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I've written stories before, but never anything of an erotic nature. I'm worried that anything I produce will come across as naive or ill informed, so I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on how to bring across the best experience for the reader. Thank you in advance
Welcome! I've only been here briefly myself. I've found Lush to be a friendly place with lots of encouragement. The wide variety of story genres on the home page demonstrates that everyone is welcome (with only a couple of exceptions in the story guidelines).
Imagination goes a long way. I actually published an erotic story or two when I was a virgin. Of course, writers can learn a lot by reading the works of others. There are thousands of stories here and many ways to access them.
I'm happy to talk privately. Feel free to PM me.
Nerdzilla
Heighten the stakes, cross genres and categories, and always be true to your characters.
Also, it helps to edge a bit as you choreograph the sex. ;)
Also, it helps to edge a bit as you choreograph the sex. ;)
Quote by ChrisPowell68
Imagination goes a long way. I actually published an erotic story or two when I was a virgin. Of course, writers can learn a lot by reading the works of others. There are thousands of stories here and many ways to access them.
Seconding Chris' recommendation. If you want to see what goes well on here, start with the Editor's Picks and Recommended Reads. Going through the entries of a competition that interests would be good, too, since those usually attract some quality writers.
I have done far more sexually in my imagination and therefore in my stories than I have in life (I have had a pretty vanilla sex life). Do a bit of research. Write down the fantasies that come to mind, esp. ones that turn you on. If they get your motor going, they will probably do it for others, too.
And don't be afraid to push your boundaries a bit. Erotic writing is about fantasy and fantasy lets you safely explore ideas that you might not approach with a 10' pole in life. I have some B&D (not really much S&M) in a few of my stories and the likelihood of me doing it for real is pretty slim.
living dead girl
Don't be shy let your imagination run wild and have fun
Also if you feel super uncertain try either A. Watching Porn B. Looking at erotic pictures C. Reading some stories on here to get the feel of it or you know D. All of the above
Listening to sexy music also helps, I recommend Madonna's Erotica and Justify My love.
Everyone's got to break their erotic story cherry at some point.
Don't worry if things aren't perfect Just go for it, I am sure you'll surprise yourself.
Also if you feel super uncertain try either A. Watching Porn B. Looking at erotic pictures C. Reading some stories on here to get the feel of it or you know D. All of the above
Listening to sexy music also helps, I recommend Madonna's Erotica and Justify My love.
Everyone's got to break their erotic story cherry at some point.
Don't worry if things aren't perfect Just go for it, I am sure you'll surprise yourself.
I'd love you to check out my latest
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Nerdzilla
Quote by vanessa26
Don't worry if things aren't perfect Just go for it, I am sure you'll surprise yourself.
Preach! No story is perfect, so don't get bogged down in that so much you don't write or publish. Just do your best. Writing is much like life: if you don't try, you'll never succeed.
Also, before it's on the front page it goes through verifiers who will point you in the right direction if it's too off the mark to publish and there is no shame in that if it happens. My first story here was rejected. Lush offers all writers, amateur and not, an opportunity to share their stories.
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Quote by Katherine
Also, it helps to edge a bit as you choreograph the sex. ;)
True dat.
I say just follow your fantasies. Write about the thing(s) that turns YOU on the most - don't try to please your readers. That'll ensure it's passionate and give it a unique voice. The more you write, the more you can explore.
Simple Scribbler
My advice: first and foremost write to please yourself. Read others. I grow as a writer reading others. Then bring your own feelings, imagination, and personality into your stories. I started writing my own fantasies first and then started branching out. And remember the arts are subjective. Not everyone will like everything you write, and that is okay. Do not take it personally. Read the comments and then adjust or dont based on what feels true to you. And I would gladly proof your first piece, if you want. Best Wishes! Go for it!
living dead girl
Quote by Katherine
Heighten the stakes, cross genres and categories, and always be true to your characters.
Also, it helps to edge a bit as you choreograph the sex. ;)
Edging is excellent advice especially for super tense scenes
I'd love you to check out my latest
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/monster-sex/-summer-of-the-tentacle-.aspx
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I wrote my first story on a whim. Now I love writing stories. I wish i had more time though. It's a bonus when the friends you have here give you small words of encouragement or tell you they enjoy your story. Some even give you advice on how to improve.
Cheese wiz
Quote by Verbal
True dat.
I say just follow your fantasies. Write about the thing(s) that turns YOU on the most - don't try to please your readers. That'll ensure it's passionate and give it a unique voice. The more you write, the more you can explore.
I totally upvote this.84zf48sG740Wl8uB Let your fantasies (and experiences) lead you. I think there may be writers who worry too much if their ideas of eroticism will appeal to anyone. It's very gratifying when you do get a response from people who appreciate your stories and imagination, to know that people share the same tastes as you.
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Seconding Chris' recommendation. If you want to see what goes well on here, start with the Editor's Picks and Recommended Reads. Going through the entries of a competition that interests would be good, too, since those usually attract some quality writers.
I have done far more sexually in my imagination and therefore in my stories than I have in life (I have had a pretty vanilla sex life). Do a bit of research. Write down the fantasies that come to mind, esp. ones that turn you on. If they get your motor going, they will probably do it for others, too.
And don't be afraid to push your boundaries a bit. Erotic writing is about fantasy and fantasy lets you safely explore ideas that you might not approach with a 10' pole in life. I have some B&D (not really much S&M) in a few of my stories and the likelihood of me doing it for real is pretty slim.
Thing is that I am not a particularly sexual person, and I more just wanted to challenge myself by writing things of this nature. Does experiencing more in real life help with this?
Quote by BewareTheChain
Thing is that I am not a particularly sexual person, and I more just wanted to challenge myself by writing things of this nature. Does experiencing more in real life help with this?
I don't think so. I haven't done most of what I write about, just read, watched porn, and fantasized. Sure, it would probably help with getting the feelings and physical sensations right, but it is not a necessity in my experience.
Quote by BewareTheChain
Thing is that I am not a particularly sexual person, and I more just wanted to challenge myself by writing things of this nature. Does experiencing more in real life help with this?
I don't think so. I haven't done most of what I write about, just read, watched porn, and fantasized. Sure, it would probably help with getting the feelings and physical sensations right, but it is not a necessity in my experience.
Quote by BewareTheChain
Thing is that I am not a particularly sexual person, and I more just wanted to challenge myself by writing things of this nature. Does experiencing more in real life help with this?
I don't think so. I haven't done most of what I write about, just read, watched porn, and fantasized. Sure, it would probably help with getting the feelings and physical sensations right, but it is not a necessity in my experience.
Nerdzilla
Quote by BewareTheChain
Thing is that I am not a particularly sexual person, and I more just wanted to challenge myself by writing things of this nature. Does experiencing more in real life help with this?
Writing erotica has really helped me expand my sexual horizons and be comfortable with my sexuality, but I don't think my sexual exploits have helped my writing. Be descriptive about the sex, but beyond that, I think it's about the same as other stories.
Troublemaker
Not sure I have much to add to what has already been said. Just read your first story. You don't have a thing to worry about! Plus if you're Irish you're a born storyteller.
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We understand your concern and worry about not being able to present a story that readers believe, but honestly, I think you are being much too critical of yourself and underestimating your ability. Try to forget those worries and start typing whatever comes to your mind. If those words seem reasonable to you, they will be reasonable to the reader. Most people read stories to escape for a few minutes from their reality and their everyday world. They’re not looking for or wanting, hard facts; but are hoping to find a fantasy world that they can inhabit for a few minutes. Fantasy, by its definition, means ‘make believe’ or ‘pretend’, so use your sexual inexperience to your benefit. By that, I mean, describe your fantasy world and I’m sure your readers will love it.
Another thought you might keep in mind concerning your so-called lack of experience, is that people who write Science Fiction have never been in outer space, or said, “Beam me up, Scottie.” Authors that write fantastic western stories probably never lived in the 1800’s, yet all these writers paint an imaginary picture in our minds, and we love them for it. You can’t imagine how many western and Sci/fi books I have.
Before your story is published for the general membership here, it will be viewed by our very talented and helpful story versifiers. If something is wrong with your story, they will go out of their way to help you and will give advice on how it can be improved. Listen to them and learn from their vast experience. It is no disgrace if they return your story but take that as an opportunity to learn and improve your writing talents.
You said in your opening statement that you have written other types of stories, so having done that, will give you a large advantage over some people here that have never written anything. I think you will find our membership is very generous with their comments, especially with new authors. If I might make a final suggestion, go sit yourself down in front of your keyboard and start hitting those keys. I’m anxiously waiting to see what you create, and I have no doubt it will be great.
Another thought you might keep in mind concerning your so-called lack of experience, is that people who write Science Fiction have never been in outer space, or said, “Beam me up, Scottie.” Authors that write fantastic western stories probably never lived in the 1800’s, yet all these writers paint an imaginary picture in our minds, and we love them for it. You can’t imagine how many western and Sci/fi books I have.
Before your story is published for the general membership here, it will be viewed by our very talented and helpful story versifiers. If something is wrong with your story, they will go out of their way to help you and will give advice on how it can be improved. Listen to them and learn from their vast experience. It is no disgrace if they return your story but take that as an opportunity to learn and improve your writing talents.
You said in your opening statement that you have written other types of stories, so having done that, will give you a large advantage over some people here that have never written anything. I think you will find our membership is very generous with their comments, especially with new authors. If I might make a final suggestion, go sit yourself down in front of your keyboard and start hitting those keys. I’m anxiously waiting to see what you create, and I have no doubt it will be great.
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you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
Dreamer
I agree with all the advice given so far. The only other thing I could add is to write to please yourself. I find if I do that it translates to pleasing my readers. I came to Lush having never written fiction and after my first failed attempts I changed from trying to meet other peoples expectations to meeting my own. It has made a huge difference in what I write.
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I think it's more important to have a good imagination than it is to have a wide range of sexual exploits. Write for yourself and if YOU like it, be brave enough to submit it. The readers and authors here on Lush are very encouraging! Lots of authors are willing to proofread/edit if you need another set of eyes to look at your story before you submit it. Don't be afraid to reach out.
Definitely read stories from multiple genres. Reading helps you get a better feel for pacing and flow.
Once you DO submit a story, go into the thread about self promotion and let people know you have something you'd like them to read. And, by all means, post the link here in this thread so we can all read it too!!
Definitely read stories from multiple genres. Reading helps you get a better feel for pacing and flow.
Once you DO submit a story, go into the thread about self promotion and let people know you have something you'd like them to read. And, by all means, post the link here in this thread so we can all read it too!!
Titty, Clitty Gangbang - a microfiction with a restriction...lol
The Party Line - a naive college grad in the '60s stumbles upon an erotic conversation.
Model Tease - a collaboration flash with a twisty ending
Sigh, Moan, Purr - a microfiction story that will make you sigh, moan, and purr
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I think it's more important to have a good imagination than it is to have a wide range of sexual exploits. Write for yourself and if YOU like it, be brave enough to submit it. The readers and authors here on Lush are very encouraging! Lots of authors are willing to proofread/edit if you need another set of eyes to look at your story before you submit it. Don't be afraid to reach out.
Definitely read stories from multiple genres. Reading helps you get a better feel for pacing and flow.
Once you DO submit a story, go into the thread about self promotion and let people know you have something you'd like them to read. And, by all means, post the link here in this thread so we can all read it too!!
I'll definitely give that a shot, thank you.
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Quote by BewareTheChain
I've written stories before, but never anything of an erotic nature. I'm worried that anything I produce will come across as naive or ill informed, so I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on how to bring across the best experience for the reader. Thank you in advance
I really can't add much to the advice already given. It is all outstanding advice.
I look forward to reading some of your work.
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Quote by Verbal
True dat.
I say just follow your fantasies. Write about the thing(s) that turns YOU on the most - don't try to please your readers. That'll ensure it's passionate and give it a unique voice. The more you write, the more you can explore.
I agree 110% with what Verbal says. I forgot this simple idea and for 9 months I keep trying to write what I thought others wanted to read. I read his simple advice and remember who I am writing for. Now all I can do is thank him from the bottom of my heart. I read this, realized what I was doing and wrote a story that night. It is posted and doing very well. All because Verbal helped me remember who I was truly writing for. Thank you Sir. I owe you a lot more than I can even say.
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Force of Nature
Write. Write whatever comes to mind and publish it. There is no better way to become a writer, or in your case a writer of erotica.
Looks like we're in for a nasty spell of wether.
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Quote by GabrielSweet
I agree 110% with what Verbal says. I forgot this simple idea and for 9 months I keep trying to write what I thought others wanted to read. I read his simple advice and remember who I am writing for. Now all I can do is thank him from the bottom of my heart. I read this, realized what I was doing and wrote a story that night. It is posted and doing very well. All because Verbal helped me remember who I was truly writing for. Thank you Sir. I owe you a lot more than I can even say.
Didn't see this til now. Thanks! And you are welcome. I think it applies particularly well to erotica: you've got to write about your own fantasies (and realities) in order to get any real heat going. If you are getting turned on by your writing, others probably will too.
Top Shot
So this advice is a bit contrary to what has already been proffered. Write as if what you are writing is not erotica. Proof it for grammar and spelling, weedwhack extra words without mercy, and make the sex incidental, a sort of garnish.
Think about your favourite writers and then think about why they are your favourite writers. In my case, if I am turned on by what I am writing, if I am aroused at all, then I stop and walk away....sometimes to return, sometimes not. My end goal, always, is to capture and envelop and arouse the reader--and what captures and envelops and arouses me may not be the same as my end goal.
Myself, I am deeply influenced by Nicholson Baker--his Vox, U & I, and Fermata are snapshots of existence, with sex. Other influences include Boccaccio and Hemingway, Roosevelt and Krakauer, Alexie and Dorris. These don't have to be yours, any more than they have to be anyone else's influences. It's whatever works.
FWIW, my first story was written for a comp--I had never written erotica, nor read true erotica, prior to writing the story. It was accorded a Recommended Read. It's less than 500 words. Check it out: My Favourite Word
Think about your favourite writers and then think about why they are your favourite writers. In my case, if I am turned on by what I am writing, if I am aroused at all, then I stop and walk away....sometimes to return, sometimes not. My end goal, always, is to capture and envelop and arouse the reader--and what captures and envelops and arouses me may not be the same as my end goal.
Myself, I am deeply influenced by Nicholson Baker--his Vox, U & I, and Fermata are snapshots of existence, with sex. Other influences include Boccaccio and Hemingway, Roosevelt and Krakauer, Alexie and Dorris. These don't have to be yours, any more than they have to be anyone else's influences. It's whatever works.
FWIW, my first story was written for a comp--I had never written erotica, nor read true erotica, prior to writing the story. It was accorded a Recommended Read. It's less than 500 words. Check it out: My Favourite Word
Want to spend some time wallowing in a Recommended Read? Pick one! Or two! Or seven!
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Quote by HeraTeleia
So this advice is a bit contrary to what has already been proffered. Write as if what you are writing is not erotica. Proof it for grammar and spelling, weedwhack extra words without mercy, and make the sex incidental, a sort of garnish.
Think about your favourite writers and then think about why they are your favourite writers. In my case, if I am turned on by what I am writing, if I am aroused at all, then I stop and walk away....sometimes to return, sometimes not. My end goal, always, is to capture and envelop and arouse the reader--and what captures and envelops and arouses me may not be the same as my end goal.
Myself, I am deeply influenced by Nicholson Baker--his Vox, U & I, and Fermata are snapshots of existence, with sex. Other influences include Boccaccio and Hemingway, Roosevelt and Krakauer, Alexie and Dorris. These don't have to be yours, any more than they have to be anyone else's influences. It's whatever works.
FWIW, my first story was written for a comp--I had never written erotica, nor read true erotica, prior to writing the story. It was accorded a Recommended Read. It's less than 500 words. Check it out: My Favourite Word
I love Vox. I've stolen from Vox, to be absolutely honest. You ever read his The Way the World Works? Non-fiction, but as excellent as his fiction.
I have a children's book by him - The Everlasting Story of Nory - but I haven't read it. Yet.
My own biggest influences is Elmore Leonard. Fast and funny, pitch perfect tone, and the best writer of dialogue in modern American Lit.
Top Shot
Quote by Verbal
I love Vox. I've stolen from Vox, to be absolutely honest. You ever read his The Way the World Works? Non-fiction, but as excellent as his fiction.
I have a children's book by him - The Everlasting Story of Nory - but I haven't read it. Yet.
My own biggest influences is Elmore Leonard. Fast and funny, pitch perfect tone, and the best writer of dialogue in modern American Lit.
There's a line in "Losing It" that pays homage to Fermata. Fucking love Nicholson Baker.
I have everything he has published, all first edition first printing, all signed. He's the one aberrance from my collection of signed books--I mostly collect Northwest/Lower Mainland/First Nation authors, and then certain other 19th and 18th century authors. Okay, Salman Rushdie would be the other aberrance. And maybe a couple of others. Started when I was ten. It's a long story and a terrible addiction.
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