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Ive recently heard a couple friends go on about how their "other" is so shit and not treating them well etc
yet they continue to surprise me by staying with them and taking more abuse (please note when I say 'abuse', I dont mean in the physical aspect)
I see people continue their ways and their torment.... for WHAT ?? the possibility of change??
you'd be surprised at how many people stay in relationships and take more the the physical kind of abuse as well. the reasons are varied - sometimes they feel trapped, often their are self esteem issues, often the emotional ties are so strong that they find it hard to break them - it's possible, btw, to love someone so much that you'll weather the abuse, or look past it, and how many of us think that we can, given time, fix the abuser, be the one who breaks the pattern that he's developed, cure him/her? having been in a classic situation of a physically abusive relationship, i KNOW how easy it is to stay with a person, despite how bad it gets - it's often delusional, but then, we a delusional species.
Yes we are a delusional race! Why because instead of take the bad and moving on we continue to do the same thing over and over again. (Excuse and angry tone) but do we do what's right ? No! We do what feels easier and what's easy to explain. Makes me furious because I'm powerless to help or do anything other than watch.
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I get that's it a scary if not daunting feeling of being single to start again. That is a bit of a frightening experiencen to those who are in something for sometime. But that is no reason to punish and abuse yourself worth by someone else. To receive emotional and physical abuse is not worth it in my opinion. I'd rather say take that step and starting again, than have your spirit broken and be unhappy. Not saying to you bdsm'ers this not something you should do. No those of whom are subjected to someone elses abuse need to wake up and stop it. Makes no sense to me why people justify it. (Excuse the emotional involvement here)
I'm just a single guy what do it know.
I'm just a single guy what do it know.
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Ive recently heard a couple friends go on about how their "other" is so shit and not treating them well etc
yet they continue to surprise me by staying with them and taking more abuse (please note when I say 'abuse', I dont mean in the physical aspect)
I see people continue their ways and their torment.... for WHAT ?? the possibility of change??
yet they continue to surprise me by staying with them and taking more abuse (please note when I say 'abuse', I dont mean in the physical aspect)
I see people continue their ways and their torment.... for WHAT ?? the possibility of change??
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Well to answer amber's first query, I personally havent cum from a blowjob. Make no mistake though I loved every second of every one I have ever gotten!
Points to note:
The girl needs to enjoy it! Not be made to just give it, she needs to enjoy the sensation of pleasing me. Know she has ultimate power over me for that time.
She needs to feel the rush of having my cock in her mouth and her tongue sliding up the shaft.
My helmet is hyper sensitve but I've notice that if she sucks slowly it feels right.
I like the girl enjoying and want her to. I feel better and more aroused knowing the girl is so into that she knows that I'm enjoying her mouth. Having her look at me and keep eye contact makes it even better!!!! Let her talk how she likes it and how she likes how she makes me her.
This is a mutual thing. If a girl doesn't want to give it then I won't force, but it won't stop me from pleasure. Hehe even if I can cum . I will make her ! I enjoy going down on a girl, so if the blowjob is given ill return the favour with enthusiasm!!
Points to note:
The girl needs to enjoy it! Not be made to just give it, she needs to enjoy the sensation of pleasing me. Know she has ultimate power over me for that time.
She needs to feel the rush of having my cock in her mouth and her tongue sliding up the shaft.
My helmet is hyper sensitve but I've notice that if she sucks slowly it feels right.
I like the girl enjoying and want her to. I feel better and more aroused knowing the girl is so into that she knows that I'm enjoying her mouth. Having her look at me and keep eye contact makes it even better!!!! Let her talk how she likes it and how she likes how she makes me her.
This is a mutual thing. If a girl doesn't want to give it then I won't force, but it won't stop me from pleasure. Hehe even if I can cum . I will make her ! I enjoy going down on a girl, so if the blowjob is given ill return the favour with enthusiasm!!
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Catnip that's a very honest and I appreciate it. I'm not judging or condeming, if he means that much then things worked out. If the relationship was open and both sides knew about the otheres doings, would that be accepted if the main couple wanted to stay together?
Dontholien you more forgiving than me I guess. But its not a bad thing. U just willing to trust more, trust lose with me is a serious problem. It takes a lot to gain it back.
My thing is that from what i hear in my little associations, comparing it to my thoughts... Its unsettling to see how people get hurt so much. Maybe its just my experience lol. If didn't feel for the girl I'd tell, rather truth that hurts than a lie that hurts even worse.
Dontholien you more forgiving than me I guess. But its not a bad thing. U just willing to trust more, trust lose with me is a serious problem. It takes a lot to gain it back.
My thing is that from what i hear in my little associations, comparing it to my thoughts... Its unsettling to see how people get hurt so much. Maybe its just my experience lol. If didn't feel for the girl I'd tell, rather truth that hurts than a lie that hurts even worse.
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Fair enough, but I don't like being used and burned.communicate, talk make an effort to atleast be honest.
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I agree with you, if not for personal pride but for my own mental stability loi. Its true tho, ending up stooping down to them is as bad and pointless. Makes you cheap and makes whatever you believed in pointless. Now don't get me wrong , I'm the least likely to be a relationship type. I'd prefer to play the field and live casual. But if committed ( and yes I can mean mentally ahaha love can be insane) then I'm loyal to that girl. If she decides that cheating on me is in the cards, then that bridge is history.
I don't trust cheaters and I won't be you. Reason for this topic is that I actually have heard the 'revenge talk' quite a bit in the encounters I've come across. So now my curiousity is out!!
If I fuck around then I do it free and mutually.
I don't trust cheaters and I won't be you. Reason for this topic is that I actually have heard the 'revenge talk' quite a bit in the encounters I've come across. So now my curiousity is out!!
If I fuck around then I do it free and mutually.