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Are there many women under the age of 40 that enjoy the company of a man in his 50s.. A guy who know how to treat a women like a lady.
Im 25 and Im marrying a 40 year old. I love oldermen smile
It's really unusual for me to be attracted to a guy that is my age. Older is definitely sexier. ;)
if he's close to their age, a woman has to teach him. Older...they're more experienced, have things they can teach her. She just has to break him of a few habits.
Older guys can be great at say 50 and she is 30.

However sisters the 20 years can not mean much now, but the 20 year difference at 60 and 80 is something very different for both of them.

I know that is not the question.
I'm engaged at 23 to a 38 y/o. I have loved older men ever since college, and I still love those fantasies & stories. Fifteen years isn't much, but when my family found out they were surprised and a little worried. I love him to bits though, and they soon saw how awesome he is to me, too.
Well I have a strong attraction to older guys ever since losing my virginity to one. There is something about their confidence and self-assurance that turns me on. Not boastful or bragging like younger guys, just a quiet self assurance and control. Right now I am finding guys who are like early 30's are awesome although early 40's is cool. Up to the 50's is probably a stretch for my age. In a funny twist my mom is going for younger guys since her divorce and I am going for older guys. I think she's "going through a phase" and she thinks I'm "going through a phase".....too funny!!
My other half is ten years my senior and yes the years are starting to show in him physically. He is 38 lol not that old but there is nothing wrong with the age difference.
Speaking as the older guy, its always a pleasure to meet a young girl who appreciates sexy maturity and experience. Just remember, though, age is often in the mind. A guy can be old in his 30s, mentally, whereas, in my 50s, I am, and always have been young, and a lover of youth.
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Are there many women under the age of 40 that enjoy the company of a man in his 50s.. A guy who know how to treat a women like a lady.


Yes, I do.
I was always more attracted to 10 to 20 years older men. Now at 34, I feel that sadly this large phenomenon of younger women seducing older men make for older women very challenging to find a man of her own age, thus the explosion of cosmetic surgery. Bless the toy boys who care for MLF and grannies!
Fifteen years ago I preferred older men. Now, I just don't care about age.
It's not a dealbreaker if I find a man that's intelligent, witty and attractive (to me), only to find out he's fifteen or twenty years older than I am.
I'm 21 but I have a lot of friends on here who are in there 40's that i find attractive... age is just a number
Age does not really matter, it is about how you are as a person.
Age is relevant only to the number of candles a person has to blow out.. each candle is a battle someone has one.. and the war isn't over until you stop blowing them out.. life doesn't begin at 20.. nor does it end at 60..
I have many friends here some of whom are in there 50's and above and i find them so attentive, caring willing to listen learn and indulge me. I find it such a big turn on to be valued, cared for like that. So definately any day Older Man for me! they are the best!
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I'm 21 but I have a lot of friends on here who are in there 40's that i find attractive... age is just a number


Damn and panties ... so that stops at 49 does it !!!

Well you can find another bottom to bite then !!! lol
I always thought I'd end up with someone older than me. But now that I'm older I'll just be happy to find someone within 10 years either way of my age smile
Although i have reached that older bracket,i feel that i can relate to any age group of females and have young friends,and i still have a young mans playfullness,but have learnt how to treat a woman .
Yes - sometimes.

I had a two year affair with my (married) boss's boss - he was in his 40's.
there was a time that i was always attracted to older men.... my late husband was 10 years older.... now... it is about a guy's brain... well and i guess some other parts of his anatomy too...

like his feet... i meant his feet!!!!
Older or younger, the right man is the right man. I was married to a guy more than ten years my senior. Now, I am with someone my own age and it's perfect.
Speaking as an older guy I want to say thank all the lovely young ladies who like older men .I would also like to say call me
I agree that age is just a number but I'm always more attracted to older men, something so sexy about self confident men who know who they are and what they want.


HunniDew
I am 41 and I usually prefer older men because they know how to treat a lady and they also realize that there is more to a woman then just their bodies. I am a plus size woman and I have found that most young men are looking for the model types or the porn star body. Older men have usually realized that plus size women have a lot to give and that their hearts ar as big as their bodies usually. But there are always exceptions to the rule. So I am not against younger men as long as they can except me for me.
The first time with a man other than my husband was with a man in his late 50s. It was wonderful.
My husband is 57 and I am 34. LOVE my older man! =)
Annmssb, could you elaborate a bit on why it was so wonderful?
I have always been with older men. Anyone my age is just to immiture for my liking. I was the same way in high school. I am 25 and married to a 39 year old man, nothing wrong with that. before that I was 19 with a man of 33 years. Just preference I guess.
I have always dated older men. Guys, my age are very immature and some do not know what they want in life. I knew what I wanted young in life and that was to date older guys. To me age is just a number, to me what matters is compatibility and maturity level. My husband and I are 17 years apart, and yet we connect on many different levels and have very different backgrounds. Emotionally, my husband has a hard time expressing how he feels and why he feels that way; I on the other hand tell people how I feel and hurt people’s feelings at times. I enjoy learning his experiences in life and seeing things from his perspective and he loves the same from me. I have learned a lot from my husband and am very thankful for that. I personally feel if I was with someone my own age it would be nothing but drama and arguments. Yes, my husband and I have arguments but we are mature enough to talk about them in a timely manner.  The other thing I love about older men is that they have more experience in bed and know their way around down there. ;) I must admit, NO OTHER guy has given me orgasms like my husband has. They are seriously the fucking best!! I love my husband to death, I am so glad he chose me to be his wife.  I would not have it any other way.