I have had several complaints from regular members about these offcolour topics, and deleted half a dozen threads this last month.
is a very sensitive subject for a lot of people, especially those who have been or know someone who was . I don't feel like it should be a topic flippantly tossed around.
As for the "when did you start masturbating for the first time" type threads, do you really want to know that Timmy or Sally started when they were 8? Come on.
The same rules as the story submissions apply in here.
Please use common rules of decency folks, it's for the betterment of the site and for all concerned. It's a disappointment I even need to post on the subject.
These rules are non-negotiable, and not open to further discussion.
Thank you.
I just noticed this so I'm assuming that your comment is directed towards my earlier thread which I see has now been removed. I honestly thought that there was nothing wrong with the thread since it dealt with role-playing behaviour. It seems odd that I'm able to post a story about it, but not talk about it in the forum...
Damonx, your post came on the back of another this morning, "Do you think all men are capable of ?" It ended up the same way, even though it wasn't perhaps as bad.
There's one thing to be able to write about it when there's a section of the story side of the site dedicated to sexual fantasies and role playing - people have the choice to read those stories or not. The forum tends to be more of an area for less confrontational issues shall we say.
LadyX, I take your point on board, but is rather different from someone being cheated on. I've had 3 or 4 complaints about that one thread in the last 24 hours, and none ever concerning the subject of cheating.
I guess certain subjects tend to flick the switch of people in terms of what they feel is acceptable to discuss, and what isn't - is one of those.
I wasnt saying it was the same thing, oh never mind. Back to sexy pics and questions about cum.
So...just for future notice what terms will be justification for having thread axed? I used "non-consent" in mine and that seemed to do the trick. So where is the line drawn? I had a previous thread concerning "rough sex" which dealt with the exact same stuff, so is it just semantics that is the issue? I don't mean to be difficult, I just need to know which words to avoid in my posts. Maybe there should be a lexicon of forbidden words.
is a most grevious and injurious act of sexual sedition, for it offends the senses and is an affront to the laws of man, God and nature. Worse yet, it is a profanity and subversion of the most intimate act, rendering an act of love into one of hate and contempt. Sex should be an intimate thing, a pleasing meeting between two people...not a vile and despicable act that forces a man to abuse another against their will. I appreciate that there are some who may fantasise about a scenario that could be interpeted as , and that is their perogative.
However.
To the OP:
What we have is a topic that obviously offends and causes considerable distress to the community as a whole, and to nitpick as to the rights and wrongs, the semantics of it....smacks of incredulity and shows a most base disregard for the wellbeing of the members and the community as a whole. How fitting that you seem so fixated on this topic, for do you not realise that by virtue of your incessant commentary on the topic you are forcing something upon us, against our collective will? An act of mental , one may fairly say.
Please, stop. The issue has died its death a considerable time ago, and it would be WONDERFUL if you could stop discussing it.
An awful lot of saber rattling and jousting within a very clear situation.. when you are in someone elses house.. you do as they ask and say thank you for the courtesy of an explanation.. thank you Nic...
WillianBk, LadyX, I dont understand your reaction's or why you are attacking me. Nor do I care. The sooner filth, like you, is removed from this site, the better it will be. Dear fucking god, that a person finds offensive, so THEY get victimised? Oh wait, I must be priggish because Im cramping your "edgy" free speech. Stop for one second, and consider WHY I am so dead set against it then perhaps you will find your answer.
Allow me to talk a little about my life:
I volunteer with a charitable organisation that seeks to help rehabilitate refugees who have been victims of . Most often these people (predominately women) have been abused, tortured and are victims of war or torture, and we hace coped with the aftermath of the Kosovo-Bosnia ethnic cleansing. From a state of catatonic shock, to continual flashbacks, these victims have been to hell and back. Originally intending to begin my work there purely in a clerical capacity (I was convinced I was too weak to stomach the grislier side of the organisation) I found myself determined to help in some meaningful way. Now I am in the midst of the gruelling and intensive training regime designed to prepare me to help these victims.
So you know what?
You may think of me as self-righteous, priggish, a spoilsport, a pompous wind bag. Sadly, I am a lawyer by trade, and so grandiose statements come quickly. But I would be rather BE ALL OF THOSE THINGS, than someone like you LAdyX, WillianBK, to show such a total callousness towards such a ghastly topic. A part of me wishes that someone you loved was so that you can feel the pain, but then, I would not wish that on ANYONE.
Do us all a favour: the next time you decide to open your ignorant mouth, and write your crap, actually take the time to consider: "why?"
Filth? You really don't want to get into a war with me, so I suggest you stop the name calling right there. Good for you on your charity, screw you for judging me, get off your high high horse. Since you are going to get personal with me, let me get personal with you- I have been , I just handle it different than some, because all are different. As far as I am concerned self-righteous people like you are a worse filth than any other. Go post on a charity website, I will have fun here. And yes, yes I get the rules.
The tone here is really unwarranted. Nic posted a reminder of site rules; not an invitation to debate those rules, their wisdom or their morality, or to make personal attacks against those who enforce them or anyone for that matter. I suggest everyone take a step back before someone says or does something to inflame the situation.
Please forgive my naivety, but why would this topic even come up on this website. I mean I know that this is an erotic literature website but, what does have to do with that? Nicola has been gracious enough to allow us to come here to talk and express ourselves in our own way, with very few limitations. I think if anyone has any problems with any of the rules there should be no argument, or "clairification" the rules are simple and easy to understand, if you dont like them then just leave. I think it’s sad that Nicola even has to post something like this to a group of adults.
A valued member deleted their account over this little exchange.
I am leaving it here as a reminder as to why I don't want these subjects discussed.
I hope it's a lesson learned for a few of you.
