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I was just reading the story "Hard for the Money" recently posted here. Pretty well told story, but that's not my subject.

In the story they are doing a blow job scene, and it finishes with the guy grabbing his cock and jerking off on the girl.

Why? To me this ruins the eroticism of the scene. I've had my share of experiences (partners, masseuses etc) and the last thing I would want is to finish it myself. What a waste.

Why is this kind of scene so common in porn?
Yeah I agree about the blow jobs. They always jerk them selves off. Like wtf is the point of a blow job if you are going to just jerk off? I can do that in the shower. Then there is the issue with the 12 inch cocks. Porn makes them look like the norm. And the women just take them like nothing. They must warm up on a baseball bat. Then there is the issue of dialogue. Or whatever you call it. Oh baby oh baby oh baby. I am not even going to delve into the plastic boobs. Gawd
I am not an expert on this, but for some reason the cumshot seems to be very important in hard core porn. Like it proves that it is all real or something.
I assume that is the reason, why they use the jerking off at the end of pretty much every porn clip.
In written erotica it is a lot less common at least in my experience and could just be a result to the norm shown in porn. This is my theory.
I agree with this.
I can think of nothing less satisfying than pulling out just before climax and chugging onto a woman's back/face etc. Wouldn't a shot of the cum leaking out of of whatever orifice be sufficient to prove the guy came?
There are examples of internal climaxes in some "mainstream" films - the extended cut of Caligula shows this pretty graphically after a bj - and this for me is far more erotic than what is seen in porn films.
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I was just reading the story "Hard for the Money" recently posted here. Pretty well told story, but that's not my subject.

In the story they are doing a blow job scene, and it finishes with the guy grabbing his cock and jerking off on the girl.

Why? To me this ruins the eroticism of the scene. I've had my share of experiences (partners, masseuses etc) and the last thing I would want is to finish it myself. What a waste.

Why is this kind of scene so common in porn?

It's all about the money shot. Apparently that is what the viewer wants to see. That's why you get the close up of the ejaculation. It "proves" that the guy has cum.
This doesn't mean that it's the guy in the film though. Often, heavy cummers are brought in for that shot.
I suppose it is meant to infer birth control, but I would be disappointed if a man did that to me
That's often the way I do it myself: I prefer to jerk my own self and shoot my load anywhere (or everywhere) on her body from a certain distance to see my cum flying. I simply love the mess this creates, plus not every girl has the ability to make me cum with a blowjob.

The same also applies to vaginal sex, where I prefer retracting my dick from her pussy as I'm about to come, quickly removing/throwing the condom, jerking myself intensely and shooting my load somewhere on her body.

It's all about the visual of the cumshot. Apparently some prefer when the ejaculation happens inside the woman (both men and women), but personally I much prefer to release a huge flying cumshot on her body. That's unless we're in a relationship and have both been tested, and can have sex without a condom; then I also enjoy the unique opportunity to perform creampies and felching.
I'd like to add one 'haha yeah right wtf' thing in porn (though I could list many lol): 'reality' porn where guys go around in a van, see a 'random' hot girl, pull over and tell her she's hot..."wanna make a few bucks? just hop in and suck and fuck some cock baby" *girl all excited* "ok!" yeeeah real reality porn there lol
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I'd like to add one 'haha yeah right wtf' thing in porn (though I could list many lol): 'reality' porn where guys go around in a van, see a 'random' hot girl, pull over and tell her she's hot..."wanna make a few bucks? just hop in and suck and fuck some cock baby" *girl all excited* "ok!" yeeeah real reality porn there lol

A bit like all those ones where the girl just happens to have gotten into a taxi only to discover much later that she has no cash! How will she pay the fare......?
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A bit like all those ones where the girl just happens to have gotten into a taxi only to discover much later that she has no cash! How will she pay the fare......?


Lol yup...oh how else...open up I guess
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It just depends on the "want" at that moment and what inspires... but as a "scene" goes, I agree, that it is the visual affect aspect. Sometimes it is a mixture in real life of being visual and other desires and things. I prefer IN me, I always prefer IN and do not like to waste, in whatever orifice, (though I enjoy it ALL- very much), but I find in my experience that it is 'desired' not to stop whatever is going on at that moment... too much pleasure and momentum.
I think when a man comes on a female, it is nasty anyway. But, I never got the point of this either. I rather swallow or have him come inside me. Not on. No thanks, not going to happen...ever.
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It's all about the money shot. Apparently that is what the viewer wants to see. That's why you get the close up of the ejaculation. It "proves" that the guy has cum.
This doesn't mean that it's the guy in the film though. Often, heavy cummers are brought in for that shot.


Can you imagine putting 'cummer' on your resume?

Like most of y'all, I don't like the guy jacking himself off and cumming on the girl either. Who would do that in real life? Not me. Though my wife does like to get a facial shot sometimes, but she pulls it of her mouth and does the stroking.
Why a guy likes looking at a girl with some other guys cum all over her face don't understand it either.
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That's often the way I do it myself: I prefer to jerk my own self and shoot my load anywhere (or everywhere) on her body from a certain distance to see my cum flying. I simply love the mess this creates, plus not every girl has the ability to make me cum with a blowjob.

The same also applies to vaginal sex, where I prefer retracting my dick from her pussy as I'm about to come, quickly removing/throwing the condom, jerking myself intensely and shooting my load somewhere on her body.

It's all about the visual of the cumshot. Apparently some prefer when the ejaculation happens inside the woman (both men and women), but personally I much prefer to release a huge flying cumshot on her body. That's unless we're in a relationship and have both been tested, and can have sex without a condom; then I also enjoy the unique opportunity to perform creampies and felching.


I agree.. I love the visual of the cumshot too plus I love the mess it creates....
I have just watched several porn videos to see if I can understand what is being talked about. It all looks very unsatisfactory to me. It seems there is a basic pattern in the videos I have seen and it makes sex all rather dull.
This is one of the reasons that i dont watch a lot of porn. After getting sucked off for so long and with everything building up to that explosive climax it is so unrealistic to see the guy pull out and jerk off. If it was me doing that sucking I would be regally pissed when he decided at the final moment that he could do the job better himself.
Those last two posts have pretty much hit the nail on the head.
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I am not an expert on this, but for some reason the cumshot seems to be very important in hard core porn. Like it proves that it is all real or something.
I assume that is the reason, why they use the jerking off at the end of pretty much every porn clip.
In written erotica it is a lot less common at least in my experience and could just be a result to the norm shown in porn. This is my theory.


i recently watched an interview with two porn stars and one alluded to the fact that cum shots were needed to prove that a scene is "real". i was always under the impression that they were used to help extend a fantasy. most men don't regularly blow all over their partners.

Say. Her. Name.


Audiences want to either see or have confirmation that someone has had an orgasm.
Women have beautiful faces.
It's two birds with one stone.

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I was just reading the story "Hard for the Money" recently posted here. Pretty well told story, but that's not my subject.

In the story they are doing a blow job scene, and it finishes with the guy grabbing his cock and jerking off on the girl.

Why? To me this ruins the eroticism of the scene. I've had my share of experiences (partners, masseuses etc) and the last thing I would want is to finish it myself. What a waste.

Why is this kind of scene so common in porn?


It depends on what kind of porn you're watching. In some places it's not legally permissible for her to swallow.

And I absolutely love the money shot - or any other shot - of a guy getting off. Stroking a cock and watching him come is such a turn on. In fact, more so than a blowjob at times.
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Why is this kind of scene so common in porn?

It's a visual medium. A lot of concessions are made for how things appear onscreen. It's not unlike it is with any movie or TV show. None of these are literal as the majority tend to find it dull.

You can certainly find porn that doesn't have a money shot. There is variety out there even though the majority may feature money shots.
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Yeah I agree about the blow jobs. They always jerk them selves off. Like wtf is the point of a blow job if you are going to just jerk off? I can do that in the shower. Then there is the issue with the 12 inch cocks. Porn makes them look like the norm. And the women just take them like nothing. They must warm up on a baseball bat. Then there is the issue of dialogue. Or whatever you call it. Oh baby oh baby oh baby. I am not even going to delve into the plastic boobs. Gawd
the guys are big, cause of implants, and pills. It's all for the cameras.
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I think when a man comes on a female, it is nasty anyway. But, I never got the point of this either. I rather swallow or have him come inside me. Not on. No thanks, not going to happen...ever.
same here
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I don't understand the appeal of cumming on a girl's face. I guess it is a sign of conquest? I personally think it is disgusting.
I don't understand the appeal of cumming on a girl's face. I guess it is a sign of conquest? I personally think it is disgusting.
In the porn industry, models (female/male) charge a specific amount for a scene/movie based on the nature of activities they need to perform. For example: A model doing a soft-core scene would not be given as much money for it as a hard-core production. Even in a hard-core porn, the models charge varying rates depending on if its simply going to be a Blow Job or if it involves multiple activities like BJ, Cunnilingus, Rimming, Deepthroat, Penetration, Anal, toys, lesbianism, threesomes or all of the above.

Cumming inside a woman's mouth and having her swallow it costs extra. So from a cost perspective cumming on her face is desirable for producers. Furthermore, I think it's also from a health perspective, swallowing human semen could be considered unhealthy by many and hence porn producers discourage it. Finally, as Sirene has said it is often seen as a sign of male conquest over the female and so it makes for good production value.

Therefore, it is my belief that having a man jerk himself off on a woman's face is encouraged by the porn producers to service both financial and emotional agendas.
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It depends on what kind of porn you're watching. In some places it's not legally permissible for her to swallow.

And I absolutely love the money shot - or any other shot - of a guy getting off. Stroking a cock and watching him come is such a turn on. In fact, more so than a blowjob at times.


My question is not the external vs internal, it's why the guy finishes himself instead o f her. It sure is not fun, at the peak of arousal, to go and finish it myself.
As I stated it is "Conquest" he got the girl, he marks her with his jizz on her face.