranger in my bed.
In fact if he has done what I needed, I would prefer that he leaves.
Why would I want to wake up in the morning with a total stranger in my bed.
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Being fairly new to Lush this question must have been discussed before but I could not find it.
I ran into a friend a few days ago, that we used to put on Sex Parties for a wide group of guys in our teen years. We went different ways and had not seen each other for more than 10 years.
She came to the house and with the wine flowing we shared our stories. She was not surprised that I became an Escort and the I still have a few clients.
My friend could not believe I fell in love with a client and he with me. You know he is much older than I am and not in good health.
She is sure that this relationship is very uncommon. Not sure she was convinced.
Lush Sisters that have been Call Girls or Escorts for an extended period of time did you ever fall in love with a client or did a client ever falling love with you?
If it ended in marriage that would be interesting.
I am going to post it also in the guys section also.
I ran into a friend a few days ago, that we used to put on Sex Parties for a wide group of guys in our teen years. We went different ways and had not seen each other for more than 10 years.
She came to the house and with the wine flowing we shared our stories. She was not surprised that I became an Escort and the I still have a few clients.
My friend could not believe I fell in love with a client and he with me. You know he is much older than I am and not in good health.
She is sure that this relationship is very uncommon. Not sure she was convinced.
Lush Sisters that have been Call Girls or Escorts for an extended period of time did you ever fall in love with a client or did a client ever falling love with you?
If it ended in marriage that would be interesting.
I am going to post it also in the guys section also.
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From my POV I can not understand why a woman would not just Love Anal Sex.
I know I do. But it does take some practice and in the first few times with someone who will be gentle and give you all the time you need.
Then OMG
I know I do. But it does take some practice and in the first few times with someone who will be gentle and give you all the time you need.
Then OMG
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Jealousy is not part of my makeup.
Now that does not mean I would not make myself available to some hot guy that was already taken.
You never know, he may make different choices another day.
Now that does not mean I would not make myself available to some hot guy that was already taken.
You never know, he may make different choices another day.
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Quote by simplyjohn
On that basis why should we even buy a drink! .. 'Hello fancy hot and wild sex' sounds good to me .. free .. right up my street.
Sorry Brad .. rather off topic .. I actually googled things like 'name for pickup bar' etc etc and got nothing sensible back. Perhaps Steph's idea of just using a name for an establishment, which clearly from the name is a pick up environment, is a good idea.
Sorry kids was I ever off base.
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If she is dressed for attention and seems to be alone, not waiting for her Boyfriend or Husband.
To just approach her and say " Hi my name is Alex or Marc or Trent or any other name that applies, I thought I would come over and just say Hi, since you seem to be alone."
That works better than any clever pick up line I ever heard and I think I have heard them all.
Really guys it works. Because we are there for the same thing as you are.
To just approach her and say " Hi my name is Alex or Marc or Trent or any other name that applies, I thought I would come over and just say Hi, since you seem to be alone."
That works better than any clever pick up line I ever heard and I think I have heard them all.
Really guys it works. Because we are there for the same thing as you are.
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No I would never Sell myself. But I have Rented myself out for the evening and had great fun.
I have even been leased for more extended periods. Sometimes a weekend or maybe even a week or more.
I never understand why women seem to think it is OK to give themselves to men for a period of time, but it is
disgusting to be paid for the same services.
As an Escort I have met some rich, powerful and interesting men and women.
I am married to an older man and yes he knows of my history, in fact he was a client at one time.
I would not have missed this experience for anything.
I have even been leased for more extended periods. Sometimes a weekend or maybe even a week or more.
I never understand why women seem to think it is OK to give themselves to men for a period of time, but it is
disgusting to be paid for the same services.
As an Escort I have met some rich, powerful and interesting men and women.
I am married to an older man and yes he knows of my history, in fact he was a client at one time.
I would not have missed this experience for anything.
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During the early years of our marriage, my husband would like to arrange for men to come to the house and see just what would happen. He observed from another room so the guy or guys knew never they were being observed.
I did meet a couple who was seeking another girl for the Threesome. It started like Meggsy, just sex between the three of us. It was agreed that it was not a relationship, but over time it developed in to much more than that. It was a really relationship. With real emotions and real feelings. After I was married my husband watched us a number of time.
I did see him as an individual for an afternoon many times. It was great being with them as a couple but so was it with meeting him for an afternoon. I never knew if the wife knew about those afternoon visits or not and I never asked.
I guess everyone plays this game of sex in their own way
I did meet a couple who was seeking another girl for the Threesome. It started like Meggsy, just sex between the three of us. It was agreed that it was not a relationship, but over time it developed in to much more than that. It was a really relationship. With real emotions and real feelings. After I was married my husband watched us a number of time.
I did see him as an individual for an afternoon many times. It was great being with them as a couple but so was it with meeting him for an afternoon. I never knew if the wife knew about those afternoon visits or not and I never asked.
I guess everyone plays this game of sex in their own way
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Not daily, but rather often.
Then there are days I really get into it and before I know it the entire morning is gone.
Then there are days I really get into it and before I know it the entire morning is gone.
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Quote by 1nympholes
Sex of course, love take a long time. But sex can be just for tonight and maybe not that long.
Is love really necessary before we can have sex?
Strange way to live.
Without a doubt sex comes first! I can not image thinking the three little words "I love You" would have any meaning from a person you had not had sex with.
Sex and Love are not tied together by any means but Good Sex is a Wonderful Basis for Meaningful Love.
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Quote by JC72
Too much self respect to allow myself to stay....
JC it is only sex, it is not like she does not love you anymore.
Nor does it necessarily mean she wants to trade you off for another guy.
Since this is the 21 Century and unwanted Pregnancy is not that common, we should be able to separate sex and love.
Shouldn't we?
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My husband is much older than I am and his health precludes us having sex.
I was an Escort and he was a client when I met him. So he knows me pretty well.
I liked the money, but just loved the sex. You see I have cheated on him since the earliest days of our marriage.
There have been times that I tried to tell him about it and he refused to hear so now I just keep my mouth shut.
I do not make a great effort to hide my activities, so he must know.
None the less, he still treats me like I am the Sun Rising in the East.
I was an Escort and he was a client when I met him. So he knows me pretty well.
I liked the money, but just loved the sex. You see I have cheated on him since the earliest days of our marriage.
There have been times that I tried to tell him about it and he refused to hear so now I just keep my mouth shut.
I do not make a great effort to hide my activities, so he must know.
None the less, he still treats me like I am the Sun Rising in the East.
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Lots of risk on this horizon. Many couples have found themselves in this position.
Few, that I have know have handled it well. Unless you stop it immediately both marriages could be in danger.
But, if you must continue, down this path there must be a frank and complete discussions between both couples.
Who knows you may have new swap partners.
Yes, you may but it is much more likely that will not be the case. DARN
Few, that I have know have handled it well. Unless you stop it immediately both marriages could be in danger.
But, if you must continue, down this path there must be a frank and complete discussions between both couples.
Who knows you may have new swap partners.
Yes, you may but it is much more likely that will not be the case. DARN
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I have always had sex with a lot of random people but may not so frequently now.
I know there are risks, but the benefit of pleasure without have to be uncomfortable with him is great.
Rarely, do I stay until morning.
I know there are risks, but the benefit of pleasure without have to be uncomfortable with him is great.
Rarely, do I stay until morning.
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First shaved bare then waxed.
Now I have been Lasered and seems just as smooth as it did last year when it was done.
Yes kids guys do go down more on a bare pussy!
Now I have been Lasered and seems just as smooth as it did last year when it was done.
Yes kids guys do go down more on a bare pussy!