My wife and I don't have any secrets from each other. We love to discuss our fantasies and share feelings then if the situation is right, we can see if the reality lives up to the fantasy.
For a long time it was my desires for other people. Not usually a traditional experience either. I wanted men. I have fantasies about men w HUGE cocks and many sub fantasies with that in a few different categories. I also have fantasies of men with little dicklet and the so many ways my lady and i can have fun with these as well. But most of all and what i had been tremendously scared yet fasinated by and so still am is trans women. And when it all came to light and my lady started asking questions and digging further into ALL OF MY FANTASIES, the more it turned her on. And now we dont have any secrets in bed whatsoever. Due to this im the most satisfied man i know and I get to live out the sexiest times anyone could hope for. My lady has made me feel like both the king and queen and everything in between to a remarkable level. Thank you all for listening to my schpeel.
There are no secrets between us. Sure, there has been times when he has needed extra reassurance when I discovered that I'm not "straight" because he thought that me being sexually attracted to some women meant I wanted to actually experience it.
My other half doesn't do BDSM or understand why I do. So off I go to explore without her.
Whatever was posted is always meant in love and respect never to offend.
I'm also highly likely to have posted this from a phone so there may be typos or odd word changes, auto correct can be a pain.
I've been listening to my kinky pencil here's my current work
I have been with my wife for 7 years now, married for 5 and she has no fucking clue about the following:
- that I have been cheating on her since even before we got married
- that I visit brothels and fuck prostitutes quite regularly
- that Im a porn addict and jerk off a lot (secretely ofcourse)
- that I love sucking cocks, especially big black cocks (no sex with men, just love holding, jerking and sucking off cocks)
- that I have been fucking one of her best friend for past 5 years (shes also married)
- that I would love to fuck her younger sister (which prob would never happen)
If she ever finds out about any of the above, my marriage is well and truly done and dusted.
Extramarital sex has been rampant in my marriage. We went through a period of about 5 years in which she nearly always had a girlfriend. Sometimes she would share her with me, other times not. On her nights at her gf's for a sleepover, I had the freedom to play. Now the big secret is with a woman a few times she doesn't know I slept with. Many times, I would have my play date sleep over at our house in the guest room with me. This woman, I wouldn't let in the house. It was so secret that I would either sleep at her place or get a room. I didn't realize the complexity of the issue at first. But knowing I had slept with this woman probably would have separated us.
Been together since high school. Married 51 years. Tried keeping a secret once or twice....never got away with it. However I would LOVE to know if she has any secrets!!!!! (The sexier the better! Been trying to get her to set her inner slut free ever since we met so long ago.)