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AppleOfYourEye
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I agree that is insane, I only hope that the child will see the lion's share of it, but I don't hold my breath for it. However in the state of California, the mom / dad (whoever is in custody of the kid) can get up to 26% of the GROSS income for the month. So that means that the guys she is going after for the child support makes at least $177,000 a month (if she filed in California I don't know how it works in other places).

Personally its women like this that make other women look bad. I don't have a problem with a woman getting child support, (in fact I think in most cases its a great thing) but this just sounds like she is a gold digger, she has her own money and a lot of it, but because she doesn't want to be with the guy anymore she is gonna fleece him for everything. She makes all women look like greedy lil bitches who only want a man for his money, makes finding a good honest man even harder than it already is.

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Golf is a great stress releiver. Even if you don't play, you can goto the driving range, and shoot. Pretend that annyoing person is the lil golf ball...you'd be amazed at how far you can hit that lil ball.


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I think five to ten years difference isnt that bad...but when you get older than that, it screams that someone is desprate and has no confidence in themselves. Seeing someone in their 20s date someone in their 40s + is just wrong. You are in two different places of life you have nothing in common except between the sheets, and no matter how much you connect there thats not enough for a long lasting real realtionship. And anyone who dates someone their kids age, well thats even worse for me.

My ideas on this aren't limited to women being the older party, I think it works both ways seeing a 20 something girl with a 40+ man is wrong too.

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Lori & Morgan~~ Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions. I'm always up for a challenge, I don't mind having to fit my writings to someone else right now. The advice is very helpful.

Thanks!!!
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Morgan~~ You mentioned finding out from the publisher what they want in a book, and then write to meet that desire. How does one go about doing that? I have a passion for writing and would love to know how to go about doing it in a methoidical fashion rather than just rushing in and then figuring out what to do. Your advice is a welcome treat.

I know I have a lot of growing to do as an author, so I'm open to all advice and constructive critisim that I can get. I hate when someone says "That's great!" or "That sucks!" That tells me nothing other than you liked it or hated it, but what about it did you like or hate. My own personal pet peeve I guess.

Thanks!!
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I beleive in destiny, and that everything happens for a reason. I beleive you meet the people you do, when you do for a reason. Sometimes its good and sometimes its bad. However, I also beleive that you can help to form your own destiny. Think of how everything has formed who you are. If you took one experience away, would you be the same person you are today?
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Sugar body scrub...super cheap and works great

Using bubble bath for shower gel...I buy the AVON ones, you get 24oz for less than 2 bottles of regular body wash and you use less of it smile

Aveeno facial soaps...I have super sensitive skin so this works best

Witch hazel for toner...can also be used on the bikini area if you get bumps...helps to sooth the skin and stop them from occuring (also great for healing wounds anywhere on the body)

Body gel oils after a shower before drying off

Cheap beer or cheap mayo (the full fat kind) put it in your hair like conditioner put a little plastic wrap and a warm (just from the dryer) towel ... let it sit for 15-30 minutes (depending on how damanged your hair is) then rinse your hair comes out super soft and shiney and dont worry about smelling like a jar of mayo or a brewery once your hair dries the smell goes away.

Apple Cider Vinegar can be used if you have dandruff but color your hair, this wont strip your color

Coffee used on dark brown to black hair can enrich the color

Lemons work great for blonde hair or for lightening up darker hair (gives good highlights)

Using Henna on hair can help bring out reds and bronze colors (its not permanent like most hair dyes, but blondes shouldn't use it since it can darken the hair)

Yoga bellydancing and ballet for a workout, cardio stretching and weight bearing exercises all in one enjoyable (at least for me) workout
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I work in the health care feild primarily with kids and we notice (at least at the clinics I have worked at)the kids with the parents who are "germ-a-phobes" are the ones who have increased risk of asthma (a very life threatening disease) as well as the more simplier things such as the common cold. The kids who go out and play in the dirt and mud and aren't constantly told to stay clean (and I don't mean for your cousins wedding) have almost no asthma history and are healthier people all around.

On that note you do need to wash your hands after such things as the bathroom and handeling meat but there is no reason to wash your hands 20x while fixing dinner. Do you think restaraunt chefs do? Besides everytime you wash your hands you dry the skin out, water is one of the most drying agents to your skin (externally) when done in large quanties, it evaporates off your skin taking your natural moisture with it, when this happens enough you get microcuts in the skin its-self and you can end up getting skin infections that way (no fun). In surgery becuase they have to scrub thier hands with a very unforgiving soap and brush (it tore my hands apart so i wore 3 paris of gloves to protect my patients and my doctor finally had me use this trick instead) they wash thier hands (after surgery) with a lotion that is anti-bacterial...but I have found that washing your hands with normal everyday lotion leaves your hands softer and your nails dont get brittle and break as much.

As for sneezing into your hands (I think DamonX mentioned that) it is a horrible habit, and no you shouldn't sneeze into the person next to you, turn your head side ways and sneeze into your elbow crease. This way any germ you have are in an area that is almost never touched and you dont use it to touch anything with such as door knobs the backs of chairs (the dirtiest thing in an office building by the way) keyboards etc.

Well thats my 2 cents
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Men who have thier foreskin removed end up with a ring around thier penis, this is the scar tissue that is present, it will always remain a slightly different color (typically deeper color but can be paler as well). Most men don't notice it. Since I stated it is scar tissue I'm sure at least one will say that they don't feel it as a scar, well everyone has at least one flat scar on their body thats all this is, now if you wait until you are over the age of 5 to have a circ then the scaring can be a more ridigid pronouncment.

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My question is...why are you so against doctors?

Most of us without the aid of a doctor (or medical practioner...midwives included) would not be here today. Where would you be without modern medicine? Yes, I know typically it isn't the doctors who make the drugs it is a group of scientists but without the doctor you wouldn't have access to those medications when you need them, or to medical help when you need it like after a car accident or a fire etc.
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Blue eyes, light, medium or dark they are all sexy...especially with dark hair...nothing is sexier.

They can be as calm as the morning tide or as angry as the winter waves crashing on the shores, but thier color and vibrant life always shows through.
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I'm 5'10 and I have dated men who were my height and they had problems with me being at eye level.

I have always prefered my man to be taller than me, I want to feel safe and secure in his arms, and I don't think I could feel that way if I'm the taller one in the realtionship. I also like being able to look up at my man. I don't care if he is 6'0 or 8'0 the taller then better, however, height isn't the only criteria that makes a man physically attractive.

As shallow as it is, I just don't think I could date someone shorter than me.
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Eyes, a man's eyes will always grab my attention.

savanna your video clip has amazingly beautiful eyes there is no doubt there, but what about men?
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I wear hose everyday, no matter the temperature, or if I am wearing pants or a skirt, ususally its thigh highs though. Even though no one sees them it makes me feel sexy and femenine to have them on, its also a boost to my confidence, and somedays I really need that.
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As Chef said (and others as well) its all about trust. My man trusts me so he will let me shave him, and he is in a job where his appearance is very important, he cant look scruffy or cut up ever. I think the reason most people don't want to do it is a lack of trust, or a fear of cutting someone.

I was looking at getting a straight razor for a few other things and a strap for it as well, where is the best place to get one?

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What do you think about the alpha male? Wow, I find this question to be real to todays problem with the genders, both need each other and both genders have been confused about the need of a man that take charge and let you see the confident way he moves in the earth.

I call this a tender warrior that most women would love to have holding her. So what do I think about the alpha male, we are here, are needed and it is something you women need to embrace that you need in your life.

It is like they say, women are the weaker vessel, before you get upset, take a real moment to understand, men and women need each other, we are designed that way. Take the statement from bible- Your Husbands.. live with your wofes in an understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since she is women; and grant her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life. (1 Peter 3:7) So before you get mad, ask yourself do, you know what and why he said this in the bible.
After all, this comes from the great one that designed man and women, so before you get mad, think who you are getting mad at and go back to your question posted, what do you think of the alpha male?

Men and women go through life with two different views. They are that way in design and to bring to love what the other needs. So I end this post with the thought that I believe this alpha male wants all you ladies to feel me holding you since you are like fine china, you are delicate and not stoneware. You are fragile and more sensitive. You are a fine-tuned sports care, not a 65 Chevy pickup with mud flaps that men want to drive and touch.

You are more alert to the relationship becuase of you have been given more precisely adjusted sensory ability in terms of relationship. So what is there to think of an alpha male, you wonder and would like on ein your life, Guys, will you ever take the time to engage the brain and intelligently live with this magnificent creature God has place by your side. Do you speak women? Yes, what do you think about aphla male, he is here and knows how to love you as his gift from God. Oh ya, I think you need him.

So let me close with this for you, are you the weaker sex in the terms of lesser or are you the other half that allows man to become complete and move through live complete, because of you.

Now that comes from one hell of a, no not alpha male, but a tender warrior.


Are you serious? It sounds like you don't know much about women but are trying to tell us what you think we want to hear. I think you have a lot of maturing to do still.
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It is illeagle to walk downtown with your lunch pail and it is also illeagle for women to show anything more than thier hands and face in public ... Welcome to Riverside, California
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Please forgive my naivety, but why would this topic even come up on this website. I mean I know that this is an erotic literature website but, what does have to do with that? Nicola has been gracious enough to allow us to come here to talk and express ourselves in our own way, with very few limitations. I think if anyone has any problems with any of the rules there should be no argument, or "clairification" the rules are simple and easy to understand, if you dont like them then just leave. I think it’s sad that Nicola even has to post something like this to a group of adults.
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Men who lie and are unable to keep thier word to anyone.
Men who say one thing one minute then change thier mind the next.